Hey DutchAthletic, how's it going fellow bro & PE'r. I'm in my late 20s and have been doing PE for the last 5 yrs on & off.
I've gone from 5.9×5.4 to roughly 6.8×6.3 at my hardest.
Do you mind sharing your starting and current stats?
I saw that you referred to yourself as an incel in several posts. I'm inching close to 30 and am still a virgin. I've had several girls ask me out throughout the years and be interested but for various psychological and emotional reasons I decline them.
Reasons include a crappy manipulative father who was very religious but also a serial cheater and he also showed me graphic abortion videos at 5 when both my mom and oldest sister were both pregnant.
I feel like I'm unable to love or stand to be around another person in a relationship.
I tend to be antisocial and have dealt with depression so meeting new people and trying to engage and impress girls seems like such a hassle because I dont like
hanging around people and girls are people too.
I dont drive due to anxiety and dont have any friends or care if I have any so I'm pretty sure I'll keep being alone in the time to come.
Thought I'd reach out DA92 since I think we're in similar situations, you're welcome to share your story with me if you'd like or we could just talk PE.
Stay strong & keep growing bro.
Hey man,
I am not actively doing PE. I am just having a long deconditioning break.
I don’t know what my current stats are. I think 7” BPEL and 5.7” EGor something. I haven’t measured for months.
You have very nice stats! I wish I had your girth! But I hesitate because I am afraid it will hinder me in gaining length.
When I have the money I will buy an ultrasound device in order to heat my shaft while
hanging. I am looking around for a good deal. I have moved in back with my parents and siblings. I don’t have much privacy anymore due to corona virus and lockdown.
But there’s some way to work around it. I will do my
hanging sets late at night. Regarding that incel stuff.... Yes I am still an incel, but I turned out to be a volcel (voluntary celibate). And why? Because I don’t give a fuck anymore.
You see when you grow up you have a certain attraction level due to your appearance. I took the red pill and black pill. I am at total peace with myself and the world. I accept it the way it is.
You have to find stuff what makes you happy. Don’t do PE or fitness to impress women. It will make you miserable. Do it for yourself.
I have accepted my faith and I am not gonna whine about it man. I could put in lots and lots of effort to meet girls, learning game seduction skills and whatnot... But in the end You have to ask yourself: is this it worth dedicating my life to?
Go look up those PUA dudes, they have nothing going on in their lives and they completely dedicated their whole existence to picking up girls. Yes they may have smashed lots of pussy. I tell you that it’s an empty endeavor. It doesn’t have any meaning. It’s like a black hole they got sucked in. Some even tried to commit suicide because they thought they would find something meaningful. It’s just a stinky meathole and when you cum you’re done with it and you don’t even desire the girl anymore and you’d wish she’d leave but then afterwards she wants to stay and sleep for the night.... Fuck that nonsense man..
In the end they didn’t find shit. They were left empty and broken. Banging girls isn’t the end all be all. You have to have goals in your life. Women aren’t life goals. They’re just a mere distraction and leeching off men’s resources.
I was a virgin until 23 years old. I fucked a slut and I still regret it today. It was completely stupid and empty. No love, nothing. Fuck that shit man.
I had a relationship with a girl for 4years. girls empty your wallet and drain your time. It isn’t worth it.
If you want to achieve big goals in life, stay the fuck away from women. Get redpilled and learn about their nature because they aren’t some kind of innocent beings.
I am very cautious about women. I don’t want anything to do with them. If one comes along, and we click, then great we might have a fuck here and there but I am mostly closed off and introverted by nature. I just don’t bother with it anymore.
I wish I could have stayed virgin man. Honestly, that would be so awesome. Please take all the sluts in the world, I don’t care. You’re wasting away your young and precious years chasing women.For nothing. And you’re wasting semen, a life force which all men are wasting in pointless hedonism and skirt chasing.
I don’t even want to fuck women anymore. Even when I reach my goals of 10” BPEL and 7” EG. I prefer to stay celibate because I also walk a spiritual path and I have so many plans to execute in this world. I don’t even have time for women.
I do all kinds of stuff and I don’t even look at women lol. I never make eye contact because it doesn’t phase me anymore. I am doing other things with my life.
I also had a traumatic childhood but I learned to process my emotions and strengthening my mind and soul. I want to do things that make me genuinely happy.