Gentlemen, I'm not hear to whine and come to you all crying about my life. This post is meant to aspire some of you who might be in a bad situation in your life and need an example of how move forward.
This past Sunday, I was at a breakfast date with a girl I've been trying to hook up with, and the two of us were with our friends having a good old time.
Now for some of you to understand the gravity of the situation I going to say this about my life, I work for my Dad at a family run business, however my father is an alcoholic, with a drug problem (no it is not weed), and is verbally and emotional abusive man.
In any case, I got a call from one my co-workers on how we couldn't get into the shop and was wondering if I could drive to the shop and unlock the door. I told him I was not in town, didn't have my work keys, and I didn't have my truck so I couldn't drive to the shop even if I wanted too.
The next phone call I got was from my Dad, who preceded to curse me out, along with a few other unneeded insults, due to the fact I was not available to run to the shop and unlock the door. He then preceded to fire me, and basically told me how I was now going to fail at life. Though I think the kicker was "You should force your date to drive you to the shop."
Now I won't lie I was a little shell shocked, and upset at first, but afterwords I sat down and thought, "Do I really want someone like that (even if it is my dad), as a part of my life?"
The answer is no, I differently don't need that type of abuse and negativity as part of my life.
Since then, I've started thinking about where I can find other work at, should I go back to school, if I decided to go into a different line of work what it should be etc. and one of the things I've notice that I am kinda good at, and frankly I love to do, is help people better themselves at certain aspects of their lives. Like people often come to me asking some really strange questions (I had two bi-sexual girls come up to me the other week and ask if I had any information/D.V.D that would help them better the pleasure of their sex lives with each other).
So really my question is aimed towards DLD, since you are the type of person I wish to aspire too. You see, you help people fulfill their dreams by giving them the information on how to obtain a bigger penis, and you make money while doing it (I know the money is not the objective). So my question is, how did YOU move forward once you found something you could help people with? I mean, I don't want to become another P.E. guru, but I would differently like to help people improve certain aspects of their lives (not sure what aspect but hey, I got enough free time now that I can start searching) in a similar manner that you do.
All advice, and suggestions would be great.
This past Sunday, I was at a breakfast date with a girl I've been trying to hook up with, and the two of us were with our friends having a good old time.
Now for some of you to understand the gravity of the situation I going to say this about my life, I work for my Dad at a family run business, however my father is an alcoholic, with a drug problem (no it is not weed), and is verbally and emotional abusive man.
In any case, I got a call from one my co-workers on how we couldn't get into the shop and was wondering if I could drive to the shop and unlock the door. I told him I was not in town, didn't have my work keys, and I didn't have my truck so I couldn't drive to the shop even if I wanted too.
The next phone call I got was from my Dad, who preceded to curse me out, along with a few other unneeded insults, due to the fact I was not available to run to the shop and unlock the door. He then preceded to fire me, and basically told me how I was now going to fail at life. Though I think the kicker was "You should force your date to drive you to the shop."
Now I won't lie I was a little shell shocked, and upset at first, but afterwords I sat down and thought, "Do I really want someone like that (even if it is my dad), as a part of my life?"
The answer is no, I differently don't need that type of abuse and negativity as part of my life.
Since then, I've started thinking about where I can find other work at, should I go back to school, if I decided to go into a different line of work what it should be etc. and one of the things I've notice that I am kinda good at, and frankly I love to do, is help people better themselves at certain aspects of their lives. Like people often come to me asking some really strange questions (I had two bi-sexual girls come up to me the other week and ask if I had any information/D.V.D that would help them better the pleasure of their sex lives with each other).
So really my question is aimed towards DLD, since you are the type of person I wish to aspire too. You see, you help people fulfill their dreams by giving them the information on how to obtain a bigger penis, and you make money while doing it (I know the money is not the objective). So my question is, how did YOU move forward once you found something you could help people with? I mean, I don't want to become another P.E. guru, but I would differently like to help people improve certain aspects of their lives (not sure what aspect but hey, I got enough free time now that I can start searching) in a similar manner that you do.
All advice, and suggestions would be great.