Re-Introducing Lightning and about MoS (Pictures Inside)

Lightning

The Legendary Mistress with the Whips
Staff member
Hello to all. Some of you may know me, and some of you may not.

I started [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/join-now.html]MoS[/words] with DLD over 15 years ago, April 11, 2003 to be exact.

For the past 7 years I have been fighting liver complications that has led me to be out of commission due to meds and recovering. Throughout this time, I remained in the background making sure the [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/join-now.html]MoS[/words] servers stay online as well as dealing with many severe security breaches on [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/join-now.html]MoS[/words] here that would of cost most other forums to shut down.

Throughout this time, DLD has been in of out the hospital as well and we have both been through some serious medical issues both both do our part along with our Moderators to keep this place going for you guys.

I will start posting some stories about myself in these forums.

For those that don't know, I was a partner to some of the internets largest adult entertainment sites including Bang Bros, Reality Kings and several other large Gonzo sites. I have worked with many celebrities and married a top Miami model/stripper and in an interracial marriage.

I use to be involved with Blac Chynna (she had a baby and Reality Show with Rob Kardashian).

I am an overweight out of shape average looking white man in his late 40's with a slightly above average penis size, no money, no fancy car, no big home but have worked and dated with enough women to know what they want and landed some of the hottest swimsuit models/strippers in Miami.

So I have many stories to share with you guys involving...

• Being white and married to an afro american swimsuit model/stripper
• Working in the adult entertainment industry with many actors and actresses
• Manager of many adult entertainment actresses an studs
• Management of Mandingo, Ramon, JT, Jay Mack etc in Male adult entertainment
• Good friends and experiences with Jenna Jamieson
• How to have game with these women at any league/level
• Black women and penis sizes (real info)
• adult entertainment actresses and penis sizes (real info)
• Semi-Pro [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/showthread.php?83810-MoS-Online-Texas-Holdem-Poker-League-and-Tournament-to-win-P-E-Prizes!!!]Poker[/words] Stories
• My music history with famous celebrities
• My history with many women (including some that performed with Mandingo)

and whatever else you may want to know relating to male physical and mental sexuality.

So fire away with questions. I leave you with a few pictures of me and my wife...:cool::cool::cool:

Recent Club Picture

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My wifes swimsuit days

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The first day we met in the Miami strip club...

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Biz Markie, My Wife and the Brat

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Me and her up at DLDs house in Mass

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Hey Lightening!
How's your recovery coming along and what's the prognosis? (also was this affliction due to 'lifestyle' or other factors, i.e heredity, geography?)

p.s. you two make a cute couple :)
 
Thanks! Recovery is coming along well.

We met while I was in my [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/showthread.php?83810-MoS-Online-Texas-Holdem-Poker-League-and-Tournament-to-win-P-E-Prizes!!!]poker[/words] phase of life about 8 years ago. Me and some boys would play [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/showthread.php?83810-MoS-Online-Texas-Holdem-Poker-League-and-Tournament-to-win-P-E-Prizes!!!]poker[/words] at the Hardrock Casino in Hollywood, [words=http://fleshlight.sjv.io/c/348327/302851/4702]Fl[/words] and hit strip clubs after to get drunk.

We hung out at a allot of strip clubs and spent some nights at one of the biggest strip clubs in the US out in Miami. I have always been into women of color however this one strip club had my fav type of music (EDM) but 150 white blonde chicks every night and only three or four black chicks. The black chicks in this club were so upscale that they were the same 5 regular "token black girls" there. This club is all about the art of dance and sexiness. It is not the type of club or women that get badly associated to the stripper game.

Well me liking black women, and loving the music of this club, I talked to the few black girls there for entertainment. I became a regular John with one of the black dancers there and had quite a few drunk nights there. Well this girls stage name was Molly. Molly would come sit in a booth with me many nights and fall asleep on me (drugs/alcohol use). This club is so strict that they do not offer many black women and when they lose one, they become hard to replace. Most the black women that work there have been there 10 years and make really good money so they have long term Johns (customers).

I stopped going there for a while and finally returned and was looking for Molly. By the time I finally saw Molly (so I thought I did) I was drunk being a dick. Molly came over and sat with me as usually but I was so drunk, I didn't realize it wasn't Molly any longer and Molly was replaced with who would be my future wife years later.

