I got fired from me job for being on a date.

Gentlemen, I'm not hear to whine and come to you all crying about my life. This post is meant to aspire some of you who might be in a bad situation in your life and need an example of how move forward.

This past Sunday, I was at a breakfast date with a girl I've been trying to hook up with, and the two of us were with our friends having a good old time.

Now for some of you to understand the gravity of the situation I going to say this about my life, I work for my Dad at a family run business, however my father is an alcoholic, with a drug problem (no it is not weed), and is verbally and emotional abusive man.

In any case, I got a call from one my co-workers on how we couldn't get into the shop and was wondering if I could drive to the shop and unlock the door. I told him I was not in town, didn't have my work keys, and I didn't have my truck so I couldn't drive to the shop even if I wanted too.

The next phone call I got was from my Dad, who preceded to curse me out, along with a few other unneeded insults, due to the fact I was not available to run to the shop and unlock the door. He then preceded to fire me, and basically told me how I was now going to fail at life. Though I think the kicker was "You should force your date to drive you to the shop."

Now I won't lie I was a little shell shocked, and upset at first, but afterwords I sat down and thought, "Do I really want someone like that (even if it is my dad), as a part of my life?"

The answer is no, I differently don't need that type of abuse and negativity as part of my life.

Since then, I've started thinking about where I can find other work at, should I go back to school, if I decided to go into a different line of work what it should be etc. and one of the things I've notice that I am kinda good at, and frankly I love to do, is help people better themselves at certain aspects of their lives. Like people often come to me asking some really strange questions (I had two bi-sexual girls come up to me the other week and ask if I had any information/D.V.D that would help them better the pleasure of their sex lives with each other).

So really my question is aimed towards DLD, since you are the type of person I wish to aspire too. You see, you help people fulfill their dreams by giving them the information on how to obtain a bigger penis, and you make money while doing it (I know the money is not the objective). So my question is, how did YOU move forward once you found something you could help people with? I mean, I don't want to become another P.E. guru, but I would differently like to help people improve certain aspects of their lives (not sure what aspect but hey, I got enough free time now that I can start searching) in a similar manner that you do.

All advice, and suggestions would be great.
 
Your story is similar to what a lot of people go through. The best way for me to move on is sun light. If I ever was going to commit suicide, I'd do a whole bunch of other things I wanted to experience first. But if I could just get sun light I would stick with that.
 
AndyzBoot;413086 said:
Your story is similar to what a lot of people go through. The best way for me to move on is sun light. If I ever was going to commit suicide, I'd do a whole bunch of other things I wanted to experience first. But if I could just get sun light I would stick with that.

Is sun light supposed to be a metaphor for something?
 
JamesB;413077 said:
So really my question is aimed towards DLD, since you are the type of person I wish to aspire too. You see, you help people fulfill their dreams by giving them the information on how to obtain a bigger penis, and you make money while doing it (I know the money is not the objective). So my question is, how did YOU move forward once you found something you could help people with? I mean, I don't want to become another P.E. guru, but I would differently like to help people improve certain aspects of their lives (not sure what aspect but hey, I got enough free time now that I can start searching) in a similar manner that you do.

The best way to become successful at something is to do it with all your soul, give and give and help and help and eventually you will make a living from what you are doing. It took me 5 years to make enough money to live through [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/join-now.html]MOS[/words]. This took working everyday all day, sacrificing...there was times when I had to decide between eating and paying the server bill, needless to say I starved. [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/join-now.html]MOS[/words] now allows me to eat and pay the server bill:) Some day I hope to become very wealthy with [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/join-now.html]MOS[/words] but that would make little difference in what I do here...I LOVE [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/join-now.html]MOS[/words] and I LOVE MY JOB!
 
I think Mother Teresa's words sum allot it up and make perfect send ... if only I knew this years ago.

People are often unreasonable, irrational, and self-centered. Forgive them anyway.

If you are kind, people may accuse you of selfish, ulterior motives. Be kind anyway.

If you are successful, you will win some unfaithful friends and some genuine enemies. Succeed anyway.

If you are honest and sincere people may deceive you. Be honest and sincere anyway.

What you spend years creating, others could destroy overnight. Create anyway.

If you find serenity and happiness, some may be jealous. Be happy anyway.

The good you do today, will often be forgotten. Do good anyway.

Give the best you have, and it will never be enough. Give your best anyway.

In the final analysis, it is between you and God. It was never between you and them anyway.
 
Thank you DLD, If and when I ever find that aspect of life I wish to help people in, you will be one of the first I tell =P.

Red, if I had read that quote last week I think it would have had little meaning to me. After these recent events however, I think those are very good words for me to live by.
 
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