Crying

[KiTTie8695]

This may sound silly, but I cry sometimes after I orgasm after sex. I'm not quite sure what it is that triggers this problem, but it's been happening for quite a while. I'm not sure if it's all psychological or if it's just because it was such a powerful orgasm. I used to be part of a community on livejournal.com called sextips and I asked the same thing there but they said it happens to them too.

But it's been kindda bugging me lately and I'm thinking about seeing a therapist for it (plus to see one for depression and stuff...divorce and all that crap).

Any suggestions?

 

[DLD]

This may sound silly, but I cry sometimes after I orgasm after sex. I'm not quite sure what it is that triggers this problem, but it's been happening for quite a while. I'm not sure if it's all psychological or if it's just because it was such a powerful orgasm. I used to be part of a community on livejournal.com called sextips and I asked the same thing there but they said it happens to them too.

But it's been kindda bugging me lately and I'm thinking about seeing a therapist for it (plus to see one for depression and stuff...divorce and all that crap).

Any suggestions?

Your problem is not psychological it is completely physical. Your boyfriends penis is too big

 

[stillwantmore]

I've heard of people laughing or passing out from orgasm too.

 

[The Artist]

Kinda off topic but my ex use to start crying for no apparent reason at all. we'd be driving down the road and she'd just start crying..wtf I'd ask her if she wanted to talk about anything (I was her boyfriend after all ? ) "No it's OK"...yeah fucking right...I suspected she was hiding something and didn't want to hurt me emotionally..however I didn't say this. < We broke up soon after for other reasons...I guess. I banged her twin sister though after that....maybe she was crying because I asked her to give me head...cause she told me "I don't suck DICK!!!) mean as shit.. I was like :O "It's cool" "It's cool" What's a guy gotta do to get some 69 action...never done it

 

[HungLikeHolmes]

maybe she was crying because I asked her to give me head...cause she told me "I don't suck DICK!!!

What a bitch. lol

Actually I used to get anxiety attacks during the night when I was little, and going to the toilet used to take my mind off how depressed I was. Now when sometimes when I really need to go to the toilet I feel really depressed. I still rub my eyes when I go to the toilet like Im crying. :balling:

Maybe something traumatic happened when you had your first few orgasms or something? Dont quote me, Im not a psycologist.

I hope I grossed someone out.

 

[Texan]

Kittie, I've heard of that before. I don't think it's real common, but I don't think it's abnormal.

 

[KiTTie8695]

Your problem is not psychological it is completely physical. Your boyfriends penis is too big

LOL well i knew that

 

[KiTTie8695]

Hydromaxm... well idk.. it could be all with my past too. i went through some rough shit with my ex (incase you all havent heard about it before in a previous thread)

http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/showthread.php?t=12381

but yeah... i'm not sure, maybe that's also a cause? ?

 

[HungLikeHolmes]

Wow, seems pretty clear that has something to do with it IMO.

That happened to my ex girlfriend, she went on prozac for a long time afterwords.
Shit like that fucks with peoples heads for a long time, shes got some serious problems now.

Just out of curiousity, were you like 'No, No' or was it one of those silent but you obviously didnt want to do it scenarios.

 

[Shithead]

don't get so carried away, there are millions of girls out there who cry after orgasm just like you. you don't need a therapist.

 

[HungLikeHolmes]

don't get so carried away, there are millions of girls out there who cry after orgasm just like you. you don't need a therapist.

(sarcastic tone) Thats right, orgasms should always be followed by depression. Dont think about it, just live with it, addressing the problem would do you no good what so ever. (sarcastic tone)


If you dont want to go into any further detail about what happened thats cool.

 

[against_odds21]

I haven't heard of any. I think if you can't figure it out on your own and it really bothers you, it wouldn't be a bad idea to seek out some professionals.

 

[stillwantmore]

Some cultures call an orgasm "the little death". So in a way, crying afterward...kinda makes sense?

 

[derringer57]

There is this one "gusher video" where this girl sprays mad ass cum, musta been a HUGE orgasm, prolly one of those ginormous orgasm women... anyhow she cried kinda in tears and her body was still humping a little so to speak... *shrug* powerful orgasms I bet...

 

[Dashdeming]

Kittie,
It's an emotionally induced chemical reaction that is causing your crying and every female has the reaction. Some have it in a more pronounced way than others. Most just have a quiet time. I wouldn't consider the crying as a abnormal or bad thing. Considering the issues you are going through, however, it might be a good idea to seek advice of a professional. The crying after orgasm alone though is not a problem, that is just your make-up.