So the time I met my wife, I was so drunk being a complete dick, talking shit to this new girl that I thought was Molly (who was use to my drunk shit). Until I called her Molly enough times and she told me she wasn't Molly and Molly was no longer there, I told her to fuck off then and she walked away.

Fast forward a week later, I come in the club again during the day when I was sober to have lunch and look at some ass, I see this new girl again now on a day shift and for some unknown fucking reason, she came up to me again. Well this time I apologized and the game began there from her side and mine. She was trying to get paid for dances but I didn't care to spend money on her. Well as I came in a few times more, we began becoming cool (no money involved) and I helped her get a job at another big strip club she heard about.

She lived in Miami but had the typical story of the small country girl from the woods of NC in the bible belt leaving the small town on a bus making the stupid move allot of women do by taking a chance leaving security for the unknown and becoming a dancer and taking that chance in that really dark business.


Come to find out, Molly got caught up with a pimp, put out on the streets and died from drug overdose.
 
Good to put a face with a name Lightning. Good looking couple and a great story on how the two of you met. I look forward to hearing the stories you will tell. Great to hear that the recovery is going well.
 
DLD speaks very highly of you. I don't know how you can come here and not blush constantly.

I have a fascination with the adult entertainment industry and had I of known about real average penis size when I was in my early 20s then I would've been fighting to cross paths with someone like you. Being married and now 40yrs old that life just isn't going to happen.

What is the liver diagnosis exactly? What's the treatment?
 
Not sure what you mean about "Being married and now 40yrs old that life just isn't going to happen."
Yeah you are prob never going to be a adult entertainment stud at your age and being married but that life sucks anyway. Studs make on average $200 - $400 a scene depending on how well you are known and the extents you will go to.

My diagnosis was Cirrhosis End Stage of liver with severe Ascites in my abdomen which caused me to accumulate about 25lbs. of excess fluid every week. I lost allot of muscle and was in bed for about 6 months. They had catheters inside my stomach to drain me. The last year was really rough.
 
Very impress by your come back Lightening. Actually, since you left, the activities on the forum has been slow but I'm sure now that you are back everything will go back to normal. I'm interested to hear your story and especially about • Black women and penis sizes (real info)
• adult entertainment actresses and penis sizes (real info)
 
Great to hear from you Lighting! Looking forward to more info and stories, so far very entertaining.

I'm very sorry about the health conditions, I was even thinking about the possibility of organ donor, but don't know how that could had worked, as I live far away in Scandinavia way ...
Wishing you the best of health and as said, looking forward to hearing more history! Thanks for setting up this place with DLD!
 
I'm also very intrigued by the adult entertainment industry. It seems that the women are churned-out, chewed-up and replaced after a few scenes, while the same guys are filmed over and over. How difficult is it to be male talent?
 
From my research based on my own curiosity. It's not "difficult" to get into adult entertainment. You DO however need to go in with some things in mind. Location is one. Where you live in relation to the studio you might try to do work with. Do they have to pay for your travel expenses? Are you on the other side of the country, world, several hundred miles away? Are the next 100 guys in the same city? Whos going to be getting more work.. you or Mr Convenient?

STDs. You WILL get them. Period. Yes, testing for the "big" ones is regular, but condoms don't sell adult entertainment, most "straight" adult entertainment at least is done without condoms. Be that guy who insists on condoms and see how much work you get. Count on getting herpes and probably genital warts. I know, most sexually active adults already have one, or both, but keep it in mind.

Are you just another guy with a decent size? Or are you bringing something unique to the camera? Can you perform sexually under shooting deadlines with a director asking you to stop, hold this position while they take several still shots (pictures), your co star takes a smoke break, pee breaks, oops she didn't douche her ass as well as she thought she did, we have poop... cut, edit note to cut that scene, take 10 everyone... multiple cameras and sets of eyes and people moving around you etc, etc??

Then, there's the pay scale. It's very sexist against men. Jaz is right. $200-$600 a scene. And if you think most guys get repeat work, multiple scenes a day/week, dream on.

So really, unless you're bringing something new that's not already been done, I wouldn't count on adult entertainment for a "break".
 
