I cant reach orgasm

REDZULU2003 said:
Yeah, guys need to get this adult entertainment way of looking at sex, indeed, even love making well out of the way.

It's not healthy, is completely false, nothing like real sexual life.

This is why to younger folk today growing up with easy instant adult entertainment online, have distorted, weird beliefs about sex, before they even have a sexual encounter.

More and more studies are suggesting that adult entertainment addiction is damaging to the viewers personality.

I guess you're right,the world is way too sexualized

Personally, the Western world would be wise to censor most adult entertainment sites, as the world is too sexualized, often to the wrong ones, not to mention how disrespectful adult entertainment is to both genders, and all ethnicity
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REDZULU2003 said:
Personally, the Western world would be wise to censor most adult entertainment sites, as the world is too sexualized, often to the wrong ones, not to mention how disrespectful adult entertainment is to both genders, and all ethnicity
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For the record though, this is the only part of the post exempt from my 'like.' Whether I like the content or not, I'm not on board with censorship... and you Brits are sliding the wrong way on that issue. I'm getting worried for you across the pond!
 
You gotta agree with the disrespectful/degrading point......

Shit has just gotten waaaay too fucked up in adult entertainment.
 
TuffDong said:
You gotta agree with the disrespectful/degrading point......
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That would be a whole new conversation, and this thread is teetering on the edge of the rails here. :)

My only point right now is that the freedom to speak and express is not dependent on the nature of the speech or expression. And I only brought that up because I liked Zulu's post but wanted to go on record making it clear I don't support just that last bit.
 
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TuffDong said:
I will only be intimate if there is emotion. Just me. Just how I feel.

I was raised around some seriously depraved stuff, and adult entertainment was a normal thing for me, at 7 years old and up. I grew up extremely insecure, and it hindered my entire childhood. No more. There is so much more. She... you... that magical, intimate, emotional moment....

Blessings. ...
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The best sex one can have is when they allow themselves to become unencumbered by negative emotions. Without encumbrances, emotional synching is possible. This is what "making love" is- as opposed to merely having sex.
 
Think of sex as a highway. When the highway has lots of traffic it makes it hard to keep EQ up. This is because the highway from the penis to the brain is jammed up with traffic of negative thoughts. When the highway is cleared and there’s a straight and direct route from the brain to the penis these issues the way.
 
DLD said:
Think of sex as a highway. When the highway has lots of traffic it makes it hard to keep EQ up. This is because the highway from the penis to the brain is jammed up with traffic of negative thoughts. When the highway is cleared and there’s a straight and direct route from the brain to the penis these issues the way.
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Great analogy!!!
 
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DoctorBiggie said:
Few moths ago i was scared about why i didnt get an erection when i had my first sex.
Now... I have another problem.
Sex with my girlfriend lasts about 1 hour And more (few months i was still virgin).
i tried with condom, without condom, faster, slower and i don't know what it's the problem. And every time i ejaculate when i start masturbating at the end of sex.
when i have sex, i feel that my pelvic floor muscles are so contacted and maybe there is the problem.
any help please??
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Could this be as a result of anxiety or panic @DLD?
 
DLD said:
Definitely. I know my emotions can reak havoc on orgasms. Best to not get frustrated and relax and try again
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I agree. When I was heart broken back in 2017, I couldn't pump, I was ejaculating inside the bathmate within 1 minute into my session. Such a terrible experience.
 
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huge-girth said:
I agree. When I was heart broken back in 2017, I couldn't pump, I was ejaculating inside the bathmate within 1 minute into my session. Such a terrible experience.
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Suffering now stuck in this hotel room
 
At one point in time I was having trouble getting myself to orgasam. I would almost get there and then never quite make it.
 
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