How Often To Masturbate?

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Avglen61

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I wanted to ask these questions for a very long time....

HOW OFTEN TO MASTURBATE?
HOW TO KNOW YOU ARE MASTURBATING ENOUGH?
WHEN TO STOP MASTURBATING?
DOES MASTURBATING AFFECTING MY GAINS? IF SO, HOW?

I know these questions are silly......... but I couldn't find a right answer
 
I am in favor of clearing the tubes on a steady basis. Several times a week from my point of view is fine.
Climaxing with a partner would be optimal but I really think keeping those pipes clear helps, solo or with a partner.
I was personally more once a day but it has tapered off due to some changes. Nothing "dramatic", just that my schedule seems to be quite wacky. :D

Enough masturbation / moderate amount doesn't cause ill effects. I really feel once a day can be pretty safe for most men. Some get blue balls if they don't release on often enough, there can be slight hormonal changes as well. "As always" there is a golden middle ground, moderation.

When to stop? When it hurts, takes too much of your time and is more of an addiction than a fun blast here and there.

The gains question is probably the most popular one. One can target length after ejaculation (orgasm and ejaculation are two different things by the way ...) so that's one thing to remember.
Then again for girth gaining a strong Erection Quality is important so it could be wise to space out girth and length routines if possible.
Of course a possibility is to do a strong girth routine, blast off and do some length exercises, although it might be more difficult if there's a lot of temporary gains from the girth workout.

There are many ways. :) If you're not masturbating in excessive amount (what people see as excessive is different of course, I'd say 1-3 times a day could be normal for a young guy, once a day is) then I wouldn't see a problem.

Thanks for making the thread, it's an interesting subject!
 
Big Schwanz Acht said:
as I've aged (obviously), it's tapered...what used to be every day, then every other day...now (depending upon how much 'real sex' I've had), I'm generally climaxing once per week solo
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I try to avoid it as much as possible because I end up watching pornography but on average maybe once per month. I gauge it by how I’m feeling, if I’m feeling frustrated and angry easily I know I have to let some stress out and that stress comes out of my dick LOL. It’s different for everybody so find what works best for you. Always remember to that masturbation leads to pornography which can lead to excessive and obsessive masturbation.
 
arkailija said:
I am in favor of clearing the tubes on a steady basis. Several times a week from my point of view is fine.
Climaxing with a partner would be optimal but I really think keeping those pipes clear helps, solo or with a partner.
I was personally more once a day but it has tapered off due to some changes. Nothing "dramatic", just that my schedule seems to be quite wacky. LOL

Enough masturbation / moderate amount doesn't cause ill effects. I really feel once a day can be pretty safe for most men. Some get blue balls if they don't release on often enough, there can be slight hormonal changes as well. "As always" there is a golden middle ground, moderation.

When to stop? When it hurts, takes too much of your time and is more of an addiction than a fun blast here and there.

The gains question is probably the most popular one. One can target length after ejaculation (orgasm and ejaculation are two different things by the way ...) so that's one thing to remember.
Then again for girth gaining a strong Erection Quality is important so it could be wise to space out girth and length routines if possible.
Of course a possibility is to do a strong girth routine, blast off and do some length exercises, although it might be more difficult if there's a lot of temporary gains from the girth workout.

There are many ways. :) If you're not masturbating in excessive amount (what people see as excessive is different of course, I'd say 1-3 times a day could be normal for a young guy, once a day is) then I wouldn't see a problem.

Thanks for making the thread, it's an interesting subject!
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Thanks for the reply......
I have two different routines..... one for length and another for girth...... and i do those in alternative days
So in that way i just have to masturbate only on the day of my length exercise......
How many times that day? I think once that particular day is fine but i have to make sure that i get the perfect ejaculation...... how do i achieve that?
 
DLD said:
I try to avoid it as much as possible because I end up watching pornography but on average maybe once per month. I gauge it by how I’m feeling, if I’m feeling frustrated and angry easily I know I have to let some stress out and that stress comes out of my dick LOL. It’s different for everybody so find what works best for you. Always remember to that masturbation leads to pornography which can lead to excessive and obsessive masturbation.
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Now-a-days I only watch adult entertainment for 3 reasons:
1. Ejaculation before length exercise
Ejaculation before length exercise is very beneficial

2.Edging
I perform edging so that I could last longer and can have multiple orgasmsLOL

3.Learning
I know it sounds a little creepy but i have been learning a lot recently through pornographyLMAO.....
 