...well, it most certainly wouldn't be for the money aspect (a paper-route and mowing lawns would pay more), it'd be more for the 'experience'. the whole STD factor is a deal-killer for me
 
I recall reading an open, honest interview with Rocco Siffredi several years ago (big name Italian adult entertainment stud, been around a long time) and he had a very nonchalant attitude about STDS in adult entertainment "yes yes everyone has the little ones" was the gist of it.
 
stillwantmore2;763546 said:
From my research based on my own curiosity. It's not "difficult" to get into adult entertainment. You DO however need to go in with some things in mind. Location is one. Where you live in relation to the studio you might try to do work with. Do they have to pay for your travel expenses? Are you on the other side of the country, world, several hundred miles away? Are the next 100 guys in the same city? Whos going to be getting more work.. you or Mr Convenient?

STDs. You WILL get them. Period. Yes, testing for the "big" ones is regular, but condoms don't sell adult entertainment, most "straight" adult entertainment at least is done without condoms. Be that guy who insists on condoms and see how much work you get. Count on getting herpes and probably genital warts. I know, most sexually active adults already have one, or both, but keep it in mind.

Are you just another guy with a decent size? Or are you bringing something unique to the camera? Can you perform sexually under shooting deadlines with a director asking you to stop, hold this position while they take several still shots (pictures), your co star takes a smoke break, pee breaks, oops she didn't douche her ass as well as she thought she did, we have poop... cut, edit note to cut that scene, take 10 everyone... multiple cameras and sets of eyes and people moving around you etc, etc??

Then, there's the pay scale. It's very sexist against men. Jaz is right. $200-$600 a scene. And if you think most guys get repeat work, multiple scenes a day/week, dream on.

So really, unless you're bringing something new that's not already been done, I wouldn't count on adult entertainment for a "break".

After reading this, I don't think I can ever do adult entertainment in this life even if it's the only job available. I rather be a beggar on the street. Free STD's for free distribution? That's a deal killer as stated by Big Schwanz Acht.
 
LIGHTNING;763488 said:
Not sure what you mean about "Being married and now 40yrs old that life just isn't going to happen."
Yeah you are prob never going to be a adult entertainment stud at your age and being married but that life sucks anyway. Studs make on average $200 - $400 a scene depending on how well you are known and the extents you will go to.

My diagnosis was Cirrhosis End Stage of liver with severe Ascites in my abdomen which caused me to accumulate about 25lbs. of excess fluid every week. I lost allot of muscle and was in bed for about 6 months. They had catheters inside my stomach to drain me. The last year was really rough.

You do have some guys who became "big names" in adult entertainment and that may (or may not) be fun. I have read the pay is a bit better if you are a guy that gets requested on a regular basis but the girls do all get more as they're the main attraction. It would've been interesting to try when I was young and single. Where's my time machine?

So is the liver okay now? What's the projected future?


Years ago on another forum we had a guy who started off as a camera guy in adult entertainment, eventually performed, started his own website, and now does all 3. He painted a somewhat nice picture of the industry but seeing as how it was keeping him employed and living well I guess it would appear nice.
 
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cladre60;763592 said:
You do have some guys who became "big names" in adult entertainment and that may (or may not) be fun. I have read the pay is a bit better if you are a guy that gets requested on a regular basis but the girls do all get more as they're the main attraction. It would've been interesting to try when I was young and single. Where's my time machine?

Shane started with 39. He was afraid if he would start earlier that the xxx business might mess up his life. Being older made him more immune to all the pitfalls within this scene he claims. I am well aware of the problems that come once you are in Hollywood so the same seems to apply for the xxx scene.
 
Big Schwanz Acht;763536 said:
I'm also very intrigued by the adult entertainment industry. It seems that the women are churned-out, chewed-up and replaced after a few scenes, while the same guys are filmed over and over. How difficult is it to be male talent?

Japan has only three male pornstars for the entire country. I saw this documentary about it but I can't find it right now. The guy is hustling all day driving from scene to scene. He uses fitness supplements to stay in shape.
 
Chaoskampf;763603 said:
Japan has only three male pornstars for the entire country. I saw this documentary about it but I can't find it right now. The guy is hustling all day driving from scene to scene. He uses fitness supplements to stay in shape.

