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I'm guessing I'm not the only "perfect the way you are" one in here. I'm betting too that I'm not the only one that has a rush of negative emotions when they hear it.
For those of you that have already been down this path and were successful...
How did you explain how you feel about your cock to your significant other and the overwhelming urge to do something about it.
 
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I for one know only despair when looking at my cock.
I know what the measurements say about me compared to "average".
Regardless of the ruler's affirmation that I am well above average naturally, I feel incapable of pleasing my wife.
 
confidencegrown said:
I for one know only despair when looking at my cock.
I know what the measurements say about me compared to "average".
Regardless of the ruler's affirmation that I am well above average naturally, I feel incapable of pleasing my wife.
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Tough feeling. I got into penis enlargement due to a woman comparing my penis to another man. I'm not done jet, and I'm well above 8 Inch (bpel) in length.

Was is the reason you feel incapable of pleasing your wife. Are se judging you for your penis, or are she worshipping your penis?
 
squirt_inducer_man said:
Tough feeling. I got into penis enlargement due to a woman comparing my penis to another man. I'm not done jet, and I'm well above 8 Inch (bpel) in length.

Was is the reason you feel incapable of pleasing your wife. Are se judging you for your penis, or are she worshipping your penis?
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I'm not trying to discuss my feelings and what brought me here, but how to communicate and talk with a spouse or significant other. My wife has proven to be very much against. I cannot communicate how I feel.
Looking for advice from people who were successful at communicating how they feel and what brought them here.
 
That is good.

You can never communicate this to a woman. She will never understand penis enlargement. Be a man and keep her out of this.

Read this book.
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In this book you will learn about the questions you have.
 
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...be a man and keep her out of this...
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Laughably stupid, wife of 15 years, four kids together, she knows my dick. Knows what it was, what it is. Asking for people with experience bridging that communication gap. You clearly aren't that guy. Your statement and advice is very low quality guy.
 
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Laughably stupid, wife of 15 years, four kids together, she knows my dick. Knows what it was, what it is. Asking for people with experience bridging that communication gap. You clearly aren't that guy. Your statement and advice is very low quality guy.
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confidencegrown said:
I'm not trying to discuss my feelings and what brought me here, but how to communicate and talk with a spouse or significant other. My wife has proven to be very much against. I cannot communicate how I feel.
Looking for advice from people who were successful at communicating how they feel and what brought them here.
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This is the advice you get when you say you do not want to discuss your own feelings, and want other people to open up their own feelings and personal life. I tried to open up and be vulnerable in some way, but you shut down that communication so then I get hard.

Here was my attempt to keep this conversation on a deep level.
squirt_inducer_man said:
Tough feeling. I got into penis enlargement due to a woman comparing my penis to another man. I'm not done jet, and I'm well above 8 Inch (bpel) in length.

Was is the reason you feel incapable of pleasing your wife. Are se judging you for your penis, or are she worshipping your penis?
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I will leave this thread now. Not worth it to be vulnerable to people you don't know...just trying to be helpful.
 
squirt_inducer_man said:
I will leave this thread now. Not worth it to be vulnerable to people you don't know...just trying to be helpful.
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You didn't understand my question, I was trying to stop an off topic heading. We've all got our reasons for being here and doing this. I want advice from someone that has expressed their motivations successfully to their less than supportive and understanding partner.
I wasn't being rude or uncaring squirt, I just didn't want to be in the weeds, then you made a laughably ignorant comment about "being a man and keeping her out of it..." It's my wife... she's seen and sees my cock on the reg, we have sex... There's ZERO keeping her out of it.

To be clear though, wasn't trying to be rude, just halt the wrong trajectory.
 
confidencegrown said:
You didn't understand my question, I was trying to stop an off topic heading. We've all got our reasons for being here and doing this. I want advice from someone that has expressed their motivations successfully to their less than supportive and understanding partner.
I wasn't being rude or uncaring squirt, I just didn't want to be in the weeds, then you made a laughably ignorant comment about "being a man and keeping her out of it..." It's my wife... she's seen and sees my cock on the reg, we have sex... There's ZERO keeping her out of it.

To be clear though, wasn't trying to be rude, just halt the wrong trajectory.
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If she truly loves you, she will let you do what makes you happy. I bet if she saved money for breast implant and she tell you she wants to do it, you did allow her. Why are you allowing her to stop you from making gains in PE?
 
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If she truly loves you, she will let you do what makes you happy. I bet if she saved money for breast implant and she tell you she wants to do it, you did allow her. Why are you allowing her to stop you from making gains in PE?
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She's not stopping me, but this is becoming a negative influence in our relationship... Because I'm "perfect". Not realizing she is the source of so much of the mental anguish.
 
confidencegrown said:
She's not stopping me, but this is becoming a negative influence in our relationship... Because I'm "perfect". Not realizing she is the source of so much of the mental anguish.
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How is developing yourself becoming a negative influence in your relationship? If she genuinely loves you, PE won't be a negative influence. Men need to wake up.
 
Truce y'all
 
you’ve been together a long time and have children I assume she couldn’t care less how big you are “your perfect” and to her the whole notion of making your dick bigger is crazy talk.

me… I made it a jovial conversation over time, my partner’s 15 years younger than me so I used fear over my erection quality, ED and felt I was shrinking with age as motivating factors and it was to be a fun experiment, hobby kind of thing, and the purpose was to increase my self esteem and no other. (What’s the harm)
think of rational reasons that might make sense to her.
Start by introducing a pump (I did) let her get her head around that first.

obviously I don’t know you or your wife but it honestly worked for me.
 
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