will this woman hook up at bro's wedding

[iwant8inches]

She's been through hell and back this year alone and just recently broke it off with her fiancee and boyfriend of 3 years. Do you guys think she'll hook up with someone at the wedding? She isn't bringing anyone because she will be too busy taking pictures and other things to spend time with them at the table she said. I know I wouldn't be invited either way. I don't know her family and have never met her brother. It's going to be something medium sized, but it's going to be about an hour away out of town I think. She isn't the type to hook up at something like this, but still her emotions might be running high and I know she'll be drunk as shit. She's actually never been an emotional person at all whatsoever, but I can't imagine that day not hitting some kind of strong emotions.

 

[stillwantmore]

Why do you care? Is this someone YOURE interested in? Like anybody can predict what someone will do anyway. I guess if she meets someone she meets someone. Whether it's at a wedding or elsewhere.

 

[KiTTie8695]

I'm guessing you know this girl personally? Unless someone else like a friend of yours told you about her? Anyway, I can definitely understand what you're saying here, that you're wondering if she would hook up with anyone and stuff, all women are different after they break up with people and move on to another one, but sometimes they don't do that and chillax for a while. Sometimes others are nervous and rush into another relationship and find they don't want to be with the new guy, sometimes nothing happens at all. I hope that helped, cus that's what it all sounded like.

 

[iwant8inches]

yeah I was hoping you'd help me out here. I'm just trying to figure things out right now. We were getting to know each other and then she tells me of all this horrible stuff that has happened to her right before our first real time out together just the two of us and since then she and I have been really cautious and kind of anything but as relaxed and comfortable around each other since. It really doesn't sound like she is like that and from what I've seen I think she drinks to forget what has happened. I'm just concerned and trying to come to an understanding for myself. I don't feel it's my place in asking if she is just looking for that sort of thing right now since she's told me she doesn't trust guys anymore and really can't find it in her to trust ever again.

 

[Kal-el]

She's been through hell and back this year alone and just recently broke it off with her fiancee and boyfriend of 3 years. Do you guys think she'll hook up with someone at the wedding? She isn't bringing anyone because she will be too busy taking pictures and other things to spend time with them at the table she said. I know I wouldn't be invited either way. I don't know her family and have never met her brother. It's going to be something medium sized, but it's going to be about an hour away out of town I think. She isn't the type to hook up at something like this, but still her emotions might be running high and I know she'll be drunk as shit. She's actually never been an emotional person at all whatsoever, but I can't imagine that day not hitting some kind of strong emotions.

8, I would'nt spend any significant amount of time worrying about it bro, it's just 1 women. Anyway, so what if she does hook up with someone? If she's drunk, tell her to call you after the wedding and you can take care of business.

 

[PETER DICK]

I believe that she will hook up with a guy that's 33 years old, 6' 2", 197 lbs. He will have brown hair and brown eyes. His dick is 9x7.
I hope this answered your question. :s

 

[against_odds21]

Maybe that wedding crashers movie is to blame for your worries. I really don't know anyone that has hooked up at a wedding. Don't worry about it at all. From what you told me it doesn't make any sense that she would be hooking up anyways.

 

[KiTTie8695]

yeah I was hoping you'd help me out here. I'm just trying to figure things out right now. We were getting to know each other and then she tells me of all this horrible stuff that has happened to her right before our first real time out together just the two of us and since then she and I have been really cautious and kind of anything but as relaxed and comfortable around each other since. It really doesn't sound like she is like that and from what I've seen I think she drinks to forget what has happened. I'm just concerned and trying to come to an understanding for myself. I don't feel it's my place in asking if she is just looking for that sort of thing right now since she's told me she doesn't trust guys anymore and really can't find it in her to trust ever again.

yeah... maybe she should just sit back for a bit and not worry about guys right now, I think that's her best bet. If she doesn't want to trust, or can't trust guys anymore, or so she says, that usually means that she doesn't want to have or get into a relationship right away, or meaning she's not in a hurry. And that also means she might want someone to talk to about it. So keep your ears open if you want to be her friend and talk to her about stuff. ^_^

 

[iwant8inches]

thanks guys...and gal especially. I think right now though I should just leave her be so she can enjoy this week with her family. I'll talk to her next week and ask her out to lunch.