As long as it doesn’t effect eq I’ve noticed that if i masturbate “too much” (too much for me might be ok for someone else depends on your body) I get poor eq for a couple days and have to stop immediately until I get better eq all the advice above is great advice just read your body know your limits and always try and live a healthy lifestyle both mentally and physically this is why I love matters of size bc not only are you working to gain in pe but through out this journey you will begin to learn a lot about yourself and what your limits are and you’ll eventually notice when you’re able to start pushing the limits and adapt and become a better you there’s no better feeling brother !
 
Also I think it’s important to ask yourself when you have the desire to masturbate is it that you have the desire to masturbate or is it because you’re bored and are looking for something to do?
 
Thanks everyone for the reply.....
I just have one more question.....

Few weeks ago I posted a thread saying I was skinny and needed advice whether I can do PE or not......
Recently I came to know that in order to gain weight you need a hormone known as TESTOSTERONE which is secreted by testicles and that masturbation(even edging) uses testosterone

My question is how much to masturbate in order to be able to gain weight effectively?
I do not want to stop masturbation nor edging but I also want to gain weight......(confused)
 
DLD said:
Also I think it’s important to ask yourself when you have the desire to masturbate is it that you have the desire to masturbate or is it because you’re bored and are looking for something to do?
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true jerking off out of boredom is not a good idea imho,i jerk off because i feel the desire,its a fun thing to do even when im not a horny teenager anymore.. (drunk)
 
Masturbation is one huge waste of energy.

I prefer to use that energy during ritual, and it allows me to have much more powerful OOBE, otherwise when wanking allot, more so if I ejaculate, the spiritual side of life gets damaged.

This is why people who obsess about sex, and cant live without a man or woman in bed, will never make it on the path I live, as it saps your life force away, hence you can never live a true spiritual life.
 
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Avglen61 said:
HOW OFTEN TO MASTURBATE?
HOW TO KNOW YOU ARE MASTURBATING ENOUGH?
WHEN TO STOP MASTURBATING?
DOES MASTURBATING AFFECTING MY GAINS? IF SO, HOW?
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Q1: As rarely as you can handle. Try only when you engage with penis enlargement to become engorged enough for girth work, or when needing to be erect. Treat yourself once a week to a masturbation, but do not do more. You will drain away your life force, this may not interest you? most dont care.

Q2: When you don't feel lethargic, preoccupied by sexual thoughts. I see masturbation as the work of boredom tbh and it leads to life force being wasted on filth, dirty filth that gives you what? a small amount of pleasure. Do you seek highs often? like doing dangerous things perhaps?

Q3: Limit it from the outset. If you must tug away, then warning signs are that your life is quite lonely, with nothing going on. You feel like an empty husk just blowing on the breeze. Masturbation is some perverse way to escape, its a comfort. Dont use it.

Q4: I think it does, due to draining the lifeforce that is essential for the physical body.
 
The world is also a much more over sexualised place now. I'm not thinking like that 'cos I'm getting older LOL

feel sorry for the young generations today, you know, the kids growing up, the teens, and young adults twenty something.

They are measured by appearances allot nowadays, and having to walk, act, talk a certain way. All this social media crap 24/7, smartphone addictions.

What I'm saying kinda links in with the thread theme, in that people are so exposed to adult entertainment these days. When I was a kid, it was the magazine found in the bushes that introduced me to the fanny at around age 11, and I had my first fanny at 13.

Nowadays, I cant even imagine it, kids are seeing sexual acts, and not normal ones at that, when they are just 5 years old!!! it makes me angry that the world has become like this!!!! it will have a harmful impact on them in some fashion, maybe they will not like sex at first when they are adults from what they saw? or they may be trying to carry out the hardcore moves?

All this material, music videos with people literally naked all the time, its going to increase peoples inclination to want to masturbate. Its a test ... you must not give in to the temptation, no I'm not preaching from any book/s, its not good for any person to be simply a reactive being .... be a proactive being, dont simply be like (no disrespect to them as I love them all) some animal species that act out of reaction 24/7.

We as humans are meant to be smart ... the earth is being literally raped by humankind, and, believe it or not, it will fight back. The time will come when something occurs, and all humankind will be wiped out clean, just like the dinos.

The thing is, we could learn from the habit of masturbation, that our reactive nature is often to blame for the state around us, the shit all over the floor outside in my town from lazy rats that cant be bothered to use a bin just meters away!!!!! I feel so sorry for the animals, they never asked to be harmed like this.

