case study extremely big problem. HELP SOMEBODY PLEASE....

somehow ive ended here after battling this injury for al most 6 months. im in my 40's . i had jelqed off and on and pumped for a month or 2. nothing serious. felt better, and hung better it seemed. no real serious gains expected. just wanted better bloodflow and quality.

one day, i jelqed a bit harder than i had been, but no pain, and jsut for a minute. next day i pumped and accidentally went more than i wanted. no pain. immediately released and red along the base of the shaft. within the day it was gone. several days later i woke up with a shrunken unit and slight numbess on the shaft. had all hard flaccid symptoms.

was scared, so continued making my self have sex,. after a month or so, it seemed it was subsiding. i still woke up in the morning with a chub. but everything shrank to nothing during the day.then it started seeming like if we had sex more than once a week, it would traumatize everything and destroy my libido and size again.

very sensitive glans with burning /cooling feeling. shrunk all day. no erections. no night erections. then it would come back a week later with her, and we'd have sex again. eventually i figured out we had to quit for awhile. 6 months later, here i am. we just went a month of nothing. i still walk around all day shrunk to nothing. we had sex 2 days ago and it was great, but now it seems to be overly sensitive again. only time i hang normally , is if i lay down in bed awhile. but soon after i get up, its all gone again.

sensitivity/nerve damage, seems likely, but not sure. nothing feels like me down there unless im hard. it doesnt seem like i did anything too hard/painful to cause this, but i obviously did. not sure if this will heal ever, but i cant take any more panic attacks and anxiety. its hard to make it to bedtime every day. its the only relief i get.

it feels like i have half what i did on a normal day now, with no arousal. ive also noticed a constant pressure moreso while shrunken, in my rectum /perenium area,that tightens when i flex my penis. i get decent morning/night erections sometimes, and sometimes not as much. but im sure my anxiety day to day is effecting that . i cannot masturbate to get hard since the 2nd month of this, due to it irritating the nerves it seems on the head. actual sex doesnt irritate it as much, but it still does.

i always have the numbness/sensitivity issue to some degree, but its super bad when its shriveled up and burns. im just not sure the nerves will heal, and i dont know what to do now. im mentally exhausted and depressed. i can barely force myself to work or do anything that involves moving. it lets me know every step of every day what ive lost.
 
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Let me lend some advice here, @notmeanymore. This man just my suggestion here. But this is what I would do:
1.). Stay positive. No matter what. Hard to do at times, I surely know.
2.) Three times a day, use heat. For at least 10-15 minutes. I use an electric heating pad on a medium to high heat. Wrap your dick and just relax. Or get yourself the MossRed. Whatever works.
3.) Take a break. At least 4 weeks. Just rest and get plenty of sleep, fluids and hydration, quality vitamins and mineral supplements. Along with clean diet.
4.) I would suggest Cialis. 10mg daily. You can use 5-10mg daily forever. This is just my opinion as it’s worked for me as I was using Viagra and although it worked, just wasn’t the best for me. The Cialis keeps me ready to go for “anything” at all times. Especially PE.
5.) Utilize an organic blend of the following if you can get them. All are on Amazon, just ensure they are organic and solvent free:
A.) Coconut oil
B.) Rose Hip Oil
C.) Black Seed Oil
D.) Pumpkin Seed oil
Combine all of these 1-1 ratio. Mix and apply liberally on entire penis twice a day.
Many, many benefits for healing and others with all of these wonderful oils. Antibacterial, anti-inflammatory, good fats and acids, moisturizing etc.
6.) Week 5, see how you feel and the cock is doing. If ok, get back into the game and go low and slow.

Best I can advise. Good luck my brother.
TCDreamer.
 
well..ive been taking a break all winter. lol,and my diet is pretty clean as it can get. ive been gluten free for 2 years because i have to be medically.i have also been heating. within the last 2 weeks, im finally not as ultra sensitive as i was, so at least i can walk around without constant prickling and tingling.although i can still feel it lightly at times.

but overall condition of penis is crap and lifeless, unless its 5 am. i have no libido. im not sure where it went, or what caused it. but its hard to even think sexually, when my length and girth is totally choked off all day.and for the longest time, was basically numb by the end of the day. i have cialis. i just havent been convinced its what i need to take to help anything. i mean, its not going to heal anything, so i just dont understand where thats going to take me from here.
 