 

[against_odds21]

Have you been paying for her meals?

 

[iwant8inches]

nah just movie tickets. we haven't gone out to dinner. She has turned down other guys at this same offer her friends and coworkers have said. She has too many issues to be dealing with any kind of intimate relationship. I have my own hangups and I just think for the time being I'll stay my distance. She's in the wedding as it is her brother getting married so I figure she'll be busy with rehearsal dinners, planning, taking pictures, attending to the bride, and whatnot. I can deal. I'd like to be her friend if nothing else, but really right now it would seem I'm still trying to get somewhere with her. I am not the kind of guy that tries to get into a woman's pants as quickly as possible especially if I like the girl. She knows this already, but really I'm sure relatives are in town and everyone's having a good time this week so I'd expect her to be out of reach anyway.

 

[KiTTie8695]

thanks guys...and gal especially. I think right now though I should just leave her be so she can enjoy this week with her family. I'll talk to her next week and ask her out to lunch.

You're very welcome, anytime ^_^.
Sounds like a good idea too

 

[penguinsfan]

Dude, it seems like you like this chick and it really sucks when you know she might hook up...and your dick ain't going to be the knob on the hitch. I've been there, kinda. I remember this chick I liked in college and she was telling me one weekend that she ended up doing two brothers (individually, not same time) and it really sucked for me, as I wanted to do her myself. These things come and go. Nothing ever worked out between us and I later found out it wasn't that big of a loss. She wouldn't give head. Can you believe that shit? Wouldn't do it at all. Anyway, she is a sweet girl I really loved and cared about on some level and still miss to this day, but she clearly ain't relationship material.

Just ride this thing out and see how it goes. Maybe you will, and maybe you won't. Try to tap into something else in the meantime. Hey, I love wings, but if there's pizza in the fridge and the game is on the TV, I'm not leaving the house. Go with what you got and don't look back.

 

[iwant8inches]

She's been asking about me from what I hear. I haven't talked to her in over a week now so maybe the lack of attention from me is working. She said to someone I know as well that she is going to have to be on her best behavior anyway because one side of her family is from money and she feels like she's looked down on by them. She says she has to basically comform to their idea of what's acceptable and whatnot. I don't think she'll hook up. She said she couldn't wait for this whole wedding to be over with.

 

[bigsack]

If she's into you and she's a good girl, she won't hook up. If she's a tramp, then who knows. This is silly though, b/c man I think you have some serious jealousy issues. You're not even dating this girl and you're obsessing over a 'possible' hook up. You gotta let her breathe. Let her go to a wedding, out with her friends, out drinking, whatever. If she's worth it, she won't hook up with other dudes.

Anyway, wedding crashers isn't all bullshit. I had sex with a random girl at my friend's wedding in August. I talked about it a little in my progress log.

 

[iwant8inches]

lol...i was confused over some issues that she claims to have with "trusting" guys. She recently went through something that would do that sort of thing to a girl, but trust me she's a crafty liar as I've found. However, I really had given up the idea of being with her before even then. I was really trying to wrap my head around just how much of the truth she was telling me about herself. She is a bit emotionally and mentally messed up. I couldn't care less about a girl that hooks up with random guys but I was trying to get some things off my chest. How the hell can anyone tell anyway if they don't know her? lol

 

[supermanx]

If you have to question it i'd say let it go. Last thing you want is to get to far along and have this chick ruin something 6 months down the road with someone else your interested in. Psycho chicks can do some long term damage to any furture relationships if you piss them off.