Maybe a few people with monstrous penis on [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/join-now.html]MOS[/words] can join them in the adult entertainment business in Japan :)
 
Chaoskampf;763602 said:
Shane started with 39. He was afraid if he would start earlier that the xxx business might mess up his life. Being older made him more immune to all the pitfalls within this scene he claims. I am well aware of the problems that come once you are in Hollywood so the same seems to apply for the xxx scene.

Rocco also started around 40 and is still going strong some two decades later. ;)
 
Awesome to meet you lightning! I’ve seen you around, glad to see you post here!

I wanted to comment on the adult entertainment thing... I think this is going to change along with many other things in today’s society. Nothing is stopping someone with a huge dick or a special body or talent to record a video and post that sucker themselves online somewhere. Have some hot girls who are down, perform some crazy scenes with some decent video quality and you’ll get the views! You can always market your vids too, or advertise for them to get videos (buy banner [words=http://www.phallosan.com/shop/catalog/default.php?z=eNortjIxtVKyL0pNszWxMFcrSSxKTy2JL0hMT7U1UisoykyxtbBQSy4tLsnPjS8uKcrMS7dVsgZcMMpbEbo%2C]ads[/words], etc). I can see DLD plastering some girls and having banner [words=http://www.phallosan.com/shop/catalog/default.php?z=eNortjIxtVKyL0pNszWxMFcrSSxKTy2JL0hMT7U1UisoykyxtbBQSy4tLsnPjS8uKcrMS7dVsgZcMMpbEbo%2C]ads[/words] on xvideos and attracting hundreds of thousands of views!
 
Chaoskampf;763602 said:
Shane started with 39. He was afraid if he would start earlier that the xxx business might mess up his life. Being older made him more immune to all the pitfalls within this scene he claims. I am well aware of the problems that come once you are in Hollywood so the same seems to apply for the xxx scene.

You just HAD to tell me that didn't you?

Damnit.

My wife wouldn't approve though. If I'm committed to someone I'm committed. To my knowledge she'd never do that. I pretty much chalk it up to the daydreams of having my own private island with tons of "toys" and a full staff to keep the place clean.
 
RR04;763687 said:
Awesome to meet you lightning! I’ve seen you around, glad to see you post here!

I wanted to comment on the adult entertainment thing... I think this is going to change along with many other things in today’s society. Nothing is stopping someone with a huge dick or a special body or talent to record a video and post that sucker themselves online somewhere. Have some hot girls who are down, perform some crazy scenes with some decent video quality and you’ll get the views! You can always market your vids too, or advertise for them to get videos (buy banner [words=http://www.phallosan.com/shop/catalog/default.php?z=eNortjIxtVKyL0pNszWxMFcrSSxKTy2JL0hMT7U1UisoykyxtbBQSy4tLsnPjS8uKcrMS7dVsgZcMMpbEbo%2C]ads[/words], etc). I can see DLD plastering some girls and having banner [words=http://www.phallosan.com/shop/catalog/default.php?z=eNortjIxtVKyL0pNszWxMFcrSSxKTy2JL0hMT7U1UisoykyxtbBQSy4tLsnPjS8uKcrMS7dVsgZcMMpbEbo%2C]ads[/words] on xvideos and attracting hundreds of thousands of views!

Things totally change when someone is watching you have sex. The first time I had sex with a friend in the room it was awkward. Another time a friend and I were both having sex side by side. He couldn't finish until they went into the shower. I could've but simply didn't until I was ready.

Depending on the angles you want you may need 1 or 2 people filming.
 
cladre60;763692 said:
Things totally change when someone is watching you have sex. The first time I had sex with a friend in the room it was awkward. Another time a friend and I were both having sex side by side. He couldn't finish until they went into the shower. I could've but simply didn't until I was ready.

Depending on the angles you want you may need 1 or 2 people filming.

Tripods! :)
 
cladre60;763692 said:
Things totally change when someone is watching you have sex. The first time I had sex with a friend in the room it was awkward. Another time a friend and I were both having sex side by side. He couldn't finish until they went into the shower. I could've but simply didn't until I was ready.