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ok... so enlighten me cause im not seeing it. i get how viagra will make it "work" . but how can it fix anything? as in when im not taking it, how is that going to help anything?
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@DLD meant to say, based on my assumption of his thinking process, that it assists or "cure" the needs to get immediate erection. As mentioned, it doesn't cure anything but it does help by pushing the nitric oxide level needed by the body. Notice that our brother is telling you to take 10mg from the 5mg concentration. As you can see, the requirement is getting higher, and will continue to rise the more you're dependent on the drug. There's no magical cure pill, but there are tons of remedies.

The only cure is the hard road ahead. We all mentioned:
  • Rest, rest, rest, and rest. Even if it takes more time, rest. When we get injured or suffered roadblocks, we rest. Sufficient amount of rest to reset everything.
  • Good dietary consumption, not fad diets. Supplements will boost the internal healing.
  • Reestablish good mindset. Everyone understands the hardships we all go through during tough times, especially during self-finding to get out of our funks (depressions or lack of self-esteem). We all gone through it. Even the toughest of the tough guys. They're not but babies in tough guy's clothing (cwl)
  • Be positive and humble even in the worst of time. This is a proven fact that positive thinking, believing that you will get things as you pursue them will reinforce the gains. Be of religious or simple self faith in postivity, your mind will lead you to gains as you pursue the gains. I believe there are tons of empirical evidence videos to prove our points. Being negative will indeed cause you spiral, and it affects those around you as well.
As a brotherhood, we're here for you. But let's put the posting in the support/psychology section. This is the "get my cock to be a python" section.
 
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well..ive been taking a break all winter. lol,and my diet is pretty clean as it can get. ive been gluten free for 2 years because i have to be medically.i have also been heating. within the last 2 weeks, im finally not as ultra sensitive as i was, so at least i can walk around without constant prickling and tingling.although i can still feel it lightly at times.

but overall condition of penis is crap and lifeless, unless its 5 am. i have no libido. im not sure where it went, or what caused it. but its hard to even think sexually, when my length and girth is totally choked off all day.and for the longest time, was basically numb by the end of the day. i have cialis. i just havent been convinced its what i need to take to help anything. i mean, its not going to heal anything, so i just dont understand where thats going to take me from here.
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Oooo..I have suggestion on this. You've seen the urologists. Both times, they said nothing was wrong, am I correct? My final suggestion is to see a third urologist for a second opinion, describing the same thing, but make sure to also add the usages of Cialis (higher concentration) and Viagra. Do make sure to notify the urologist the response time and total time of response for erection, if any.

If the third urologist is not giving you the answer that you need, see a pathologist. They will perform a full neurological stimulus on you to detect possible nerve degenerative issues. Some have nerve degenerative issue around the mobile limbs, such as fingers to arms, legs and toes. Some have facial to muscle nerve denerative issues due to strokes and trauma. This will sound odd, but there are medical stimulus devices out there to supplement for the lack of motor response, including penis. There are two from Japan and five from Europe. Chinese have their knockoffs.
 
im seeing one in 2 weeksor so . im pretty sure at least some nerve/nerves have been somewhat damaged, but at the same time, i can still feel everything during sex just fine. and within the last week, things feel the most normal theyve felt in 6 months. although still not back to normal yet. its just when limp when i get the tingling/burning crap. But, that has gotten quite a bit better in the last week thank God. erections are just really weird now. night erections can either be pretty hard and decent, or they feel restricted sometimes, or i just have my old normal plump limpness,and then back to shrunken nothing when i get up.

sex only seems to be ok, if i get hard naturally without trying (in the morning mostly). if im not hard already and try to manually do it, it will happen, but it doesnt have any volume to it like it did, and has been known to have slight pain. and i feel weired sensation in the urethra, and tightness deep in my rectum/perenium area like something is cutting off all my blood. there was a time a couple months ago, that if i had really hard night erections, the whole next day it would burn and hurt. it feels like it doesnt want to be stretched out at all sometimes.
 
