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Ok,

I'm not understanding the reason why the big deal about anal sex. Is the whole world turning gay? What is it? Can't you feel the pussy anymore? If not maybe you should get a good girl instead of a whore. I'm trying not to be judgemental but damn. That shit is gay. No matter if you hit a girl or guy that shit is gay. Do women really like that? I ask because I don't know any who do. We as a culture go along with too many perversions because that shit is prison gay shit that somebody pulled from the prison into mainstream. This shit is fucked up. I checked out some vids the other day and in the middle of everything the dude just popped up with the anal shit. You can't meet anyone new now days without being scared they have aids. My bad, I'm tripping but I really would like some feedback on the anal situation. You know, Like WHY?
 
Nos, you are definitely entitled to your opinion, but it is in no way gay for a man to have anal sex with a woman. many women can have more powerful orgasms through anal than they can through vaginal sex. also man, i am not gay, but this is a site that welcomes gay men, so please try not to make condescending remarks like "gay shit" here. please be more respectful. you do not have to agree with homosexuality, but on this site you do have to respect it
 
Nos said:
Ok,

I'm not understanding the reason why the big deal about anal sex. Is the whole world turning gay? What is it? Can't you feel the pussy anymore? If not maybe you should get a good girl instead of a whore. I'm trying not to be judgemental but damn. That shit is gay. No matter if you hit a girl or guy that shit is gay. Do women really like that? I ask because I don't know any who do. We as a culture go along with too many perversions because that shit is prison gay shit that somebody pulled from the prison into mainstream. This shit is fucked up. I checked out some vids the other day and in the middle of everything the dude just popped up with the anal shit. You can't meet anyone new now days without being scared they have aids. My bad, I'm tripping but I really would like some feedback on the anal situation. You know, Like WHY?
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I guess you don't kiss or get blowjobs then,both of which gay men do.

Anal sex with a women is anal sex with a women for it to be gay you would have to do it with a man.
 
i don't know if he is ignorant...he may just be young or inexperienced....i'm 27 yrs old and i've been in the sex game for 12 yrs...and it took me until my early twenties to actually start to experiment with other things and positions...and anal was something i waited to do...and i am not sorry i did it...i don't do it with everone..only in my serious relationships...and Nos my girl loves it...i use vibrators on her too..not because i can't satisfy her myself...cuz it is a part of sexual experimentation that we found out we both like...Nos i will tell anyone to don't knock it until you try it
 
Well...

If it's gay having anal with a women, I would have a tougher time staying hard for the process. Believe me... I find nothing gay about it.

My current g/f has been my best experience with the anal world and let me tell you, it can be very intense my friend. ;)
 
Ok Guys,

I'm still not convinced about it but I do respect your thoughts. As I read that most of you respect mine. If I in any way offended anyone (gay shit) in the process "I Apologize". I have always thought myself to be an open minded and tolerant person but there are somethings I just don't get. Maybe I will have that epiphany one day.

Peace
 
NOS, it was very cool of you to come out and admit you may have done something wrong and apologize, great class there mate. as far as getting it goes you dont have to get it, but you are on the right track. we fully respect your opinion that anal is not for you and you dont understand why people would do it. as far as homosexuality goes man its hard for me to see how men like other men but i definitely respect it because its hard for a lot of people to see how i do a lot of things i do. its just respecting peoples differences. for example people outside of the pe world probabl dont understand how we could possibly spend so much time on our penises, but we know damn well its a great way to spend our time. at any rate good move man
 
Nos said:
Ok Guys,

I'm still not convinced about it but I do respect your thoughts. As I read that most of you respect mine. If I in any way offended anyone (gay shit) in the process "I Apologize". I have always thought myself to be an open minded and tolerant person but there are somethings I just don't get. Maybe I will have that epiphany one day.

Peace
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Very cool post man. I send my respect to you for that one!
 
i don't have the same kinda respect for Nos that people are speaking about, why should i respect a person for making a mistake and having a wrong opinion.

to every question there is one right answer, to every issue there is one right opinion. i respect a person trying to find that right answer or opinion, through debates of contrasting opinions, or reading to further develop their own opinion, or just passivly observing though life, etc.

Nos wasn't trying to develop his opinion, even if his post did have questions in it, he was pretty much saying "my opinion is so obviously right, why do you insist on being wrong?"


i don't mean to offend anyone, so i hope a mature discussion can continue.
 
