How Often To Masturbate?

I want to every day, but I do every 3-4 days. When it comes to PE, that desire helps me put effort in exercising my cock. When I jerkoff I kinda lose interest right after so thats why I hold it. But after 3-4 days is too much, I feel like I wanna devour every girl I see on the street.

There is an ancient Egyptioan technique to instead of letting that energy go away with orgasm, to control it and re-feed it in the body. It is possible. It requires training but you can replenish yourself with the same energy of the orgasm
 
DLD said:
If I stay away from XXX I am good. I also only masturbate maybe once a month at this point. When things are stressful may be a bit more. I have no guilt around masturbation whatsoever it’s about what I’m doing that brings the guilt.
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I think I know what you are talking about......
I recently watched adult entertainment and realised why I felt bad after the ejaculation instead of feeling good....

The reason is simple.... It is the lifestyle of those pornstars and ours.....
Our life is so much different than theirs and deep inside, we envy that.....(envy)
We also want to be felt like a pornstar.....
We also want to have big dicks and we also want to fuck beautiful women every day for the most stupidest reason......(like catching someone off-guard when they are masturbating, perving on someone and hoping that they would fuck you for being a bad boy, etc....)

It is that fantasy that we have which cannot be fulfilled in our regular lifestyle.....
That is why we watch adult entertainment and feel guilty about it.......

One way of getting around the guilt is roleplay......
To all the commited men out their, if you are not satisfied by masturbation and sex with your significant other, try roleplay.....
Try having sex for the same reason pornstars do it......

(Don't forget to ask for consent first)
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And for all those out there who are single like me, I don't have any advice for you guys.....:confused:

If anybody has any advice for singles like me, feel free to comment(clap)
Hope this helps;)
 
Avglen61 said:
I think I know what you are talking about......
I recently watched adult entertainment and realised why I felt bad after the ejaculation instead of feeling good....

The reason is simple.... It is the lifestyle of those pornstars and ours.....
Our life is so much different than theirs and deep inside, we envy that.....(envy)
We also want to be felt like a pornstar.....
We also want to have big dicks and we also want to fuck beautiful women every day for the most stupidest reason......(like catching someone off-guard when they are masturbating, perving on someone and hoping that they would fuck you for being a bad boy, etc....)

It is that fantasy that we have which cannot be fulfilled in our regular lifestyle.....
That is why we watch adult entertainment and feel guilty about it.......

One way of getting around the guilt is roleplay......
To all the commited men out their, if you are not satisfied by masturbation and sex with your significant other, try roleplay.....
Try having sex for the same reason pornstars do it......

(Don't forget to ask for consent first)
​
And for all those out there who are single like me, I don't have any advice for you guys.....:confused:

If anybody has any advice for singles like me, feel free to comment(clap)
Hope this helps;)
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I am single and I am celibate so I can help. For me I do not make rules or laws to hold over my head, whenever a law is created I instinctively break it. But where there is no law there is no breaking of the law. I can help. For me I do not make rules or laws to hold over my head, whenever a law is created I instinctively break it. But where there is no law there is no breaking of the law. so when the law is removed there isn’t a instinctive desire to break it. I simply do you masturbation as something that happens every once in a while and when it does happen I want to stay very clear of anything offensive to my conscience. As the apostle Paul said everything is permissible but not everything is profitable. What’s OK for me may not be OK for someone else. I suggest you set your boundaries and stay with in that realm. If you mess up pick yourself up, brush yourself off and start all over again.
 
Now I am angry.....(angry)

I was taking a nap and I came during my sleep....
I have been saving myself up for tomorrow....
I have also been doing kegels but not a lot......
What to do?(angry)
 
Avglen61 said:
Now I am angry.....(angry)

I was taking a nap and I came during my sleep....
I have been saving myself up for tomorrow....
I have also been doing kegels but not a lot......
What to do?(angry)
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Is this worth being upset over or can you learn from this, accept it, and move on?
 
I would take Haursen's question and advice strongly. Just move on. I've seen men put too much emphasis on things that should be just swiped left ...
It's not like the enhancement process would be doomed if you miss one session. Of course it's important to stay consistent but in the end we are human.
 
arkailija said:
I would take Haursen's question and advice strongly. Just move on. I've seen men put too much emphasis on things that should be just swiped left ...
It's not like the enhancement process would be doomed if you miss one session. Of course it's important to stay consistent but in the end we are human.
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Days off are ok as long as They don't turn into weeks or even months
 
Do not punish yourself and dwell in guilt because this is a total waste of time. Take yourself up, brush yourself off and start all over again.
 
Avglen61 said:
Okay....
I will try to....

