My PE Journey

[DLD]

It was strange. The way she was jerking me off actually brought me down. There was no grace or sensuality to it and it was very mechanical. I then got in my head as I was thinking that she must know what she’s doing (from experience) but it’s not working for me. I then told her it’s not working for me like that. She asked me how I like it and I showed her and then she was like “oh god that’s so different” in a sarcastic tone and then it was over anyway. I got softer and softer and lost my sexual state. Talking about women not being able to take criticism lol.
Anyway, it felt all mechanical and performative and I just spiralled down.
I guess the anxiety was that she would be turned off by me not performing which was not true as she is still in touch with me. That she commented on the big size of my D did not help as it put even more pressure on me.

Again with this other girl I’ve been sleeping with for one year I was just turned on by the size of my D laying on her belly and almost reaching from V entrance to her belly button. I was like “fuck yeah, I’m gonna stretch you out” being rock hard.

I don’t feel traumatised by it but I think if what the girl is doing to me is just not working for me In my mind I’m thinking that it should work and I’m the “not normal one” that it doesn’t work for me. I had another encounter in the past where she sat on my D (not being inside her) trapping it and grinding and it just didn’t do anything for me, quite the contrary actually and that brought it down. Then I have this naked woman in front of me being on a platter but I’m not hard thinking it’s her fault I’m not hard but I should be. Rationally knowing what she did brought me down but psychologically thinking it’s on me that I’m not hard….strange, I know.

Women, you can't libe with them or without then. At least your woman was receptive to you showing her what you like. I do that with all the women i've been with, and they love to see it.As a negative

 

[Hiaslayer]

I had to reduce the intensity a little bit over the last week and did only some manual work and almost no pumping. Today I did a proper session today with the BM and after the weekend I start with the LM again. I hit a new record in the BM; 22.6cm

Edit: 19.9cm BPFSL

 

[oldandlively]

Very nice! You are at the "Watch it!" point. Just be careful as your glans is entering the head buffer space. This is where the vacuum head pressure may "kiss" the tip of your glans, causing micro blisters or hickies.

 

[Hiaslayer]

Had a decent session today. Only did 20min LM and focused more on girth work. Perv Mc Swerv said that if your BPFSL is bigger than your BPEL there is space for expansion into that length so one needs to build more tissue rather than stretching more. Depriving the expanded tissue of oxygen meaning clamping, Ulis etc should do the trick. Pumping, too and of course SSJs
Errect stretches seem to achieve the same meaning closing the BPFSL to BPEL gap

Any input regarding this?

Post session I was at 20.5cm (before the session I was at 20.0cn). 2.5% fatigue. My current BPEL is 18.0cm Hence my question above

I’m carefully approaching 540 degrees bundling with the LM and do more and more BTC stretches.

So far so good.

 

[Hiaslayer]

Boom! Seems like I’m growing. It’s funny as my dick doesn’t seem longer, probably because it’s also getting fatter. I need to lose some weight so it can really shine
23.4cm in BM at full pressure

Edit: I really just use these measurements as a progression tool rather than a true measurement obviously

 

[Hiaslayer]

It seems like the MV gets me at -8inHg to my real BPFSL in the pump, meaning the pump expands me to my potential length. Does this make sense? The ruler on the pump is not accurate hence me putting my metal ruler there (bone presses obviously, as the cylinder of the pump) as a comparison/correction

 

[oldandlively]

No, the ruler and the MV measurement don't match properly, which is correct. There's always an offset of 0.25in to 0.5in because high vacuum compression against the body fat and muscle layers. Think of MV acting like machine, crushing your skin, fat, and muscles at the pubic area to pull every millimeter of your penis out during the pumping as the pressure goes past -7inHg. The ruler is a more gentle measuring device, even with BPEL approach. So, don't worry too much about it. We all know the differences in the measurements.

 

[DLD]

It's best to use a wooden ruler to do your measurements. They are far more accurate than any other method. Just be sure to push the ruler completely against your pubic bone as you pull your penis forward

 

[Hiaslayer]

Should I focus more on girth work to close the BPFSL to BPEL gap? Or should I still push the Lengthmaster work?

 

[oldandlively]

If you're doing girth, it's closer to the BPEL gap than the BPFSL. If you're doing length, you're leaning closer to the BPFSL. Flaccid state allows more effective stretching. Erect length is focused more on girth.

No matter if you use length or girth, using the LM3 weakens the tissues for you to benefit both the length growth and girth expansion. By focusing on the length first, you are preparing the tissues to do expand more readily when you shift to girth routines.

If you only want to focus on girth, spend about 5 to 10 minutes on length routines to loosen and weaken the tissues, and then all the remaining time is focused on girth routine. As you can see, no matter what you do, there's a bit of length routine being used to ready your penile tissues for either length or girth main routines.

 

[Hiaslayer]

I bought some Vaseline based skin cream and applied it before going into the MV after a good lengthmaster session. The expansion was quite something. 2mm longer expansion than normal in the pump at the same vacuum pressure (-8inHg). I’m getting much better traction with the lengthmaster too and started to bundle 540 degrees with a careful pull. This is intense stuff and I’m very careful. I hardly pull as the 1.5 bundles already gives a pretty good stretch. I also started to do BTC bundles more regularly.

On my off days I do recovery pumping at -5inhg for about 10min. I feel this improves my erection quality

 

[DLD]

I bought some Vaseline based skin cream and applied it before going into the MV after a good lengthmaster session. The expansion was quite something. 2mm longer expansion than normal in the pump at the same vacuum pressure (-8inHg). I’m getting much better traction with the lengthmaster too and started to bundle 540 degrees with a careful pull. This is intense stuff and I’m very careful. I hardly pull as the 1.5 bundles already gives a pretty good stretch. I also started to do BTC bundles more regularly.

On my off days I do recovery pumping at -5inhg for about 10min. I feel this improves my erection quality

That's simply amazing that vaseline could cause such good effects. I am overjoyed that you are using the length master now. With comfort that this is going to be one of your best friends.

 

[Hiaslayer]

That's simply amazing that vaseline could cause such good effects. I am overjoyed that you are using the length master now. With comfort that this is going to be one of your best friends.

Thanks DLD

I think I’ve found a routine that’s consistent and flexible to an extent so it’s actually sustainable. I have a lot going on in my life and PE is just another thing I’m doing. I try to do it in the morning (pumping), during the day (stretching, jelquing, SSJ) and in the evening (lengthmaster, pumping). I think overall time throughout the day I’m working out for about 45-60min.

 

[DLD]

Thanks DLD

I think I’ve found a routine that’s consistent and flexible to an extent so it’s actually sustainable. I have a lot going on in my life and PE is just another thing I’m doing. I try to do it in the morning (pumping), during the day (stretching, jelquing, SSJ) and in the evening (lengthmaster, pumping). I think overall time throughout the day I’m working out for about 45-60min.

I didn't quite have work, so I wouldn't worry about your penis enlargement workouts. You may even speed this up if you combine your pump and with the SRT found in this in this thread: 5x5x3

 

[Hiaslayer]

I’ve improved the wrapping even further and can now fully clamp down without the glands getting trapped inside the clamp. This enables me an even stronger pull and I feel the stretch deeper into the root.

I will stop going to -10inHg as at that pressure I develop red spots which I don’t tend to get when staying at and below -8inHg.

 

[DLD]

I'm so proud of you that you have made this work so well. It's a testament to dedication, and the desire to make things perfect.