I'm such an asshole

[Straight8]

My younger sister is 17 and has a lot of really good looking friends, I keep talking to them and sooner or later they become infatuated with me. My problem is I have a high regard for my sister but a low level of self restraint and I eventually start dating them and having sex with them. That's not the only problem I also have a distorted self image so I can be very confident one day and pathetic the next based on what I think of myself so they get tired or me or I get tired of them and its over for us. But what makes me an asshole is every time this happens my sister gains resentment for me and hates them so she looses a friend. I have done this a few times now and I think if I don't stop myself I'll do it again with her new friend, This cycle always repeats itself and I'm loosing my sister.Also there always 17 years old and I'm almost 22. Any comments please reply.

 

[BeBobBox]

big pimpin

 

[kong1971]

You're a dog...

I don't think there's a cure for it.

 

[Pharaoh]

damnit man, enjoy yourself! I wish I'd be pimpin 17 year-olds...

 

[Wurkz2hard]

Normally I'd be the first to say tap that ass, but then again blood is thicker then water man.

 

[sikdogg]

I don't know where you live but here in California, there are laws against sex with chicks under 18. Her parents can actually file a lawsuit against you for statutory rape and have you put in jail.

 

[samzman]

yeah dude, unless you're tight with the parents, i wouldn't bang her if she's 17. i could because i was in with kitties parents, kindda....but when it comes to a friend of your sister??? treadin on thin ice my man.

if you're gonna do that at least wait til they're 18, then slipp em the man meat

but don't forget about your sister too, i have to agree that blood is thicker than water.

 

[Provider]

Keep up the good work man! Pimps up, Hoes down!

 

[esteban]

big pimpin

lol . Here in Michigan, I think 17 might be the age of consent, so of/c its all where you are. But myself, I'd feel a bit odd hitting a 17 year old. I'm 23, and I had some issues with dating a 19 year old. Just start looking at them as off limits. I find that if I tell myself that from the very start of when I know a girl, I can usually keep that feeling of "yeah she's attractive, but its not for me". And I keep it at that.

 

[copper_handshak]

Yea thats not cool, your definitly taking away from your sisters chance to have friends over, and feel proud about where she lives and how much her family respects her. Women need that. Shes less in her friends eyes because of you.
You need to fix that. Im serious.

 

[Ulcasterdropout]

Lucky you...

 

[Simply Amazing]

Remember this, I know that it is tempting but self-control is a way of bettering yourself so you really do need to try it, hell, seems like alot of people on this board need to try it! It is not all about sex all of the time especially when it comes to blood. Don't hit all of your sisters friends up, y'all relationship with eachother as far as being blood may eventually become even more sour than it already is. More than likely you will regret your decisions in the longrun and realize that sex is not worth losing your sister over. I am not perfect myself because there are somethings that i need to work on also and i am trying my best to do so and i am also proud to say that i also have self-control. Everyone has it but just do not know how to use it. Hopefully you get yourself together real soon along with alot of other people on this board.

 

[Simply Amazing]

Also, I hope that most of these girls do not know how old you are.
I think that 17 is not that young of an age because you are only 20 something years old but you already know how the law is plus if one of them know your age and get mad they may try to set you up then it may be a wrap for a little while. I'm just telling you to please make good judgement and watch out for things like this because it has happened plenty of times with other people. My brother is like 29 years old and he be hitting those young girls around that age. I don't really have anything against it but i just want people to watch out for things more often because i definitely don't want to see him go to jail for some young girl that he did it to. Just watch out man.
You know what you are doing because you already called yourself an asshole.
I don't want to be hard on you at all but you need feedback like this from people and hopefully it will do you some good. Whenever i have a problem, give me some feedback to help me out. Everyone is here to help eachother out.

 

[TimBo755]

lol . Here in Michigan, I think 17 might be the age of consent, so of/c its all where you are. But myself, I'd feel a bit odd hitting a 17 year old. I'm 23, and I had some issues with dating a 19 year old. Just start looking at them as off limits. I find that if I tell myself that from the very start of when I know a girl, I can usually keep that feeling of "yeah she's attractive, but its not for me". And I keep it at that.

Actually, its 18 here too my man lol

 

[Texan]

Well, if blood is thicker than water, your sister will realize that her "friends" aren't really "friends" if they dump on her to bang you, so the way I see it, you are helping your sister find out who are her real friends and who aren't. In fact she should reward you with a pair of twin "friends." I say, split da ass. But avoid legal pitfalls (obligatory cya statement).

 

[TheExecutioner]

Here in the Uk it's 16 just thought i'd make you all jealous

 

[sikdogg]

Here in the Uk it's 16 just thought i'd make you all jealous

Bastard...

 

[Wurkz2hard]

In Canada it's 14 here as far as I know.

 

[thebug]

Yer i heard it was 16 yrs old in the UK... well arent i lucky im heading there from australia in a few months.. 16 is young, i think 17 would be my limit..

.. oh btw chin up straight 8, touch some of her friends just not all of them,, maybe take a step bak for a lil while.. then see how it travels

 

[BeBobBox]

Well, if blood is thicker than water, your sister will realize that her "friends" aren't really "friends" if they dump on her to bang you, so the way I see it, you are helping your sister find out who are her real friends and who aren't. In fact she should reward you with a pair of twin "friends." I say, split da ass. But avoid legal pitfalls (obligatory cya statement).

agreed. 2 thumbs up to ur sister making friends with some twins

 

[esteban]

Actually, its 18 here too my man lol

Hydromaxm...i lucked out on that one then. too bad i didn't know the girl when she was dating her ex...he was 20 when she was 17. rofl