Nos said:
Ok,

I'm not understanding the reason why the big deal about anal sex. Is the whole world turning gay? What is it? Can't you feel the pussy anymore? If not maybe you should get a good girl instead of a whore. I'm trying not to be judgemental but damn. That shit is gay. No matter if you hit a girl or guy that shit is gay. Do women really like that? I ask because I don't know any who do. We as a culture go along with too many perversions because that shit is prison gay shit that somebody pulled from the prison into mainstream. This shit is fucked up. I checked out some vids the other day and in the middle of everything the dude just popped up with the anal shit. You can't meet anyone new now days without being scared they have aids. My bad, I'm tripping but I really would like some feedback on the anal situation. You know, Like WHY?
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From a woman's perspective.. and I've never had anal, or sex for that matter.. anal is not attractive. In any way. At all. It's rather gross and I would more than likely laugh in a guy's face if he ever suggested anal.
 
IHaveAVagina said:
From a woman's perspective.. and I've never had anal, or sex for that matter.. anal is not attractive. In any way. At all. It's rather gross and I would more than likely laugh in a guy's face if he ever suggested anal.
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im sure if you and Nos hooked up you'd both be very happy.
 
Shithead said:
i don't have the same kinda respect for Nos that people are speaking about, why should i respect a person for making a mistake and having a wrong opinion.

to every question there is one right answer, to every issue there is one right opinion. i respect a person trying to find that right answer or opinion, through debates of contrasting opinions, or reading to further develop their own opinion, or just passivly observing though life, etc.

Nos wasn't trying to develop his opinion, even if his post did have questions in it, he was pretty much saying "my opinion is so obviously right, why do you insist on being wrong?"


i don't mean to offend anyone, so i hope a mature discussion can continue.
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Really, this is one of the most closed minded things I've ever seen. Well maybe it wasn't intended that way, maybe it was just poorly thought out.

"What's your favorite band?"

There's one question right there that will have thousands of different answers. They're all right. I know it's a trivial question, but think about what you said man. If Nos says "Anal sex seems gay to me," then it does. Plain and simple. He didn't have a "wrong opinion" because there is no such thing.

Ok, back to the thread.

I'd try it if my wife wanted to, but other than that I'd be cool with not having anal sex. Whatever.
 
Shithead said:
im sure if you and Nos hooked up you'd both be very happy.
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You're ridiculous, just so you know. And that's my opinion that I'm allowed to have whether you think it's cool, wrong, or flaming homosexual. Grow up. By the way, nice username. You certainly live up to it.
 
What's the deal here??? everyone seems so eager to get offended. It's cool if someone male or female doesn't like anal sex and isn't willing to participate in it, but it's also cool for people that enjoy it. I have tried anal with several women (wife included) in the past and i was actually asked by the women to do it. After much discussion on the subject of anal sex with women, most that like anal now admit to being disgusted by it in the past (generally when they were younger). So that said, don't knock it if you're not into it now cuz who knows... you may be an anal freak in ten years. you just never know...
 
I don't think it's gay or anything to do anal with a woman, but I do think it's rather dirty. I mean... feces comes from there. :O
 
Stuff_ said:
I don't think it's gay or anything to do anal with a woman, but I do think it's rather dirty. I mean... feces comes from there. :O
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That's why it's not an act that lends itself to spontaneity, at least if you plan on going bare-back. The woman needs to eat light for 24-48 hours prior, and have an enema or two within a few hours before the act. At least, that's what I've read, never having been a part of the festivities.
 
IHaveAVagina said:
From a woman's perspective.. and I've never had anal, or sex for that matter.. anal is not attractive. In any way. At all. It's rather gross and I would more than likely laugh in a guy's face if he ever suggested anal.
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Of course it doesn't surprise me that you would be grossed out by it, as many women are. I don't claim to know every man's perspective on it, but mine my be a little interesting.

I think it is an act of incredible intimacy. I've never been in love, but I once had anal sex with a two-night stand. This was a girl I hooked up with and spent the following night with. Although I did not "love" her, I did feel a strong bond with her and would no doubt have a closer relationship with her if she did not live hundreds of miles away (I was on business). We shared our troubles and I did feel as much closeness and intimacy with her and I have felt with anyone. Anal sex just kind of came up. I didn't really ask for it and she didn't beg for it either. I was gentle and in tune with her needs or concerns and I could tell she definitely got pleasure from it.

One can certainly argue that the ass is indeed dirty. I mean, condoms and some hygeine measures can keep it from being an awful traumatic experience, as far as cleanliness is concerned. Still, I wouldn't do it with just anyone. There are certainly women I would have vaginal intercourse with that I would not want to have anal sex with. So, I shared something special with this girl; something I wouldn't do with just anyone.

I think if I would be in a loving relationship with a woman, I want to enjoy her whole body. I want to bond with her in every way possible. I would just put aside minor issues of cleanliness to enjoy intimacy. That is all within reason of course, but that is why I don't see anything gross about anal. Yet, I understand why so many do.
 
I tried with the wife just to try something different.
We both enjoyed it but it's not something i'd do very often.
 
I have a question about anal sex i hope some of you monsters can comment on. I just started on my quest for 7.5 nbpel X 6 (goal by the end of 05), and was wondering if with 6 inches of girth there is anyway some women will let me even attempt anal sex. What about head? Dont want to give up head. Any comments would be great.
 