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@squirt_inducer_man can we splice part of this discussion to the appropriate forum section? I think it's quite relevant for other brothers, but at the same time, I believe this is not the right section for it.

notmeanymore said:
im seeing one in 2 weeksor so . im pretty sure at least some nerve/nerves have been somewhat damaged, but at the same time, i can still feel everything during sex just fine. fine enough that is. its just when limp when i get the tingling/burning crap. usually. erections are just really weird now. night erections can either be pretty hard and decent, or they feel restricted sometimes. sex only seems to be ok, if i get hard naturally without trying (in the morning mostly). if im not hard already and try to manually do it, it will happen, but it doesnt have any volume to it like it did, and has been known to have slight pain. and i feel weired sensation in the urethra, and tightness deep in my rectum/perenium area like there was a time a couple months ago, that if i had really hard night erections, the whole next day it would burn and hurt. it feels like it doesnt want to be stretched out at all sometimes.
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BINGO! That's the info we're looking for. Pathologist and a very old timer urologist will address this very quickly. Two things:

Nerve damage, or partial nerve bundling under tight muscles from traumas. This happened quite a bit for those who like to use massive toys or suffered sphincter traumas in the past. Extremists, male gymnists, and idiots damaged their sphincters all the time. Those who also overworked on the kegel exercises or shoved too much toys or damaged by natural limbs also suffer severe nerve bundle near the prostate and anal. This results in the misfiring of the nerves from the anal to the urethra at times, as well as those odd sudden extreme erection without any prior warning. I suffered once from an injury going down the mountain side on my mountain bike, and accidentally jammed my ass down on bare metal frame. Well, let's just say I couldn't sit, piss, or shit with any comfort for months. Ants in the pants was one of them. Burning feeling was the other. A sudden erection out of nowhere was the most embarrassing one when lining up at the checkout line in my light sweat pants, while commando mode. Ladies loved the sight, but the feeling was not mutual.

Pathologist and urologist may flag you for examination near pubic region, especially around the sphincter. Be ready for finger probing sessions. SMH.
 
See a doctor and ask them if they have dealt a lot with bicyclists. I have heard that bicyclists are one of the main groups of people that have issues down there. You need to get to the bottom of this, no pun intended.
 
hmm...but i havent done anything whatsoever in or around my sphincter nor do i have any feeling issues back there. and id take a spontaneous erection any day of the week if i could get it. i havent had one since about 2 months after this started. all of my feeling issues were/are in the glans area, which have shown some improvement over 7 months.
 
If the nerve endings are not affected between the sphincters (there are multiple for the pubic region to deal with bladder and anal), and mainly at the glans, and the ants in the pants feeling only at the half portions of the penile shaft (glans to half of the penis shaft), nerve damage is one, and severe urethra damage is the other as both were pointed out. Scarring, thinning, and redamage of the nerves and urethra is also like suspected. X-ray won't show anything. Advanced sonogram/ultrasound will to see what damage lies below, but for nerves, that will be tricky. I'll leave that to the medical professionals.
 
and even then, i dont know of anything they can even do. i just sure dont see how i accomplished this accidentally in a few seconds, but somehow i did. i figure time is the only answer and thats just hard to swallow
 
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and even then, i dont know of anything they can even do. i just sure dont see how i accomplished this accidentally in a few seconds, but somehow i did. i figure time is the only answer and thats just hard to swallow
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Time will always be your best adversary
 
so, just so i dont forget, i thought of something else today. ive always had precum leaking out when ever i tried to manually get hard, or when ive thought sexual things and got mildly aroused. i get zero precum now ever. which doesnt sounds good really.

i took a small dose of cialis yesterday. never did really notice anything. but it was only 2.5 mg. but that i used that dose before this all happened a couple weeks, and it was phenomenal. but i hadnt destroyed myself yet either. i took one more this evening to see if theres even any effect after 2 days. the first time i took 5mg, it jsut seemed way way too intense.

although my feeling may not be perfect, i feel things a better now than i did 6-7 months ago, and i was able to have sex all the time with quite strong erections and great size. this is why the nerve thing is confusing to me to be causing me to have crap erections now after all this time. it has just very slowly progressed worse and worse over this time. walking around all day with absolutely zero arousal or a single twitch in the pants is unreal and depressing. but then to turn around, and wake up with a boner at 5 am makes it even more confusing.

i seem to physically feel things in the morning better and pretty well. sometimes by bedtime, i just feel numb.
 