Anyway .. use masturbation as a lesson in life, moderation, and proactive nature is good, but a reactive animalistic nature is bad.
 
A reactive animalistic nature,wonder whats the percentage of people thats acting that way,After all sex is not that rational is it? How population has grown for the last 400 years...

Love and sex can they go together all the time?,What happens when a man or a woman is unfaithful to her couple,whats the reason people do that,They dont love really feel the love for each other....Dishonesty,having a hedonist way to see life...etc any suggestions comments etc
 
REDZULU2003 said:
The world is also a much more over sexualised place now. I'm not thinking like that 'cos I'm getting older LOL

feel sorry for the young generations today, you know, the kids growing up, the teens, and young adults twenty something.

They are measured by appearances allot nowadays, and having to walk, act, talk a certain way. All this social media crap 24/7, smartphone addictions.

What I'm saying kinda links in with the thread theme, in that people are so exposed to adult entertainment these days. When I was a kid, it was the magazine found in the bushes that introduced me to the fanny at around age 11, and I had my first fanny at 13.

Nowadays, I cant even imagine it, kids are seeing sexual acts, and not normal ones at that, when they are just 5 years old!!! it makes me angry that the world has become like this!!!! it will have a harmful impact on them in some fashion, maybe they will not like sex at first when they are adults from what they saw? or they may be trying to carry out the hardcore moves?

All this material, music videos with people literally naked all the time, its going to increase peoples inclination to want to masturbate. Its a test ... you must not give in to the temptation, no I'm not preaching from any book/s, its not good for any person to be simply a reactive being .... be a proactive being, dont simply be like (no disrespect to them as I love them all) some animal species that act out of reaction 24/7.

We as humans are meant to be smart ... the earth is being literally raped by humankind, and, believe it or not, it will fight back. The time will come when something occurs, and all humankind will be wiped out clean, just like the dinos.

The thing is, we could learn from the habit of masturbation, that our reactive nature is often to blame for the state around us, the shit all over the floor outside in my town from lazy rats that cant be bothered to use a bin just meters away!!!!! I feel so sorry for the animals, they never asked to be harmed like this.

Anyway .. use masturbation as a lesson in life, moderation, and proactive nature is good, but a reactive animalistic nature is bad.
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I agree......
However I have a way to fight this system.......
I am just 21 years old and I know that I am too young to say this......

Sex scenes in movies and exposure to adult entertainment is not the only thing which is wrong with our generation. Our lack of responsibility and education towards sex is also frightening. Our schools will teach us about the "science" behind sex (i.e the male reproductive organ is known as penis, the female one is known as vagina, the male organ releases semen/sperm, the female organ releases egg, etc....) but will not teach us about the need of sex. Whomever you ask, will always tell you that sex is a need but will not tell you why it is a need. I am speaking from my experience, I was introduced to this when I was 12 and I clearly didn't know what I am going into. I still remember the first time I masturbated(It hurt a lot (cwl)) . It used to feel good. None of my elders taught me about this so all the information I got about sex and fapping is from internet and adult entertainment(and I do not need to tell you the types of people and information you find on internet) . For 8 years I was fapping just because I was liking loving it. It was later I realized that there is more to sex than just fapping around like a wild animal. It was later I realized that in order to enjoy sex you are supposed to be in love. I realized that sex with someone you love is the most beautiful kind of sex one can ever experience. Since then I have never truly enjoyed neither masturbation nor adult entertainment.

So, I am saying this on behalf of my generation:TEACH YOUR KIDS ABOUT SEX AND SEX EDUCATION BEFORE SOCIETY DOES. DON'T MAKE THE SAME MISTAKES THAT OUR FATHERS AND FOREFATHERS DID. TEACH YOUR KIDS ABOUT LOVE AND RESPONSIBILITIES OF SEX.
 
Excellent work my brothers this is such a great thread. I know my problem lately has been stress. There’s so much on my mind right now and things just keep piling on putting me more and more in a stressful place. And when I’m in this stressful condition I seem to gravitate towards masturbation instead of anything else. I’m not sure why that is I wish I could go to something else.
 
DLD said:
Excellent work my brothers this is such a great thread. I know my problem lately has been stress. There’s so much on my mind right now and things just keep piling on putting me more and more in a stressful place. And when I’m in this stressful condition I seem to gravitate towards masturbation instead of anything else. I’m not sure why that is I wish I could go to something else.
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facing things we hate i guess or we dont want to do,stress is a bitch but jerking off wont help us out to solve our situation...
 