A 6" girth won't prevent you from doing anal, you just have to go slow and make sure she's warmed up and well lubed before entering her. It may be a good idea to start with small anal plugs and work up to larger ones 'til she's ready for you.

As far a head goes, you don't have to give up head... it just won't be the same as she'll have trouble deep throating. My wife used to be able to deep throat me but now when she tries, i just get alot of teeth rubbing (ouch).
 
Yeah, 7.5"x6" just means you would have to work up to it. From what I understand, the ass will take quite a lot, but it must be gradually introduced.
 
Once again as the saying goes, "Don't knock it 'till you tried it". I've had anal sex with numerous ex-girlfriends and most recently my wife. There was nothing ever "gay" about it. Every woman has thoroughly enjoyed it and I was happy to give it to them. ;) For many women it can be a very intense and pleasurable experience. Additionally this has been said to me many times even by other women with whom I was not sexually active with. As a matter of fact, after I had been with my wife this morning she requested special "treatment" tonight. Damned if I'm going to shirk in my maritial duties. :P
 
You know what...?
I'm going to keep having anal sex regardless of what NOS thinks.
:D
He is so misguided and uninformed that he is simply missing out.
By not even trying it.... he is missing out. :|
 
Homophobes like NOS just don't get it... sex is more than just about procreation, it's also about pleasures. Guys like him are too busy worrying about doing something that might make him gay that he's missing out on something that could be very good. Maybe when he passes puberty, he's tune may change...
 
Well the strange thing is....
"Gay" means you are sexually and/or emotionally attracted to the same sex as yourself. Period.
A "sexual activity" on the other hand is shared by any two (or more) people that want to participate. A particular activity is NOT Gay. That is impossible.

Okay... enough of this. ;)
 
pinprick said:
Well the strange thing is....
"Gay" means you are sexually and/or emotionally attracted to the same sex as yourself. Period.
A "sexual activity" on the other hand is shared by any two (or more) people that want to participate. A particular activity is NOT Gay. That is impossible.

Okay... enough of this. ;)
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you don't understand, homophobes' logic works somthing like this...

gay guys consist of two things, 1. ass fucking, 2. girlyness
if your not a typical macho wanker dumbass full of himself, then your girly, thus a poof.
if you fuck someone in the ass that means your a poof girly wank.
 
Shithead said:
i don't have the same kinda respect for Nos that people are speaking about, why should i respect a person for making a mistake and having a wrong opinion.

to every question there is one right answer, to every issue there is one right opinion. i respect a person trying to find that right answer or opinion, through debates of contrasting opinions, or reading to further develop their own opinion, or just passivly observing though life, etc.

Nos wasn't trying to develop his opinion, even if his post did have questions in it, he was pretty much saying "my opinion is so obviously right, why do you insist on being wrong?"


i don't mean to offend anyone, so i hope a mature discussion can continue.
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this may have been covered in later posts (I like to start forums from the beginging post, first, kudos to Nos, it takes balls to admit your wrong, lastly; Shithead, how can he have a wrong opinion, its an opinion...
 
Chester said:
this may have been covered in later posts (I like to start forums from the beginging post, first, kudos to Nos, it takes balls to admit your wrong, lastly; Shithead, how can he have a wrong opinion, its an opinion...
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what if someone had the opinion that all black people are inferior and should all be killed...

i wrote that post pretty quickly and rushed, but im not gonna go into the whole definitions of what an opinion really is and have some philosophical debate in a thread on anal sex. start a thread elsewhere about it if ya want.
 
"what if someone had the opinion that all black people are inferior and should all be killed..."
touche, that is a very good example, it is still an opinion and I dont think an opinion can be WRONG, it can be crazy; thats just my opinion though :) anyways, im going to stop talking about opinions now and let the thread return to its topic... sorry about the tangent there
 
Anal sex is often associated with male dominance, and male dominance is associated with causing pain in women and degrading them. Now, having said that, one of my greatest pleasures in my sexual like is anal sex with a woman who truly enjoys it! I would never force it on any woman, and I'm always very, very gentle with my women, but some of the women in my life are so turned on by anal sex that they expect it regularly. My ex still wants to get together just for that, even if for nothing else, and it is most gratifying that someone really, really wants me to fuck her in the ass! There is something about anal sex that is different from PIV sex -- it's more sensual, more intense, and definitely not gay -- I'm the most strictly hetero guy you would ever meet. If my current favorite girlfriend (a Brazilian beauty, former international swimming champion and runway model) liked anal sex, she would have me in the palm of her hand for the rest of my life! I would forsake everything else in my life for that! But, alas, she doesn't like it! Still, she's the most beautiful woman I have ever met, and hope springs eternal!

Solfan
 
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