Seducing shy ''goody goody'' girls

[arabianhung]

I have always been successful in hooking up at a club or a similar type of venue with girls who are confident and or sluts. Even in school I have no problems with those types of girls. I can't seem to figure out how to charm or seduce thoose goody good girls. That alpha as fuck shit doesn't work on them. Have you guys any success in the field?

 

[Exiled15]

Nope im a bad boy to the core and turn on the whores and strippers like a lamp as well!!!

 

[rebel2011]

Ever stop to think that maybe they can see through your Bs? Truth be told most girls know from the first cheesy pick up line they just don't care. They only make you think your charming them when really you are the one giving them just what they want.

You want a good girl. Its easy stop trying to be a "player" because believe it or not they know

 

[arabianhung]

Thats cool. From my experience most girls tend to gobble the bs down there throats and into there stomachs.. Shy more conservative girls seem to need a gentle friendly approach and shit. I never claimed to be a ''player'' and I never said I wanted a goody girl. I want to fuck a goody girl. And who uses pickup lines?

 

[REDZULU2003]

Why do you want to fuck a shy goody girl anyway? make you feel better in accomplishment perhaps? maybe they don't like you? personalities clash not to mention shy goody girls wont be throwing themselves across the place like the usual confident or slutty types.

 

[DLD]

Why do you want to fuck a shy goody girl anyway?

These are my favorite girls! Ones that are shy with a big ass that they are embarrassed about get me going! Insecure, awkward, shy, good-goody, etc. I love em all!

 

[arabianhung]

No I love all kinds of girls don't get me wrong I'll stick my prick in almost anything. I should have been more specific I am trying to fuck one girl in particular and I am seeming to have a problem. She is in no way out of my league (not that I believe in leagues in the first place). However something I just noticed anyways. And Red not at all....Its fucked up but I don't want to get bigger to please girls, I never do anything to please any women, and no girl every told me I was small nor do I feel small when I am hard. I am peing for myself only. If women like it better well so be it

P.S I would see my accomplishments more with sluts as goody good girls don't have much to compare to, so they may just think your regular!

 

[Girth Hammer]

Few things wrong with how you phrased it. I think thats why some are answering it in a way your not felling. Not that im some stud but all i get is the cute good girl you describe and have those sluts your hunting, chasing me but they know I dont like easy cat.

FEW THINGS:

1.Getting a slut or easy girls at a club or bar takes no effort. I use to go to clubs, spot out the group of cute good girls that came together and work on them. Erase whatever you do to get easy ass out your brain!

2. Most goody girls dont want that BS game. that want someone being real to fell comfortable so they can connect, even if its just hooking up.

3. Girls with respect for themself, base thier partners off high risk and low risk. As soon as they hear that silly ass game, your high risk. And to be frank, you become a comedy act than being taking as a legit partner. Learn how to flirt, not kiss your own ass with bragging or whatever else that wont work with a girl of quality.

Going more into my first point. present yourself as.......YOURSELF! This shit isnt a boxing match, no more promoting how cool you are or whats she missing. That shit doesnt work! Stop bragging, gaming and hyping shit up. Good girls like interesting people, any guy can game, what are you bringing to the table to come off as interesting. weither your smart as hell, funny as hell, you two have alot in common.etc.

Hey! its just advice......You can do whatever the fuck you want to do

 

[arabianhung]

Lol GH I watch TMW as well guys funny as hell

 

[vangore]

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[Jeff010]

Few things wrong with how you phrased it. I think thats why some are answering it in a way your not felling. Not that im some stud but all i get is the cute good girl you describe and have those sluts your hunting, chasing me but they know I dont like easy cat.

FEW THINGS:

1.Getting a slut or easy girls at a club or bar takes no effort. I use to go to clubs, spot out the group of cute good girls that came together and work on them. Erase whatever you do to get easy ass out your brain!

2. Most goody girls dont want that BS game. that want someone being real to fell comfortable so they can connect, even if its just hooking up.

3. Girls with respect for themself, base thier partners off high risk and low risk. As soon as they hear that silly ass game, your high risk. And to be frank, you become a comedy act than being taking as a legit partner. Learn how to flirt, not kiss your own ass with bragging or whatever else that wont work with a girl of quality.

Going more into my first point. present yourself as.......YOURSELF! This shit isnt a boxing match, no more promoting how cool you are or whats she missing. That shit doesnt work! Stop bragging, gaming and hyping shit up. Good girls like interesting people, any guy can game, what are you bringing to the table to come off as interesting. weither your smart as hell, funny as hell, you two have alot in common.etc.

Hey! its just advice......You can do whatever the fuck you want to do

Which one of the hodgetwins are you? Lol

 

[Tahir Aqbar]

Which one of the hodgetwins are you? Lol

Lol

But seriously.... I don't think we've defined "game" properly. There are 3 controversial detentions for it:
1. Game - you know that guy who wears the v-necks with the bro muscles who goes to parties and kinda gets laid sometimes by drunk girls... he thinks he has game because that's what he calls it.
2. Game - you know that guy who is all the girl's gay friend but we all know he's straight and he's really juggling a whole group of friends and fucking them all at different times... and seems to always have like 5 female friends with him... and his facebook has like 300 people on it 95% of whom are women because he's a master of female psychology...? He has game. But he uses his powers for evil.
3. That guy who could be doing what number 2 is doing but uses his powers for good, seduces some girl who is waayyy out of his league and dates her for 6 months or longer, the whole time leaving your perplexed as to why and how it is even happening. He has game.


