Mental or physical?

[hellomynames]

How does one obtain the power of controlling his ejaculation? Is it mental or physical? haha

 

[dmoney101]

Both. Some people are just premature ejaculators by nature. I know i had a bad problem with it until i started taking an SSRI, now I go as long as i want every time. At first, I had no problem lasting as long as I wanted, then out of the blue, I got a new girl when i was like 19 and started finishing in a minute. It lasted until I started taking an SSRI (a type of anti depressant I take for anxiety) which will make you a sex god lol. Your girl will cum 10 times before you finish haha

 

[hellomynames]

Whats SSRI? Do you think its possible to go for a straight hour without any supps? Youd be leathel in the bedroom haha

 

[hellomynames]

Whats SSRI? Do you think its possible to go for a straight hour without any supps? Youd be leathel in the bedroom haha

 

[Zambrodom3]

Read through this thread and you'll know the answer to your question

http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/showthread.php?73445-Kiss-the-premature-ejaculation-GOODBYE

It might be a long one, but I think it's worth being read

 

[hellomynames]

Whatever you say man, Ill give it a read now, you give some of the best information on here

 

[dmoney101]

An ssri is a type of antidepressant that blocks serotonin from being used up or some shit. Idk the science behind it lol. I just know it's commonly given in low dosages to people with premature ejaculation. I got it for anxiety. And yes, i've gone way longer than an hour plenty of times. More than anything you just want it to be over and to be able to cum. I think if you have sex multiple times a day you could train yourself to not cum so quickly without needing meds

 

[hellomynames]

I could have sex with one girl and go for ages but as soon as another get equated Im finished so quick, Its so rubbish

 

[dmoney101]

At least you've had a 3 some. All my girls get possessive and wouldn't share no matter how hard i try to convince them

 

[hellomynames]

It happened in a party man, I doubt many girls would let their partner let someone else join in

 

[Zambrodom3]

Whatever you say man, Ill give it a read now, you give some of the best information on here

MAJOR rofl! I'm not that good at giving good asnwers as you think rofl.

Did you read it? It took me quite some time reading, summarizing and writing all this you see as the first post of my Pre-E thread. Make sure to let me know what you think

 

[hellomynames]

Yes, Im on the PC Muscle Use segment, how long did it take you to write this man? Ive read your other two threads and all, they must of took you ages!

 

[Zambrodom3]

Yes, Im on the PC Muscle Use segment, how long did it take you to write this man? Ive read your other two threads and all, they must of took you ages!

It sure took some time to gather the info and make it as small (and easily readable (if that's a word rofl)) as possible containing all the good info you need. If I have to be honest it took some time, but when I was doing it- I did it for around 5-6 hours a day rofl. I'll be going to bed- I'll see your comment tomorrow. All the best! Zam

 

[Big Al]

There are some great replies above!

The mental part can cause premature ejaculation if you have (relatively) mild anxiety, and impotence in the anxiety is severe enough.

 

[dmoney101]

Yea I've always had anxiety but never got premature ejaculation until out of nowhere I came in like 5 strokes and I never could control it again. Then I got treated for anxiety with lexapro and it made me able to outlast any female lmao

 

[huge-girth]

How does one obtain the power of controlling his ejaculation? Is it mental or physical? haha

You want to practice edging constantly for at least 2 to 3 months. This is what I've read about from many members here who did it.

 

[squirt_inducer_man]

You want to practice edging constantly for at least 2 to 3 months. This is what I've read about from many members here who did it.

+ doing Kegels.

 

[49-er]

PE actually helped me last longer ,maybe slight loss in sensation,also if I was getting close id slow or stop and change position,I now struggle to pop in anything under 30 mins

 

[squirt_inducer_man]

maybe slight loss in sensation

Why do you think this is?

 

[49-er]

Why do you think this is?

Skin and dick itself ,more tough and less sensitive to touch.

 

[squirt_inducer_man]

Skin and dick itself ,more tough and less sensitive to touch.

Okey. I suppose this will happen to me as well.

 

[49-er]

Hard to get much sensation from let's say using hand , if a woman was to use hand literally take me 45mins +

 

[huge-girth]

+ doing Kegels.

Yeah right.

 

[squirt_inducer_man]

Hard to get much sensation from let's say using hand , if a woman was to use hand literally take me 45mins +

This doesn't sound so good. I suppose you can just fuck her hard instead.

 

[49-er]

This doesn't sound so good. I suppose you can just fuck her hard instead.

Definitely not,don't like hard,slow and rythem is my style,can't feel anything or much if not on top