@stillwantmore you made some very valid points. But, once again, I believe people misunderstood the point of the OP.
He put it clearly at the very first paragraph:
So, ever since i've been aware of size and everything having to do with sexuality, PE, ect... I've always wondered if dick size makes a man more attractive... Here's the thing, i know there's so much more to what sparks attraction, and i'm not in anyway talking about relationship contentment... I'm just looking directly at whether or not having a bigger dick makes you more attractive to women.... or dudes if that's what you're into.
but still, people keep pointing out that "size is not the most important thing". The OP knows that, and he never meant that size was
the most important thing, much less in a committed relationship. I believe he only meant it from a strictly visual attraction, basic-instinct, point of view.
As in, before they even met you or heard you talk (hence, personality has no bearing), if they spot you from a distance, does the bigger dick make you more attractive?
Now, back to what you said, you are correct and I agree with almost everything. The only thing I couldn't agree with was this:
If all else fails, maybe your standards are too high and you need a reality check.
Assuming that one should have strong, sensible life principles – meaning they remain the same regardless of your evolution as a person – I would suggest that, after the reality check and realising the standards are too high, one should aim at upping their game, so that the high standard becomes attainable. Settling for "what is possible" is only good if it's temporary and part of a long term plan. Otherwise, I believe it will lead to frustration and disappointment down the road.
I truly believe that, if we become the best version of ourselves, we will attract the type of person that complements us in the best way possible (mentally, physically, sexually, spiritually, financially, everything-ly).
Be thankful for what you've achieved, but if deep down you want more, go after it and don't settle for less.
Now, back to the main topic, I still believe a large dick makes us more attractive, whether clothed or naked. However, I would add that there's probably a fine line between "big enough to impress but leave their mouths watering" and "so big it scares them and automatically closes their minds, mouths and legs"