The second 2 are very detailed and involved and have assloads of terminology and strategy involved. It's not about being a boastful asshole or even being someone you are not. Being able to recognize social cues, approach women, keep conversations going only helps exemplify your personality... because once you're good enough everything about "game" becomes second nature and everything that comes out of your mouth is gold. It is, in short, a different way of thinking.

And what's my opinion in all of this? If you want to fuck a goody-good shy, conservative girl you're going to have to date her and maximize her sense of security with you.

 

[DLD]

And what's my opinion in all of this? If you want to fuck a goody-good shy, conservative girl you're going to have to date her and maximize her sense of security with you.

And that should be the fun of it all. The sex is great but the build up to it makes it so much better.

 

[Tahir Aqbar]

And that should be the fun of it all. The sex is great but the build up to it makes it so much better.

Exactly. And from that point it only gets better. I would rather be a guy who got laid once a week from his hot, conservative girlfriend who likes Fox News and Glenn Beck... than fuck 3-4 different girls a week of varying levels of attractiveness whose political views are probably libertarian or just undeveloped.

 

[DLD]

Exactly. And from that point it only gets better. I would rather be a guy who got laid once a week from his hot, conservative girlfriend who likes Fox News and Glenn Beck... than fuck 3-4 different girls a week of varying levels of attractiveness whose political views are probably libertarian or just undeveloped.

True dat!

 

[AdmiralLongDong]

Maybe you should be nice to her first? Ask her out, find out what she's into. Drop a nice compliment or two. Actually have fun being with her.

Also... Being pushy and loud doesn't work for introverts. Introverts get turned off by loud people. It could be you are just too loud and overbearing for the shy types.

You may need to shut up and just be quiet for a while. Take her for a walk and just don't say anything for 10 minutes. Then ask her some simple question like what's your favorite season of the year. Then ask her why... Keep asking questions but don't be pushy about it.

We live in a modern world where extroverts get the most attention. Think of all the dumb people who are famous for being famous, they are all over the entertainment news, but really they don't do anything worth giving a snot about. But shy people often spend a lot of time thinking and if you can get them to open up you'll find out they're full cool ideas.

 

[DLD]

We live in a modern world where extroverts get the most attention. Think of all the dumb people who are famous for being famous, they are all over the entertainment news, but really they don't do anything worth giving a snot about. But shy people often spend a lot of time thinking and if you can get them to open up you'll find out they're full cool ideas.

This is very true. The other part is the reward on the investment, usually these shy girls can become freaks once they meet the right guy.

 

[AdmiralLongDong]

You got it right DLD. Shy girls can be taught to be really dirty in bed.

 

[DLD]

You got it right DLD. Shy girls can be taught to be really dirty in bed.

Mom in the kitchen and a ho in the bedroom!

 

[Jeff010]

Be yourself, honest, but not blunt. Blunt means you'll come off as a asshole and you'll be hugging your dick with your hand 9 times out of 10. We all know you don't want to wife your hand.

 

[DLD]

We all know you don't want to wife your hand.

Yeah, she is such a bitch, believe me!

 

[AdmiralLongDong]

So what ever happened with the shy girl?

 

[DLD]

So what ever happened with the shy girl?

She got the cock and now she is not so shy

 

[rayz]

I think being pushy or aggressive towards a shy girl in the early stage doesn't work.

Base on my experience, I have encountered a lot of shy girls. What works the best is to really talk to them and listen to what they have to say but before you start building rapport, ALWAYS turn on your attraction button. Being confident and funny are also consider attractive as well. Also try to tease her playfully but not too much. From here, observe her body language and indicators of interest. The indicators that I always look for are making sure she's contributing to the conversation, she tells you about herself and try to continue the conversation. If she does this then she is interested in you then slowly move into the rapport stage. If she doesn't show any indicators of interest then just move on dude. Plenty of girls out there but if she's into you. This is where you get to know her well and most importantly MAKE HER TALK. The more she talks then the MORE comfortable she will be around you. Sometime you just gonna ask question that makes her think deeply. For example, I met this girl and I asked her question like "What kind of guys are you into? Do you like guys that have look or guys with good personality?" You see here that you make her think. If she answered "I'm into guys with personalities" then you can ask what kind of personality traits you like the most?" It really doesn't matter what her answer is. The thing is to make her talk and feel comfortable. When you know her well then slowly move into the seduction stage then you should know what to do from here.

I don't pick up girls from bar/club. Those are not quality girls. Just imagine, how great can they be if they just out hunting for sex?

 

[DLD]

I don't pick up girls from bar/club. Those are not quality girls. Just imagine, how great can they be if they just out hunting for sex?

Where are you meeting them?

 

[rayz]

Where are you meeting them?

mostly at my school, my customers at workplace or networking.

 

[DLD]

mostly at my school, my customers at workplace or networking.

Got you! So hang out around the people you want to be associated with. If I want a smart girl, I go to the library, if I want a slut I head to the bar

 

[rakas]

You got it right DLD. Shy girls can be taught to be really dirty in bed.

In my experience the shyest girls tend to be really suBathmateissive and up for kinky stuff in bed.

 

[DLD]

In my experience the shyest girls tend to be really suBathmateissive and up for kinky stuff in bed.

Agree

 

[Tahir Aqbar]

In my experience the shyest girls tend to be really suBathmateissive and up for kinky stuff in bed.

We call them closet freaks down here in the south.