However what can I do to prevent this from happening in future?
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This is the body's natural way to release if sexual energy has been pent up. If this happens again, let it. If you get mad at your body, you are doing more harm than good.
 
Is your concern with masturbation or is it with pornography?
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adult entertainment is an addictive thing, IMO I tend to masturbate before my LM session can feel a better stretching lol
 
Getbiglonger7 said:
Is your concern with masturbation or is it with pornography?
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adult entertainment is an addictive thing, IMO I tend to masturbate before my LM session can feel a better stretching LOL
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There is nothing wrong with masturbation where the issue becomes a problem as what you’re viewing.
 
DLD said:
Is your concern with masturbation or is it with pornography?
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My concern was that I ejaculated when I didn't wanted to....
I used to ejaculate while I sleep when I didn't started PE....
After starting PE I never ejaculated in sleep until recently.....

What else can I do besides kegels to prevent this?
 
Avglen61 said:
My concern was that I ejaculated when I didn't wanted to....
I used to ejaculate while I sleep when I didn't started PE....
After starting PE I never ejaculated in sleep until recently.....

What else can I do besides kegels to prevent this?
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It’s all practice. You can check out some of the techniques that mention that our sound on www.mattersissize.com/access, there are five or six different routines that will teach you how to perform in the manner you’re speaking of.
 
DLD said:
I try to avoid it as much as possible because I end up watching pornography but on average maybe once per month. I gauge it by how I’m feeling, if I’m feeling frustrated and angry easily I know I have to let some stress out and that stress comes out of my dick LOL. It’s different for everybody so find what works best for you. Always remember to that masturbation leads to pornography which can lead to excessive and obsessive masturbation.
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Not easy to do
 
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DLD said:
Excellent work my brothers this is such a great thread. I know my problem lately has been stress. There’s so much on my mind right now and things just keep piling on putting me more and more in a stressful place. And when I’m in this stressful condition I seem to gravitate towards masturbation instead of anything else. I’m not sure why that is I wish I could go to something else.
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Somewhat similar for me.
I wish I had one of these at home (see picture), I really need to get to the gym and use one of these. I haven't been there for a while...not good...I feel somewhat weak in my body.
My stress goes down and I feel so happy, after I have been using this machine (during also) for ~ 30 minutes.

A plus; There are beautiful women at the gym. But that will probably not help me. 😂
I'm keeping celibacy right now, and I will do that for a while. There is no other way for me.

If I would remove adult entertainment from my life, I would feel much better I know it. More clarity, more happiness and less stress. I would feel more present to the moment. I think I just need to decide what I want. adult entertainment is such a time waster.

This device is the master of stress relief:
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Machine: ROWERG MODELL D - CONCEPT2
 
squirt_inducer_man said:
Yes I thought about that. I have used adult entertainment for pumping/girthwork in the past.
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It is needed for pumping. But since you are focused on length for now, you can do without adult entertainment. But when it's time for pumping, you are going to need it.
 
huge-girth said:
It is needed for pumping. But since you are focused on length for now, you can do without adult entertainment. But when it's time for pumping, you are going to need it.
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Indeed. But I'm not stimulated by it anymore, so I need a long break from it. Will only incoperate it when I start my girthwork.
 
Getfitpaul said:
It’s easy to get hard when something comes across your eyes like that. Amazing how powerful adult entertainment is.
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If I keep watching the same adult entertainment video over a period of 1 week, it loses it's effect on me. I nor longer get arouse like before. New hot adult entertainment videos are always best for pumping. The help keep you erect throughout your pumping session.
 
squirt_inducer_man said:
Your brain can't determine the difference of a women on a screen and real life. That's why you can trick it like that.
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I can trick it to an extent. Not ever adult entertainment arouse me. The male pornstar need to have a monstrous penis and the female pornstar should be able to take the penis balls deep for me to be turned on properly.
 
huge-girth said:
I can trick it to an extent. Not ever adult entertainment arouse me. The male pornstar need to have a monstrous penis and the female pornstar should be able to take the penis balls deep for me to be turned on properly.
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What a coincidence you say that. For some reason this is also the type of adult entertainment that stimulates me now, if I go back to the "regular" adult entertainment it doesn't do anything for me.
The woman should take the monstrously big penis with ease, and she shows no signs of pain just pleasure all the way. And the rolling back eyes on the woman 👌
 
squirt_inducer_man said:
What a coincidence you say that. For some reason this is also the type of adult entertainment that stimulates me now, if I go back to the "regular" adult entertainment it doesn't do anything for me.
The woman should take the monstrously big penis with ease, and she shows no signs of pain just pleasure all the way. And the rolling back eyes on the woman 👌
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Exactly. You are on the right track.
 
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