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back in the day our parents didnt have access to adult entertainment the only thing they may have was that old naked hoes mag, same whit the grandpass.....

A sexualized society we live in, and people choose the ones they want to fuck whit if they are down for it they go for it, We live in an open minded society Women are free to choose the cock(s) they want to fuck whit..Men choose the pussy they want to fuck too we all have an endless source of meat lol..
 
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It is perfectly normal and healthy to masturbate. There is nothing wrong with it, if your hand gravitates towards your cock let her go.

The problem is when you masturbate because of distractions like adult entertainment for example. That will lead you to excessive masturbation and a deviation from the normal world.

Avoid any kind of external arousal other than a real woman. Stay away from naked pictures and adult entertainment in general.

If you just feel like jerking off because you feel horny, go for it. If in the middle of the process you lose your erection, move on, it just means you were not horny enough.

The worst we can do it to feel horny and go watch adult entertainment to jerk off. And its hard to control. Feeling horny really fuck up your mind and lead to that temptation. If you feel horny perhaps go for a walk, distract yourself with something else. It will come to the point that you HAVE to beat the monkey just with your thoughts and theres nothing wrong with that.
 
I just don’t go beyond what I believe to be wrong and then I’m always safe. But the problem with this is temptation can become stronger and I can bring myself into places i don’t want to be. In order for me to masturbate without any type of regret I need to keep my mind on my wife. If I can do this it doesn’t matter how many times I masturbate as I do not believe masturbation is any type of sin, Where things become sinful is when I go outside of that restricted area.

Another thing I try to avoid is using masturbation as a way to deal with feelings. I’m not contradicting myself here what I’m saying is we can’t use it as a reaction to the way we feel about something all the time because it will become an obsessive problem. So I try to keep masturbation with in the realm of when I need to do it, I know this by the way I am feeling and how short my frustration and temper is.
 
REDZULU2003 said:
Keep in strict moderation. If you dont need to do it, dont do it.
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Indeed moderation in all things. Because even masturbation can become obsessional even without the dirty visuals. For me it only happens if I’m stressed out and I decided that I’m going to do it. It’s never really a temptation so the enemy can suck my cock! When I do something wrong I did it wrong. But like my Mother says all things in moderation.
 
DLD said:
Indeed moderation in all things. Because even masturbation can become obsessional even without the dirty visuals. For me it only happens if I’m stressed out and I decided that I’m going to do it. It’s never really a temptation so the enemy can suck my cock! When I do something wrong I did it wrong. But like my Mother says all things in moderation.
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Dont get obsessed with your NME sucking your cock!!
(cwl)
 
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REDZULU2003 said:
Masturbation is one huge waste of energy.

I prefer to use that energy during ritual, and it allows me to have much more powerful OOBE, otherwise when wanking allot, more so if I ejaculate, the spiritual side of life gets damaged.

This is why people who obsess about sex, and cant live without a man or woman in bed, will never make it on the path I live, as it saps your life force away, hence you can never live a true spiritual life.
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That's one way to look at it or one can use the sexual energy of orgasm into a creative outlet. One tantra teacher teaches mediate, masturbate, and create.
 
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There is an ancient Egyptian technique used to re use the orgasmic energy throughout the body. Without this technique, yes is a waste of energy. But developing this technique, allows you to loop the energy and replenish your body.
 
Haursen said:
That's one way to look at it or one can use the sexual energy of orgasm into a creative outlet. One tantra teacher teaches mediate, masturbate, and create.
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That is exactly what I use it for. I have been celibate for 11 years now and occasionally I become frustrated and the best release for me as masturbation. I am releasing an unwanted libido.
 
Exactly thats what I do with the orgasmic energy, however I get to that state without masturbation or ejaculation. The energy travels up from my base through my energy centers, and through the skull cap.

Your misinterpreting the energy being linked with actual masturbation, it doesn't. The energy is already there, the masturbation leading to orgasm is ONE method only, the poor mans method. You can stay in the zone for hours on end with that energy without ever touching yourself, never cumming, same orgasmic energy however.

It has taken me 5 years to become even competent at it.
 
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REDZULU2003 said:
Exactly thats what I do with the orgasmic energy, however I get to that state without masturbation or ejaculation. The energy travels up from my base through my energy centers, and through the skull cap.

