Something else I have noticed and know many guys have fallen into this trap: women say they want a man that can be committed and that won't cheat. They call us a lot when we first date and we become accustomed to their courtship. So men get used to good, steady sex with the girl their dating or are in a relationship with. Then all of a sudden the girl starts to back away when you start to call to resume the way the relationship has been going; steady sex and steady time together. Now the man thinks she is cheating or sick of you because she would rather be at a club then with you. So men get clingy and wonder what's going on. If it's a man with options, he goes out looking for another girl to satisfy his needs (sex and courtship). Now all of a sudden we're "cheaters" out for one thing. Now our "male tendencies" emerge when really the girls want the same thing we do (sex) only they have a way of making us look bad for getting what they weren't giving us. The girl always backs out and says "he's getting too clingy" when that's what they wanted us to be after they described what they wanted by using the word "commitment." Can their be commitment without clingyness? I don't think so. I'm beginning to think that is impossible to not be a player and settle down with a great girl, because they're all programmed to go after the bigger, better deal. There seems to be no comprimise with women any more, the sexual revolution has turned them into independent minded sluts taking advantage of men for sex, and making us look bad for doing the same to them only it's out of confusion as to where the relationship is. I'm ranting again, but I know everyone has had this happen to them with women. Insert feedback