i don't agree. at all.
woman are by nature designed to fuck the leader.
who is the leader? the one who acts like one.
now 2 scenarios.
guy 1. hot guy walks into the club like: "what up im james bond bitch!" and people react to him this way. therefore aknowledging him as being "the shit" this will be a pattern that will build ego and self worth. and therefore woman will wanna fuck him.
guy 2. not so hot guy walks into the club like: "what up im im james bond bitch!" and people react to him like? what the hell is this piece of shit talking about? this will make a pattern of the ego getting smashed and he will eventually realize that he is not a hot guy.
so what to do?
well. guy 1 is entirely dependent on peoples reactions to him. he is getting fed by their emotions.
if guy 2 has balls. and he finds the inner strenght. he can send exactly the same vibes as guy 1. but it will require alot more work.
the funny thing is. guy 2. will be able to go places guy 1 can only dream off.
you see when guy 1 walks up to a girl and she shoosh him away he is crushed. his ego will be shattered.
he is also the type of guy who falls to pieces when age hits him.
guy 2 however. is not based on ego. he is based on self worth. if guy 1 and 2 has a face off guy 2 will smash him. there is literally nothing guy 1 can do to turn him down. he has been rejected so many times in his life that it is nothing. like a salesman doing his pitch the 1000 time that day this is just another number to guy 2.
for guy 1 nervousness will cripple him when he tryes to push guy 2 down and he can see that there is literally no nervousness in him. it will look like a glass being shattered against a rock.
it is funny as hell.
how do i know all this?
i used to pack 50 pounds of body weight more than now.
i used to stutter. and i was cribbled in fear of talking with woman.
excusing myself with me being introverted women being cruel etc etc.
but i realized that it was my own reality holding me back.
NO ONE IS GOING TO MAKE YOU FEEL LIKE THE BOMB BUT YOURSELF!
i had to walk up to the ugly chick in the club shaking stuttering in the beginning.
and it was fucking hard work.
2 days ago i went out by myself. you know because i wanted to.
and i didn't approach any girls. however a couple of them approached me. and i went home with one of them.
3 days ago some guy at a shisha bar recommended that i should get hair transplants due to my hair decreasing hairline.
guys stop this whole ego shit.
beauty. is effective but easily shattered.
money. money brings the worst out in women. yes hot girls will talk with you. but after you burn 3000dollar on a date. she will give you a kiss on the cheek. why? she knows she is the fucking price. she want that engagement ring to give herself economically safety. and then she will fuck the gardner alejandro!
status: if you are someone. (and these days just about anyone will do)
famous.
bouncer.
bartender
DJ
instructor (preferable in sports)
you will be to women what strippers are to men. most want to fuck you. but thats about it. i have done it. and i love it
dealer: dealer of the goods can easily have a bunch of hot coke heads sucking his dick. aslong as he provides the goods. it is sort of thrilling for a woman to snort cocain and suck a pushers cock.
its kind of the opposite to riverrafting to men. the thrill.
now the only thing you can bring with you is confidence. and sexuality.
and these 2 are stronger than ANY of the others. and without 1 of these 2 you simply cannot get laid.
trust me. i have been hanging out with people from all the different aspects and just think for 2 secs.
just stop!
we all know the hot guy/rich guy/bartender
who gets a ton of pussy.
buuuut think.
do you know a rich guy who doesn't get shit? i know ido.
i know hot guys who doesn't know what the fuck to tell a chick so he doesn't get laid.
and i know bartenders whose sexlifes can best be described with the password to their brazzers account: jerkingovertit3000
now take a guy who as a goof. will walk up to a girl look her in the eyes dead seriously and proclaim: "i love you i always have! will you have my babies?" while he starts singing the lion king theme and dance her around.
if you can do this and feel confident at the same time. then you can get laid 100%
but why is it that guys make up all these excuses?
simple. the alternative is rough on them.
if confidence is the only thing missing. the only thing they can blame. is themself!
bla bla bla. i don't have enough money.
blabla bla. im not rich
well. im half rich! i make a shitload of money.
however! i don't tell it to anyone. and if a girl finds out she is off limit for me. i don't want to be associeted with a god damn piggy bank.
i live in a 1 room apartment in the citys ghetto.
i drive a car worth 1500 dollars.
im bolding.
i have alot of scars.
and i never pay a drink to a chick.
but im getting laid. more than i need.
ohh. and 1 last thing. i always try to convince the girl that i have an incredible small penis. i don't know why but i think it is hilarious
guys. stop excusing yourself to get laid requires confidence. you can get it from something. but then that something can be taken from you.
have confidence because of your own self worth. and you will start finding pussy a waste of time (other than this weekend i haven't chased tail since january due to my training being more interesting
pussy is nice.
so is wine.
and so is ice cream.
i don't need to indulge in any of those all the fucking time. and i will nver complain about someone who doesn't wanna share their icecream. i will simply get it somewhere else