case study extremely big problem. HELP SOMEBODY PLEASE....

somehow ive ended here after battling this injury for al most 6 months. im in my 40's . i had jelqed off and on and pumped for a month or 2. nothing serious. felt better, and hung better it seemed. no real serious gains expected. just wanted better bloodflow and quality.

one day, i jelqed a bit harder than i had been, but no pain, and jsut for a minute. next day i pumped and accidentally went more than i wanted. no pain. immediately released and red along the base of the shaft. within the day it was gone. several days later i woke up with a shrunken unit and slight numbess on the shaft. had all hard flaccid symptoms.

was scared, so continued making my self have sex,. after a month or so, it seemed it was subsiding. i still woke up in the morning with a chub. but everything shrank to nothing during the day.then it started seeming like if we had sex more than once a week, it would traumatize everything and destroy my libido and size again.

very sensitive glans with burning /cooling feeling. shrunk all day. no erections. no night erections. then it would come back a week later with her, and we'd have sex again. eventually i figured out we had to quit for awhile. 6 months later, here i am. we just went a month of nothing. i still walk around all day shrunk to nothing. we had sex 2 days ago and it was great, but now it seems to be overly sensitive again. only time i hang normally , is if i lay down in bed awhile. but soon after i get up, its all gone again.

sensitivity/nerve damage, seems likely, but not sure. nothing feels like me down there unless im hard. it doesnt seem like i did anything too hard/painful to cause this, but i obviously did. not sure if this will heal ever, but i cant take any more panic attacks and anxiety. its hard to make it to bedtime every day. its the only relief i get.

it feels like i have half what i did on a normal day now, with no arousal. ive also noticed a constant pressure moreso while shrunken, in my rectum /perenium area,that tightens when i flex my penis. i get decent morning/night erections sometimes, and sometimes not as much. but im sure my anxiety day to day is effecting that . i cannot masturbate to get hard since the 2nd month of this, due to it irritating the nerves it seems on the head. actual sex doesnt irritate it as much, but it still does.

i always have the numbness/sensitivity issue to some degree, but its super bad when its shriveled up and burns. im just not sure the nerves will heal, and i dont know what to do now. im mentally exhausted and depressed. i can barely force myself to work or do anything that involves moving. it lets me know every step of every day what ive lost.
 
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i do. have for 2-3 months. no idea if it helps. only 15 min-20 usually
. im doing decent at the moment. only thing that keeps me halfway normal is edging a few min every day, or sex. that has made my night erections fuller, and just general everyday feeling seem ok. my glans is just trying to heal it seems and my feeling is still lacking at light touch. if i ever get more sensitivity things feel like they will improve . its slow going though. im still not ejaculatig. i feel good enough im scared to chance it
It is a long healing process but you'll get there
 
no kiddig its slow. very slow. during the day it the worst. i just cant keep a normal feeling long enough to not have anxiety. the weird, tip irritation trumps all other feeling most of the time,which makes it annoying as crap. and takes/distorts all my feeling away . ive tried normalizing this feeling but its so dang hard to do. sometimes i do. its a serious mental game
 
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no kiddig its slow. very slow. during the day it the worst. i just cant keep a normal feeling long enough to not have anxiety. the weird, tip irritation trumps all other feeling most of the time,which makes it annoying as crap. and takes/distorts all my feeling away . ive tried normalizing this feeling but its so dang hard to do. sometimes i do. its a serious mental game
Im sure it is a major head fuck but try to be patient and know this will clear things up just don't give up.
 
you have no idea. its impossible to under stand this feeling until its you. im making it. but im not happy about it.

one thing i find highly odd.. i had sex yesterday morning. for a good 30 min. then again last night. wasnt planning on the second time, jsut kinda happened. but through all of this, now when i get hard. im hard . used to , id get hard, then have to hurry up and get going or id start to lose it. sometimes id even have to go fast till i almost came, then back off. i dont understand it. but i dont understand any of this either.
 
It's not about trying to decript an unfathomable enigma. We already know what's going on and how it came about. The issues simply lingered for many years and final came bursting through from a PE incident. A comparative example is you have a bad knee, known about it for years, and you went a bit too hard on an activitity and broke your leg because your knee gave out on you.