Depending on the angles you want you may need 1 or 2 people filming.

Same with me. I'm never comfortable having sex with someone around watching me.
 
RR04;763687 said:
Awesome to meet you lightning! I’ve seen you around, glad to see you post here!

The Man behind the curtain!
 
RR04;763695 said:

DLD? I don't know if he'd film any of us having sex.


huge-girth;763739 said:
Same with me. I'm never comfortable having sex with someone around watching me.

I got comfortable the 2nd time but I've only done it 5 or 6 times. Not a big deal after a while.
 
cladre60;763898 said:
DLD? I don't know if he'd film any of us having sex.




I got comfortable the 2nd time but I've only done it 5 or 6 times. Not a big deal after a while.

I might give it a try some other time.
 
huge-girth;763838 said:
Waiting patiently to read more from Lightening

He said He was coming back to answer, I just talked with Him
 
Big Schwanz Acht;763972 said:
It's a lot of fun! It's more about the excitement/experience than the actual sex, tho

It certainly can be fun. The 1 time I was trying to make my vagina bearer moan more than his vagina bearer. The other woman commented jokingly that she getting jealous. Then the chick I was banging whispered about how white the other guys ass looked. Without missing a stroke I turned, looked, and told him he had a cute ass.

He went limp laughing and cursing at me.

Fun times.
 
huge-girth;763495 said:
Very impress by your come back Lightening. Actually, since you left, the activities on the forum has been slow but I'm sure now that you are back everything will go back to normal. I'm interested to hear your story and especially about • Black women and penis sizes (real info)
• adult entertainment actresses and penis sizes (real info)


Thanks! Fire away with questions if you have them.
 
cladre60;763592 said:
So is the liver okay now? What's the projected future?


Thanks for asking! I am waiting to get on a transplant list. I have been improving as far as feeling better but my urine is a dark brown/black coffee color all the time except when I take water pills, my urine immediately changes to a clear yellow urine color. Pretty nasty.
 
LIGHTNING;764134 said:
Thanks for asking! I am waiting to get on a transplant list. I have been improving as far as feeling better but my urine is a dark brown/black coffee color all the time except when I take water pills, my urine immediately changes to a clear yellow urine color. Pretty nasty.

Yeah that's pretty disgusting. My wife is dealing with a fatty liver. That's the initial diagnosis and she's getting a bunch of tests and scans done soon. Hopefully we can keep it controlled.
 
RR04;763687 said:
Awesome to meet you lightning! I’ve seen you around, glad to see you post here!

I wanted to comment on the adult entertainment thing... I think this is going to change along with many other things in today’s society. Nothing is stopping someone with a huge dick or a special body or talent to record a video and post that sucker themselves online somewhere. Have some hot girls who are down, perform some crazy scenes with some decent video quality and you’ll get the views! You can always market your vids too, or advertise for them to get videos (buy banner [words=http://www.phallosan.com/shop/catalog/default.php?z=eNortjIxtVKyL0pNszWxMFcrSSxKTy2JL0hMT7U1UisoykyxtbBQSy4tLsnPjS8uKcrMS7dVsgZcMMpbEbo%2C]ads[/words], etc). I can see DLD plastering some girls and having banner [words=http://www.phallosan.com/shop/catalog/default.php?z=eNortjIxtVKyL0pNszWxMFcrSSxKTy2JL0hMT7U1UisoykyxtbBQSy4tLsnPjS8uKcrMS7dVsgZcMMpbEbo%2C]ads[/words] on xvideos and attracting hundreds of thousands of views!

Thanks! I dated a healthy amount of strippers. I use to always tell them not to alter their body for dancing to make a few extra bucks. I told them that eventually men are going to start liking natural women again and I was right. Now allot of this booty injected dancers will suffer the rest of their life with itchy discolored booties with silicon or who knows what slowly relocating down their legs.
 
Ohhh damn Lightning's back!! I knew you were a fountain of knowledge aha, great you're back.
p.s you're definitely better than average looking :)
 
LIGHTNING;764133 said:
Thanks! Fire away with questions if you have them.

