Had a problem with my first time

[Scruffy]

Well yesterday I lost my virginity everything with great except for one problem, I couldn't come.

I figured my first time I would be in and out in 5 minutes, appearntly not.

We went at it for about... 45minutes to an hour I would say and we finally just gave up.

Is this a problem? or a blessing? or are there anythings that I/we may have been doing wrong?

 

[bluerock53]

You should ask a doctor.

 

[bIgjOe]

Not a problem at all man, the vagina is still a foreign thing to your penis. Probably even the very next you'll most likely find it very difficult not to come. I had a similar situation.

 

[Scruffy]

Thats what my girlfriend said she was like : "Well youre probably just nervous and youre not used to it, thats why"

so what youre saying is that she was probably right?

 

[qwerty2]

Dude, don't sweat it. You should be happy man, 45 minutes! My first time last like a half-hour. I had had fun because the girl i was with got off a lot but I didn't at all. I know there's always the anticipation with the first time to cum, but realize, like bIgjOe said, that you're still adapting to the feel of the vagina. After a few more times, you'll get the hang of things and begin to enjoy it.

Also, don't worry if you're 1 hour pleasure ride drops down to 5-15 minutes or even quicker. That happens naturally with guys. That's why you've gotta build back up to 45 or so. Your girlfriend will love you for it. Don't sweat it man, "first time jitters" can get you worried but don't worry about it, just keep trying and DON'T GET HARD ON YOURSELF (no pun/misunderstanding intended).

 

[bIgjOe]

Thats what my girlfriend said she was like : "Well youre probably just nervous and youre not used to it, thats why"

so what youre saying is that she was probably right?

Yeah more or less.

 

[Scruffy]

KK thanks for the support, hopefully she gives me a second chance

 

[penguinsfan]

It may be nothing. I naturally have problems like that, if you want to call it a problem. For me, if I have sex more frequently the sex feels better and all but I do nut quicker. Also, the position means everything, IMHO. For me, doggy didn't yield a thing, standing up wasn't that great, lying down taking her from behind was great, and missionary is the best of all.

 

[O'RileyColt]

Hey man, doesn't sound like a real big problem. Sex for your first time is hectic, plus where you wearing a condom. Sounds like you weren't fully relaxed. Was anything else going on in your mind? Just take it easy, let things slip into place. Ehem.

 

[Scruffy]

No condom (bad idea, i know) but i wasnt relaxed at all, i was too worried that she was gonna think it was bad and that would be the end of the relationship -_-

after i gave up she laughed and told me not to worry about it, that it was a good thing.

 

[sweets]

She laughed cuz you were fucking her like a rabbit I bet, for 45 mins, trust me, rather it be longer than busting your nut like in 20 seconds, that's a little more embarrasing, and that's happened to me in the past, I was like whoops, threw on my getup and got the fuck outta their rofl Anyway, they'll be like a thousand more times, if you're really worried, try not to bust for a bunch of days or so, or more foreplay er something! rofl