 

[KiTTie8695]

Just out of curiousity, were you like 'No, No' or was it one of those silent but you obviously didnt want to do it scenarios.

the second one.

 

[KiTTie8695]

Kittie,
It's an emotionally induced chemical reaction that is causing your crying and every female has the reaction. Some have it in a more pronounced way than others. Most just have a quiet time. I wouldn't consider the crying as a abnormal or bad thing. Considering the issues you are going through, however, it might be a good idea to seek advice of a professional. The crying after orgasm alone though is not a problem, that is just your make-up.

yeah i figured that it was normal, but it adds to the problem. thankies

 

[KiTTie8695]

update...

me and zack had were doing stuff last night, we ended up having sex (i haven't had it for like a few days now...probably like 4 or so) and when I orgasmed, I dunno how to really explain it, I started shaking uncontrollably (my entire body), my feet went numb and I began crying uncontrollably as well. And this went on for a good 30 seconds...maybe longer.

This hasn't happened to me before either so I don't know what it was. We tried figuring it out last nigh afterwards, but I was still a little shook up for a good 15 -20 minutes after it happened.

 

[AnotherGuy]

I don't know about crying but I've seen a girl start shaking uncontrollably with her eyes rolling around and giggling...it was weird and cool at the time. I think you're a victim of Massivorgasmicpleasureoverload, you have such an intense orgasm that you just start crying. Some girls giggle, I've heard of others who go into violent fits...punching, kicking, etc. See a councelor and see what they say, maybe even a sex therapist.

 

[Shithead]

it's weird coz you could say "i had the BEST orgasm last night, my feet went numb, i shook uncontrolably and i cried".

or you could say "i had the WORST orgasm last night, my feet went numb, i shook uncontrolably and i cried".

maybe you should just try to enjoy the experience. i dunno.

 

[KiTTie8695]

it's weird coz you could say "i had the BEST orgasm last night, my feet went numb, i shook uncontrolably and i cried".

or you could say "i had the WORST orgasm last night, my feet went numb, i shook uncontrolably and i cried".

maybe you should just try to enjoy the experience. i dunno.

well i juss did explain my experience, and i DO enjoy it, obviously you didn't fully read what I just wrote. you're kindda testing my patience here, pal.

 

[KiTTie8695]

I don't know about crying but I've seen a girl start shaking uncontrollably with her eyes rolling around and giggling...it was weird and cool at the time. I think you're a victim of Massivorgasmicpleasureoverload, you have such an intense orgasm that you just start crying. Some girls giggle, I've heard of others who go into violent fits...punching, kicking, etc. See a councelor and see what they say, maybe even a sex therapist.

yeah... zack thought that if he pulled out right before it happened or when it happened, I probably would have flooded the place.

 

[Shithead]

well i juss did explain my experience, and i DO enjoy it, obviously you didn't fully read what I just wrote. you're kindda testing my patience here, pal.

jesus christ, im just trying to help, you never said you enjoyed it, all you said is you were shook up by it.

 

[Texan]

well i juss did explain my experience, and i DO enjoy it, obviously you didn't fully read what I just wrote. you're kindda testing my patience here, pal.

I know Shithead can be a shithead a lot of the time, but I think what he was saying here is that it is kinda "weird" in that your experience could be described either as the best orgasm ever or the wrost, depending on how one (you) chose to view it. I could be wrong, but I don't think he was being as obnoxious as he can be.

 

[kong1971]

I remember one time cumming so hard I felt kind of misty-eyed and emotional afterwards. I think, if it's good, and there's alot of build-up and tension, that you can experience some strange emotional things after going off. I and my wife both normally laugh afterwards when it's really, really good, like slappy giggles. I doubt if your crying is some kind of repressed memories or something negative...just a big release of tension and a flood of hormones. I wouldn't worry about it too much. It could be worse... you could uncontrollably flatulate or urinate after!

 

[KiTTie8695]

alright well i seem like a friggen jerk now.

 

[samzman]

kongs pretty right. at least you don't start fartin like a bastard afterward lol

either way baby, i still love you very much. i will help you in any way that i can.

 

[KiTTie8695]

yeah i kno right lol...thats the last thing anyone would want! lol

but thankies pookie i 'uv you lots.

 

[pupper]

I have came so hard I though I would pass out,my oal is to make my wife pass out,I can make her tremble uncontrollably and scream(if the kids aren't home she gets very loud,when they are around she has a phobia of them hearing her scream)

 

[KiTTie8695]

any normal parent would be afraid to have their kids hear their sex noises