What do you have to say about black women and penis sizes? Is the bigger the better? Does the black woman have a bigger vaginal? Is there anything like that?
 
trefyy;764158 said:
Ohhh damn Lightning's back!! I knew you were a fountain of knowledge aha, great you're back.
p.s you're definitely better than average looking :)

Yup, He was sick but our prayers came through and He is back on point!
 
Do tell about both black women and adult entertainment actresses and penis size. I've noticed every Hispanic, Asian, and white girl I've fucked has acted like my dick is big, but black girls act like it's normal (I'm 7")
 
dmoney101;764298 said:
Do tell about both black women and adult entertainment actresses and penis size. I've noticed every Hispanic, Asian, and white girl I've fucked has acted like my dick is big, but black girls act like it's normal (I'm 7")

Where the fuck you been my Brother? D-Money in the House! What have you been up to?
 
trefyy;764158 said:
ohhh damn lightning's back!! I knew you were a fountain of knowledge aha, great you're back.
P.s you're definitely better than average looking :)

truth
 
doublelongdaddy;764361 said:
Where the fuck you been my Brother? D-Money in the House! What have you been up to?

LOL I been on here off and on recently. You've even posted in some (if not all) of my threads lol. I've been back at pe for probably 2 months. I'm trying my hardest to stick with it this time. Every time I've started a routine in the past I either started a relationship then quit being able to, went y
To jail, or got discouraged after 3 months because I didn't make any gains.
 
dmoney101;764419 said:
LOL I been on here off and on recently. You've even posted in some (if not all) of my threads lol. I've been back at pe for probably 2 months. I'm trying my hardest to stick with it this time. Every time I've started a routine in the past I either started a relationship then quit being able to, went y
To jail, or got discouraged after 3 months because I didn't make any gains.

Try to stick to your routine this time and maybe avoid relationship too and get a progress log :)
 
dmoney101;764419 said:
LOL I been on here off and on recently. You've even posted in some (if not all) of my threads lol. I've been back at pe for probably 2 months. I'm trying my hardest to stick with it this time. Every time I've started a routine in the past I either started a relationship then quit being able to, went y
To jail, or got discouraged after 3 months because I didn't make any gains.

lol, I guess PE in jail don't go so good :) Stay on the forums and avoid the cops! Glad to see you posting agin!
 
doublelongdaddy;764495 said:
lol, I guess PE in jail don't go so good :) Stay on the forums and avoid the cops! Glad to see you posting agin!

I haven't been arrested in a while lol. The biggest problems in recent years have been relationships and getting discouraged. I'm impatient as hell, so working every day for a couple months but not seeing growth always gets me. I'm going at it hard now though. Never put my full strength into my stretches up until recently. Now I'm pulling until my arms and hands start to hurt lol. I'm hoping that, plus adding 20 minutes of jelqing (which I haven't done since I was like 16 or 17) will have an impact and help me see some gains to keep me going.
 
dmoney101;764517 said:
I haven't been arrested in a while lol. The biggest problems in recent years have been relationships and getting discouraged. I'm impatient as hell, so working every day for a couple months but not seeing growth always gets me. I'm going at it hard now though. Never put my full strength into my stretches up until recently. Now I'm pulling until my arms and hands start to hurt lol. I'm hoping that, plus adding 20 minutes of jelqing (which I haven't done since I was like 16 or 17) will have an impact and help me see some gains to keep me going.

I'm an Aries who suffered due to impatience. Now I'm learning to be patient no matter what.
 
dmoney101;764517 said:
I haven't been arrested in a while lol. The biggest problems in recent years have been relationships and getting discouraged. I'm impatient as hell, so working every day for a couple months but not seeing growth always gets me. I'm going at it hard now though. Never put my full strength into my stretches up until recently. Now I'm pulling until my arms and hands start to hurt lol. I'm hoping that, plus adding 20 minutes of jelqing (which I haven't done since I was like 16 or 17) will have an impact and help me see some gains to keep me going.

I love the new spirit and thank you for being honest about not putting your all into things before. It is important in the highest order that we be motivated, consistent, accountable and always pushing for more intensity. Do not plan on any time schedule, just get to work as hard as you can and you will no when the gains are happening. I believe in you my Brother and I know if you come daily to say hello we will keep you on point and task, making the monster a reality!
 
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