Need some Tips for making the first time Special

My girlfriend and i have been together for a while and i must say we are both in love. I even though have had some close calls am still a virigin. She is not and truly regrets it but we have decided that we are ready for sex. We've done other things fingering, oral, hand jobs but never sex. i just want to know what can i do to make it special for her. She says having me is enough but i really want it to be special. i love her and want to show her im totally commited as much as she is. does anybody have any suggestions? i was thinking stuff like candles etc but i dont want it to seem planned out. it should just happen. Also based on my size in my sig what condom would be good. I need something to fit my size and i will say that when im aroused with her while doing things my penis is actually bigger than those readings not a lot but there is a diff. What do you guys suggest?
Thanks

You can prolly handle normal size condom. Maybe flowers on the special day? My first time was spontaneous. My g/f liked it better like that, than planned out, but you need to keep the rubber on you for whenever the moment arises. My first time things were getting heated and I was like lets do it and she was like you don't have a condom. Pulled it out and she was like lets go. :D

Not any idea about making it special, but finger her before sex and it won't hurt her that much, unless she is more experienced.

Takin' it slowly is always good for a first time. It lets you two explore eachother's bods and stuff, plus it's just a great feeling, and it makes not only you feel appreciated, but her as well. Maybe like against odds said, give her flowers or something, surprise her with something nice. Definitely throw in the candles, it will set the mood, maybe dim the lights while you're at it She'll love it, cuz god knows a lot of girls I know and myself love that kind of stuff, it's really romantic. It doesn't have to seem "oh he planned all this out" because if you take my advice, who knows, she might just have to give in

Samz made me FORGET my ex in the matter of a week or so , and I was regretting not being a virgin (for other reasons but whatever). Impressive ain't it?

the key to the first time havin sex with someone you care about is simple. make her feel like there is nothing else in the world. when the both of you are together that's it...nothing else is there. just you and her. kiss her, hold her, cherrish her. candles and dim lighting are always good, but those are props. SHOW how you feel to her. tell her you love her and kiss her neck, her breasts, keep her hips to yours tight and hold the small of her back. taste her skin and lips and sweat. take it all in. she's yours giving yourself to you, give yourself back. admire her mind, heart, body and soul. you're not just makin love to her body, but her entire being.

damn son you know what i want now haha i'll walk right over there.

anyway, yeah just take everyone's advice here, on the thread, BIGPimpin, I'm sure you'll do just fine

As tenacious says, "fuck her gently."

The BTC Killer said:

As tenacious says, "fuck her gently."

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HAHA- such a romantic. Exploding Brains!

Can't help you here. You're in a situation where you have deep feelings for your partner. To me, sex has always been (even as seldom as it's been) casual. Hell, if I ever end up in a relationship, I'll probably be asking you for advice. Don't know if that is going to happen, since I'm currently sticking with the philosophy of never sleep with the same woman twice. Fucked up as it may seem, the only sex advice I can offer anyone is to share some laughs and conversation. Just try to relax. I do recommend some alcohol, but not to excess.

Throw all the preconceptions out the window. From what I remember and a few guys I've talked to, what you hear is often like stereotypes--maybe some generalized truth but it doesn't pertain to every guy. For example, if you can remember the movie "American Pie" with the scene with Jim and Nadia in his room, they were making light of the fact that many guys are extremely quick on the trigger the first time out. But this is not all guys. I have talked to more than one fellow that kinda had a hard time cumming his first time and I can relate somewhat, as it was by no means instant. Hey, there's a very good chance you won't last long...but you never know. If you nervous and have your mind set on satisfying her and are worrying about shit, you might last 30 minutes. You might not be too bad either. There is no rule that says your first time has to TOTALLY SUCK for her. You'd probably be unlikely to wow her with orgasm after orgasm, but she may well get some pleasure out of the deal. Most likely, you'll need some time to adjust and adapt to each other. Some guys are probably more gifted than others, but any two people should be able to improve their sex working with each other. The guys that brag about having shagged 50+ women and made every last one of them cum repeatedly are pathetic. They are either so full of themselves and insecure that they have to brag such bullshit to make themselves feel good or they're so full of themselves that they're clueless to fakers.

Have fun.

Hey thanks guys for all the good advice. I want to try to make it as romantic and as special as possible for her. I want to try and read up on some moves and things as well so that way it will also feel good for her.
Thanks everybody

The BTC Killer said:

As tenacious says, "fuck her gently."

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that song is the shit... especially when you see the lil guys pounding her in the devil's eyes

BIGPimpin said:

Hey thanks guys for all the good advice. I want to try to make it as romantic and as special as possible for her. I want to try and read up on some moves and things as well so that way it will also feel good for her.
Thanks everybody

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and you're most certainly welcome, I hope all goes awesome for you :cool:

Listen to what has been said so far. Just make it a romantic evening that is not over-planned. You don't really need a special move, just go with the moment. But if you insist on using a special move, go for the helicopter...j/k

On a side note, I find it funny that burning wax sticks are considered romantic.