hey man I totally feel you out on this
what u need to realize is this(and some of this may sound harsh but trust me Im not saying it offensively)
she is just a girl.. thats it
the only time she will be anything more is when ur ring is on her finger...
even then life is not certain
the best way to get over her, u need to look at her as an experience and not a person.... when u remember her as a person in ur life you will get sentimental about it, when u think of her as an event, it will just be another time period of ur life (in this case the past)
the ways I always get over girls is the following
1. Stay as busy as possible. if u are too busy u cant possibly think of her, never stay alone...
2. start dating around again asap, another girl makes the past girl disappear alot faster, I dont know if ur looking for relationships or what, but I can def say that if you hook up with someone memories will fade quick
3. Self improvement, obviously you respect yourself enough that youd like to improve upon what you have, and if u knew u could improve anything about yourself why not do it?
heres a small checklist of shit to easily improve on
Keep nails clipped
Shave everyday or every other day..face and downstairs (if you do it)
Always have on cologne, no matter where u are going
Always brush your teeth before going out and brush ur tongue, do this after flossing and before listerine
Always look ur best when you go out, school mall etc...
always carry mint flavored gum on you
use lotion on ur hands and forearms and upper arms..
workout, regardless of what girls say, if u have a muscle that stands out amongest other guys then u stand out.. for me its my arms that get attention...
Keep a lighter on you
Keep a pen on you
Keep your cell on you
Do Penis Enlargement lol
Always smile, or smirk regardless...
Big ones:
Always have confidence... remember they are just girls, they are more intimidated to go up to you
Be exactly urself, if ur normally joking and stuff then do that, never change for anyone.
When u introduce urself, shake hands delicately and kiss her on the cheek
When introducing urself, dont make up a reason why u were saying hi, tell her why you came over there to talk to her
When you do eventually start talking, dont say things adjusting to her, say them as they are, unless of course they are rude or racist etc..
When self improving, think of things that you like but will also make you stand out... for example Im a guido.. I dress like one, talk and act like one... I go to clubs that wont have any guidos or italians, u know why? cause it makes me more rare, I can easily go to a club that Ive gone before called Joeys but its all italians, so how am I going to stand out?
4. Stay out with friends and get needed attention from women... If there is something your good at such as dancing go out to clubs and dance ur ass off in crowds, you will get noticed and you will get female attention...
5. Get rid of everything you own that reminds you of your ex... pics, songs, etc...
Always remember this there is someone out there for everyone, if she was her or so important then yours and her feelings never would of changed
consider her a practice girl for the next.
Life is just an experience, if you choose to experience alot or a little that is your choice but remember ur time is limited, you have no time to feel sad, angry upset etc.. No reason for regrets because you learn from everything, how much would u appreciate life if things never went wrong or negative.. you wouldnt know the down side to appreciate the upside as much...
hope this helps and sorry for the book if you have any questions or comments def respond to the thread