How old are you again N -early or late 40's, how often do you work out, how long were you doing PE before this happened, what are your stats? I ask because it is important, did this happen all at the same time your body is changing as a man in general? We just need all the info you can give us, thank you for providing the zero precum. See below for things that I think are amazing for cum.

For pre-cum do what some call the cum cocktail. It gets you all sorts of pre cum.

Start with 1 & 2 (3 if needed, if you think you don't taste that great) then add 4 & 5 a few weeks and weeks after and see what combination works for you.

(1) Zinc, 50mg Strength, Taken 1 time daily = 50mg (with food) (some here say take 20-30MG)
(2) Lecithin, 1200mg Strength, Taken 1 time daily = 1200mg (with food)
(3) Bromelain, 500mg, Taken 1 time daily =500mg (This really does make your cum taste good, wifey approved and verified, she is shocked that I don’t taste like anything or that it is no longer salty. (with or without food) (not a substitute for eating junk or not working out- only after you are on your A-game but nothing else works)

(4) L-Arginine, 1000mg Strength, Taken 1 time daily = 1000mg (no food)
(5) Pygeum & Saw Palmetto, 160/50 mg Strength, Taken 2 times daily = 200mg (I could not take Pygeum in large doses, my stomach would hurt, so I am doing the mix of these with food) (some vets say this does not work for them, others love it- you must test on your self)
 
late 40's. i workout as oftenas i can. couple times a week at least. and i run now . i also do very strenuous work every day. 150 lbs. did this off and on for a couple months. seemed to help erections i thought. until i accidentally overpressured pump for a few seconds. 16-18 to best of my memory. zero pain though. was fine for a few days, then woke up feeling shrunken, and slight numbness,and now 8 months of pure hell and regret with no end in sight.

i dont really need anything to make my cum to taste good. lol. its just the fact that i dont even seem to have any ,which seems to have left the building with my libido with all this.
 
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@squirt_inducer_man can we splice part of this discussion to the appropriate forum section? I think it's quite relevant for other brothers, but at the same time, I believe this is not the right section for it.
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That is not possible with the current software.
You can create a new thread in the appropriate forum, and then quote parts of this discussion/thread there.

But once a thread are detailed, it's will stick forever.
 
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Líbido, as we discussed, is definitely fallen into two categories now. Hormones, which you've checked for the level earlier, and psychological reactions.

We've established that your psychological level is scattered as cross the floor in a very low level. Let's focus on that aspect for now. Not sure how many of us are specialized in that field, but our past experiences may assist you on recovering.

For one thing, I can say that I have experienced a partial negative side like yours in the past, either be being compared as too small to make the ladies satisfied or just bad relationships in general. However, I decided to set positive objectives/milestones along the way. This is crucial to get out of that dark time. The "how" will fall squarely on you as it does take mental reinforcement on your side. The "what must" can be given by everyone here.
 
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That is not possible with the current software.
You can create a new thread in the appropriate forum, and then quote parts of this discussion/thread there.

But once a thread are detailed, it's will stick forever.
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And we never delete a thread so be sure what you're posting is what you wanna post
 
man i wanna get off this ride forever. today has been weird. this is my 3rd day taking cialis. havent had a single different feeling throughout that day or night yet that i can tell. today ive been having one of my days where it just feels tight in my inner perenium/ butthole when i flex and a weird feeling(not exactly a pain), like a shooting pressure sensation right up my urethra when i flex or kegel. all day im shrunk again and dont seem to feel much. but at one point, it seemed everything let loose and my junk relaxed and swelled up and was actually like i had a normal penis again that had some volume. for that 20 minutes or so, i never felt those pain/blood flowing sensations deep inside my rectum. and of course, then everything went back to crap again for the rest of the day, and i feel all restricted again. ugh
 
Yep. Perfect sign of peroneal nerve pinch/damage. Comparable to sciatica. Suggestions from me, take a break. No more kegel. No more pelvic exercises.

If you want to, light to moderate pumping only. Less than 7 inHg for vac pressure. Light to moderate stretches only. Nothing more than the sensation of glans pressure at 7 inHg vac pressure. You will still get the elongation you need, light girth growth. However, keep it simple and easy until things clear up. Be positive with your mind set.

By the way, no more drugs. Let your body reboot.
 
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