Your misinterpreting the energy being linked with actual masturbation, it doesn't. The energy is already there, the masturbation leading to orgasm is ONE method only, the poor mans method. You can stay in the zone for hours on end with that energy without ever touching yourself, never cumming, same orgasmic energy however.

It has taken me 5 years to become even competent at it.
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For me it is simply a quick release. I spend no more than five minutes getting it done LOL I simply just don’t have that large of a libido so I don’t get horny very often. But it seems like when stress builds up that’s when I need to force myself to go knock one off.
 
Hey everyone.....
I know it is all of a sudden that I posted in this thread......
My question is.... should I ejaculate after my jelqing session?

My routine is divided into 2 parts (i)Stretching (ii)Jelqing
I stretch at night before sleeping and jelq during shower. In this way i can jelq everyday instead of stretching and jelqing on alternate days.
Also, I know that I am supposed to jelq my penis to fatigue and it is really easy to reach the state of fatigue when you ejaculate.
Should I have to ejaculate everyday after jelqing to reach fatigue?
 
I am also having issues with masturbation......
I think I am addicted to it.....

Everyday I wake up with a boner and I cannot control it.....
I get a sudden urge of masturbation right after I wake up in the morning......
This thing leads to adult entertainment and after that, to masturbation.......
I am masturbating since 2010 and since that day I wasn't been able to hold myself for a week.
I just feel horny all the time........

I do not want to be disrespectful..... but my addiction has increased since I have started PE.....
My length and girth has increased significantly because of PE and I feel sexually ready whenever I see my erect penis......
It's just that..... I bigger penis feels good to masturbate......

I am also trying to gain weight & beard and in order to have those I have to control my masturbation habits.....
Please help(confused)
 
Avglen61 said:
Hey everyone.....
I know it is all of a sudden that I posted in this thread......
My question is.... should I ejaculate after my jelqing session?

My routine is divided into 2 parts (i)Stretching (ii)Jelqing
I stretch at night before sleeping and jelq during shower. In this way i can jelq everyday instead of stretching and jelqing on alternate days.
Also, I know that I am supposed to jelq my penis to fatigue and it is really easy to reach the state of fatigue when you ejaculate.
Should I have to ejaculate everyday after jelqing to reach fatigue?
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I personally say dont ejaculate within your penis enlargement session. just part of keeping disciplined with it, after all its not a sexual thing.
 
Avglen61 said:
I am also having issues with masturbation......
I think I am addicted to it.....

Everyday I wake up with a boner and I cannot control it.....
I get a sudden urge of masturbation right after I wake up in the morning......
This thing leads to adult entertainment and after that, to masturbation.......
I am masturbating since 2010 and since that day I wasn't been able to hold myself for a week.
I just feel horny all the time........

I do not want to be disrespectful..... but my addiction has increased since I have started PE.....
My length and girth has increased significantly because of PE and I feel sexually ready whenever I see my erect penis......
It's just that..... I bigger penis feels good to masturbate......

I am also trying to gain weight & beard and in order to have those I have to control my masturbation habits.....
Please help(confused)
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Do you have a job? go college? hobbies? they can all help channel the energy, rather then wanking around all day. It will only lead to ruin. If on the other hand you have a partner, it could be useful.
 
REDZULU2003 said:
Do you have a job? go college? hobbies? they can all help channel the energy, rather then wanking around all day. It will only lead to ruin. If on the other hand you have a partner, it could be useful.
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I do go to college but I just finished my exams and now the college will resume after 2 months......
I just cannot focus my energy on different tasks and all I think about is sex......
I google adult entertainment sites everyday in search of new daily content......(headbang)

No, I do not have a partner..... never had any....... maybe in the future.......
Right now I want to focus my energy on me and my first step is controlling my urges......
 
Avglen61 said:
I do go to college but I just finished my exams and now the college will resume after 2 months......
I just cannot focus my energy on different tasks and all I think about is sex......
I google adult entertainment sites everyday in search of new daily content......(headbang)

No, I do not have a partner..... never had any....... maybe in the future.......
Right now I want to focus my energy on me and my first step is controlling my urges......
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This is all about the mindset...Notice you said that "You can't..." which translates to "You won't."

If you are googling for adult entertainment every day, this is a red flag.

When you are ready to change your mindset, I would recommend the website "Fight The New Drug." They have a free program called Fortify that can help you with adult entertainment.
 
If I stay away from XXX I am good. I also only masturbate maybe once a month at this point. When things are stressful may be a bit more. I have no guilt around masturbation whatsoever it’s about what I’m doing that brings the guilt.
 
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