What you've describing is a pelvic floor manifestation. Think about it slowly and clearly. Every time you try to initiate a series of active kegels to get your blood into your penis, your pelvic floor becomes stressed. As you plainly put it, when your pelvic floor is stressed, you have a limited time before your pelvic floor gives in and completely drains the blood out of the penis. Rather than initiate kegel exercises, the pelvic floor reverse kegels should be used to relax the floor as much as possible. If you haven't notice, you constantly initiate kegels naturally. When you pee, you instinctively perform quick twitch kegels to vacate the remaining volume in your bladder and cease the flow. When you sneeze or cough, you initiate kegels to prevent pee from coming out. When you walk, jog, or do sudden stop, you initiate kegels to prevent sudden release of pee. You'll be surprised how much kegels you perform daily by instinct.

It's no longer about just popping pills and wish the pelvic floor to heal by miracles. Miracles based on your forward efforts to get it to heal properly. You've gone to a pelvic floor therapist. Are you doing the same relax floor exercises consistently?

You indicated you use the red light therapy. Are you using it to shine at the bottom of the floor and not straight in from the public region? Light can't just magically bend 90 degrees. The devices have limited penetration level, and each device is made with different specs. If you have the MOS-RED | NIR INFRARED LIGHT THERAPY FOR ERECTION QUALITY unit, make sure to lay down, spread your legs like wide eagles, allow the unit to come as close as possible to to your butt, shining direclty into the pelvic floor area. There's a limitation on how far the NIR+ spectrum can penetrate below the skin.

What about extra devices to assist with blood flow, such as cushions designed to take the load off the pelvic floor? Massage seat that literally massage your pelvic floor for 20 to 40 minutes? Stay off your butt from sitting too long to take the pressure off the pelvic floor.

You have to realize that you see this coming a mile away. Signs of immenent dangers were chiming throughout the years but you selected the ignore button. Now, we're helping you to put out the fires. Just be patient, do all that you can using every tools available, including supplements, and we'll do our best to cast nets out find more info to help you. No matter where search for info or ask questions, the same info and suggestions will come up, be from professional medical, physical, or therapeutical fields.
 
yes. i uderstand. still doesnt explain my distressed feeling glans and irritation and odd feeling all day. i never saw this comig at all really either
 
yes. i uderstand. still doesnt explain my distressed feeling glans and irritation and odd feeling all day. i never saw this comig at all really either
It's simple to explain a few things actually.

The cold hard feeling of the penile shaft and glans is due to the lack of fresh blood flow. During a hypertonic pelvic floor lock up episode, the blood is reduced to a level where the blood can't be released and enter the penis fast enough. You may have flaccid penis, but without that nice flow of blood to keep the penis warm and loose, you end up with cold and slightly hard penis.

When you had a shriveled up penis that looks like a little mushroom crowding up from the skin, that an episode of pelvic floor muscle dysfunction, where blood could not cycle and retain in the penis long enough. Sometimes, a combination of dysfunctions cause blood not to enter the penis and the floor locks up and prevent any blood from moving in at all. The penis attempts to preserve itself and skrinks to practically nothing.

The sporadic nerve misfiring is not a nerve damage but a pinched nerve at the pelvic floor. Think of it as phantom pains. Imagine your arm went numb from someone or something pressing on the nerve near your bicep and triceps. Not only your arm is numb, but your terminal nerve branches at the finger tips are numb and tingling like needles are poking you. This is what you are feeling. Pressure and kinking of the nerves by the tightness of the pelvic floor muscles.

My colleagues also recommend trigger point injections, where Botox is used to relaxed the tightness of the pelvic floor. They also recommend testing and scanning of the pelvic floor for other possible hidden issues. More a small population with the issue, they noticed that cycling while doing reverse kegels during the rides helped tremendously. Something to test for a few times at the gym.

You can get this just by being old, or an old injury decides to make your life a living hell. This happens to both men and women. You are not alone. PE may accelerated the manifestation but you are part of the Russian Roulette chance of life.
 
i dont know. lack of feels in the glans sure feels like damage to me. and it comes and goes with intensity, but the glans feels "puffy"/tender for lack of better description while masturating. sex the other morning was really good. later that night, the glans seemed over used, and i could hardly contain orgasming, due to high sensitivity.

only thing that seems to help me along in all areas seems to be using it and getting it hard every day, with occasional sex. otherwise, it just goes into a coma, and never comes out or responds all day to anythig
 
i dont know. lack of feels in the glans sure feels like damage to me. and it comes and goes with intensity, but the glans feels "puffy"/tender for lack of better description while masturating. sex the other morning was really good. later that night, the glans seemed over used, and i could hardly contain orgasming, due to high sensitivity.

only thing that seems to help me along in all areas seems to be using it and getting it hard every day, with occasional sex. otherwise, it just goes into a coma, and never comes out or responds all day to anythig
Nerve damage takes time to solve. Continue on what you are doing and be patient knowing it will heal
 
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