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Iwantlenght said:
So guys i stoped adult entertainment now for over 1,5 week and havent even masturbated for 1 week. Ive been away from my gf for 2 weeks and just met her now after a 10 hour drive and it was literally impossible to get hard. Its so hard to feel good about my self or even feel like a man when that happens, im only 21 also...
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I am very proud of you for stopping adult entertainment, it’s the best decision you have made. All that filth does is skew your perspective and subjugate women. It will also affect your erection quality as masturbation brings refractory and fatigue.

don’t get down on yourself, let’s just make a plan to correct these issues. Why do you think you’re not getting the best erections? Are you able to get an erection on your own? Let’s start here and I will advise you as well your brothers to the best steps to take.
 
DLD said:
I am very proud of you for stopping adult entertainment, it’s the best decision you have made. All that filth does is skew your perspective and subjugate women. It will also affect your erection quality as masturbation brings refractory and fatigue.

don’t get down on yourself, let’s just make a plan to correct these issues. Why do you think you’re not getting the best erections? Are you able to get an erection on your own? Let’s start here and I will advise you as well your brothers to the best steps to take.
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Yea i can get an erection on my own but it takes alot longer than it used to before, after i wrotr that we actually could have sex 2 times the first time i was super hard and other time i was hard for the most but lost it 2 times. We also did it day after and same there lost it 2-3 times but could finish. Then we tried again a couple hours later and i got really hard wheb the clothes were on. Then when i took it of i completly lost it and my dick shrimped and i couldnt even get hard from blowjob, that has never happend to me before
 
If you’re able to become erect on your own then this is a completely psychological issue. And I think most men after they have sex with a raging hard on go through the refractory period, and after that they still may be fatigued.
 
I recognize the problem. There is a difference between getting hard and staying hard imo. If you can get a normal erection once you're alone but not with a girl than it's purely in your head of course. I have the same and am working on it. I did not watch adult entertainment for some while, which makes want to have more sex with my girlfriend. But I'm not sure if that's it. I used to watch adult entertainment in the past and still be able to rock 'n roll. But couldn't stay hard once and since that time it's in my head.

She has been talking for some time about a girlfriend who wants to join us in a mff. Of course, this is the dream of every man but in my head the same mantra keeps on going on: I need to have a rock hard one and stay hard...And it makes me insecure.
No idea yet how to solve it. Try to do some mental framing and seeing myself being strong and with a big hard penis all the time. If anyone has more tips, please let me know!
 
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Bramv said:
More information on Imagery / positive mental framing:

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visualization is such an important part of penis enlargement. The only thing I think that works better is asking God to help us grow. So while you’re visualizing also pray and I guarantee you things will be much better in every way. Also look through the mental penis enlargement section for a ton of material on the psychological impact on growing and healing
 
Iwantlenght said:
Yea i have been watching adult entertainment sooo much more then i should im gonna stop completly and masturbate less and if i do just use me and my gf! Thank you. I really feel like adult entertainment has destroyed sex for me and i hope it will ger better soon.
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I'm still struggling with adult entertainment and it seems I've watched all the big cock adult entertainment that are out there. I rarely get turned on by adult entertainment now and I know masturbation is the cause of this.
 
huge-girth said:
I'm still struggling with adult entertainment and it seems I've watched all the big cock adult entertainment that are out there. I rarely get turned on by adult entertainment now and I know masturbation is the cause of this.
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adult entertainment is progressive and eventually, like drugs, you need a stronger dose to do its thing. I rarely watch as I burned out ling ago. Today I crave a relationship where I have sex with someone that does it for me...someone I can talk to and love. Masturbation does nothing for me. When I do it seems like I am forcing myself. It's easier to forgo it all together
 
DLD said:
adult entertainment is progressive and eventually, like drugs, you need a stronger dose to do its thing. I rarely watch as I burned out ling ago. Today I crave a relationship where I have sex with someone that does it for me...someone I can talk to and love. Masturbation does nothing for me. When I do it seems like I am forcing myself. It's easier to forgo it all together
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Hopefully, I can let go of it soon cause it's killing my willingness to have a woman in my life.
 
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