Wondering About Jealousy?

[rawrisroar]

I was talking to my girl (who before we met had never like truly done anything) and she kinda admitted to feeling a guy through jeans, which i was jealous as HELL at first, and i spent like two hours of the conversation trying to not ask the question that first came to mind (were they bigger) and all i could think was that this guy would have been like huge and it was driving me crazy, and i kept thinking what if she liked that more or what if it turned her on more so i kinda caved and asked and her response was "thickness he was a lot smaller like 4 around, and length he said he was 9ish but i didn't feel all of it and i think it was probably a little shorter than you are" she's not the kinda girl that says things to just avoid hurt feelings so at this point i completely stopped being jealous of the guy. So, this got me thinking, I've seen A LOT of threads about dudes on here so worried and jealous over their girl's bigger ex's, so it just kind of got me wondering what other guy's jealousy is caused by, like if you get jealous of them just for having done things with the girl that's now yours or do you just get jealous if they were bigger then you are?

 

[boobyman]

being jelous or worrying about your girls ex's in my opinion is being a little bitch! who gives a fuck if they were bigger, shes with you now and thats all that counts. So suck it up and be a man, have some confidence thats wat girls love. Not a little boy who worries about her past sexual partners penis sizes. FUCK EM!

 

[seekngirth]

well I'd say calling the normal feeling of jealousy "being a lil bitch" a bit off

Jealousy is normal, and we are all here because we want "more" of ourselves for whatever reason.


And to answer the question, I personally wouldn't say I got jealous ... well, if they were bigger I'd be envious that they got their first when it was perhaps tighter ... but that's a different topic (if a girl's had a bigger dick in the past, namely in girth, will she be looser later with you?). I think it's fair to say we'd ALL like our current girls to have NOT been with a big ass cock ... but that isn't reality.

 

[samzman]

i'm one of three guys that my fiance had sex with, one of them was a friend of hers who i guess was drunk with her and fucked her brains out. the kid is an asshole and i guess it just got to me. still to this day i think about it and it gets under my skin. but then again i'm the only guy she ever came while having sex with..so i guess it all evens out.

but generally there is no reason to be nervous or jealous, they left their asses for a reason.

 

[Medicating]

I get the jealousy problem bad. I dated one girl who was experienced and i felt so jealous or like a had pressure on my shoulders. i dated her pretty early on but i haven't dated anyone thats been intimate with a guy before, like they have only kissed, no further. That way it's just less pressure and the only thing you can be beaten on is kissing which isn't that bigger deal. I feel the jealousy of other men. It's such a bitch. It's one of the reasons im here. Now future women won't go, 'Oh my ex was bigger' or something, all she could say is 'You're bigger'.