My wife has known from beginning and is totally cool with it, she even pops into the bathroom every once in awhile while I'm in the middle of a routine and grabs my penis and says it's so big it looks fake (shes always thought it was very big to begin with). Multiple times she has been in the bathroom with me and just watches me use my bathmate, she likes to see it, but she gives me my privacy as well. I don't really know how wives or girlfriends wouldn't think something is going on from being in the bathroom for an hour or more and then when you come out your penis super engorged larger than it ever is. EDIT: I've even sat on the couch wearing my bathmate while we watch a movie, play a video game etc.
That's so good.
My wife just controlled my pump just before, after a jelq session she walked in on.
Told her from the start, she's seen pumping, jelqing, phallosan (try to time this so that it's off when I'm around her).
She only hasn't witnessed hanging.
I think it's totally worth telling them. Personally I feel like it's like keeping something from them if I didn't say anything especially when there is so much time that goes into it, that for me would get to me mentally and she would pick up on that. Then there's weird energy and possibly stuffs up bedroom time, the whole reason you're doing it.
If you believe you want it for the right reasons then everything should be on the table. After all you want to pleasure them and also feel more confident and just better, more self respect and gratitude for yourself and your manhood etc, you worked for that penis and gains damn it! Not only for yourself but for them.
We have shown up on this earth and been gifted a body that happens to be male.
The fitness industry is a billion dollar industry for a reason, it's also more common and more accepted, in this people work on their bodies. To me this is showing gratitude and taking care of the body you have.
Why is it so taboo to want the same for your dick. For anyone who doesn't involve them self in PE or male enhancement, are you really grateful? Use it then throw it back in your pants or it won't come back out till you want pleasure either yourself or with someone. This male enhancement business is not easy for the most part, it's a grind.LOL. You are working for what you have and you want it better, cuto's to you!
Male enhancement is like the gym for our sexual health.
With that I think you learn so much about yourself and even your relationship, it builds up resilience, discipline and patients all through dedication working on manhood and overall health.
My wife says "I agree". (clap)
I must say though, the first time around. There was shit and it wasn't an easy road. Didn't like it and ended up ruining the energy for a little while. Not good.
6 month break from PE went by and I was like hang on, came up with all the reasons to why, came up with real honest and genuine reasons. (All steam ahead. Perspective is a beautiful thing when swayed in the right direction).
Haven't read fully into penis envy however I think I get the drift.
I just think balance is necessary. Why is it any different to working out in the gym for 1-3 hours and then doing everything in your power outside of the gym (21-23 hours) to make sure you recover and keep gaining results.
Total honesty and openness is going to 1) Give you the time because she won't think where the fuck is he or why has he been in there so long and 2) Get rid of the unquestionable energy you'll give off trying to hide all this.
I also agree that it may take a certain women. Maybe I have been gifted with one. ?(hearteyes)
