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Most likely one of the most posted topics in the Brotherhood is our partners and their past lovers. Some men worry so much that they start asking obsessive questions of their mate and start a syndrome that is very difficult to get past. First, it should be highly noted that a woman can sense this lack of confidence in us and if we feed this with obsessiveness we are headed down a very slippery slope. If we show weakness in our manliness a woman will attach to this and the things we think eventually become the truth, or worse.

It is normal to be curious of past lovers but it should be left as curiosity and not expressed. If a woman is with you and loves you let that fuel your confidence. Even if you know she was with other men who may have been larger know with certainty that she is not thinking about them, she is thinking about you. I have been with many women and in most cases I can not tell you their breast size, the type of pussy they have, almost everything that was physical in the past escapes me. I do remember a woman I had sex with that had enormous breasts but even that never became a comparison to who I was with presently.

Present Love and Appreciation erases the past memories and gives room for the new. Do not allow yourself to destroy what you have based on size, you are in the Brotherhood and you hold the secrets to becoming the man you always wanted to be. If you feel emotional distress over your partners past post it here in the Brotherhood and we will get you through it without getting the women involved.

The Brotherhood is about becoming a better man and using the newness of your presence to fuel all parts of your life. Don't go digging holes in places where the answer will be damaging...forget about it!
 
doublelongdaddy;587130 said:
Most likely one of the most posted topics in the Brotherhood is our partners and their past lovers. Some men worry so much that they start asking obsessive questions of their mate and start a syndrome that is very difficult to get past. First, it should be highly noted that a woman can sense this lack of confidence in us and if we feed this with obsessiveness we are headed down a very slippery slope. If we show weakness in our manliness a woman will attach to this and the things we think eventually become the truth, or worse.

It is normal to be curious of past lovers but it should be left as curiosity and not expressed. If a woman is with you and loves you let that fuel your confidence. Even if you know she was with other men who may have been larger know with certainty that she is not thinking about them, she is thinking about you. I have been with many women and in most cases I can not tell you their breast size, the type of pussy they have, almost everything that was physical in the past escapes me. I do remember a woman I had sex with that had enormous breasts but even that never became a comparison to who I was with presently.

Present Love and Appreciation erases the past memories and gives room for the new. Do not allow yourself to destroy what you have based on size, you are in the Brotherhood and you hold the secrets to becoming the man you always wanted to be. If you feel emotional distress over your partners past post it here in the Brotherhood and we will get you through it without getting the women involved.

The Brotherhood is about becoming a better man and using the newness of your presence to fuel all parts of your life. Don't go digging holes in places where the answer will be damaging...forget about it!
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Absolutely dead on brother. As I mentioned in another post, if you can master a ladies mind, you will have the best dick she has ever had at any given size. Some of us have that gift of mastery and others need to learn this. I did endless amounts of research myself over the past few years for myself. Just about every women says the same thing.

The 6 Most Important Things Evey Woman Needs

Attention Spending time with her, by way of Kisses, Hugs, I love You's, Random Texts, Phone Calls, Petty Presents like Flowers, Stuffed Animals etc., dinners.

Appreciation/Understanding Women feel unappreciated either at home or at work. You can make a women feel appreciated by truly listening to them and helping them achieve their goal(s) or duties. Complimenting her often is important and makes her feel the best around you. If you don't do this and the next man does its next man for her.

Security A women wants to feel protected and secured that you have her back in any crisis. Security is not just about money its about her knowing you wont run away every-time an issue occurs that you both don't know how to handle. They want someone that has his shit together in life.

Loyalty Women want to know they are with a loyal man that they can trust.

Sense of Humor Women want to laugh and have fun. They don't want to be with a stiff boring dude.

Confidence A women wants to be able to dress up and look sexy in public around her man with the confidence of knowing you ain't going to be jealous and getting into fights with other men looking at her and hitting on her. A true confident man wants his woman to dress up and look her best in public as a prize girl and have other men admire her. This is the biggest lack of confidence in public men display. For instance in my relationship when my gets dressed up real sexy and we go out together and lets say we are in a bar and I go to bathroom and I come back and some random man is hitting on her, I just come up to her and kiss her and introduce myself and say nice to meet you dude and make that man feel awkward and walk away. In some cases if a man hits on her while I'm away, she might say ok, but first let me ask my man once he gets out the restroom and he feels stupid.


Master this and you will be good!
 
Exactly. Even if you dont have a 45; you can still administer great damage with a 380. Just be confident and accurate to various key areas and she wouldnt know what hit her. Btw: Its a metaphor. Lol.
 
Disco Dave;587138 said:
Exactly. Even if you dont have a 45; you can still administer great damage with a 380. Just be confident and accurate to various key areas and she wouldnt know what hit her. Btw: Its a metaphor. Lol.
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Very well said!
 
I just come up to her and kiss her and introduce myself and say nice to meet you dude and make that man feel awkward and walk away.
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That's ^ a nice freezeout. This is getting offtopic but that happened to me once, seems like just randomly it would have been a lot more times, maybe it was but the people just left like any polite person ought to, rather than staying and becoming an epic anecdote .. but anyway, this guy was operating under the 'sarging' concept that "no means maybe", his brain wasn't hearing the word "no" from my chick and I got enough of the gist of his space-hogging and her super closed off body language while walking back up to put all of this together, so I'm looking to press some buttons..

So she's on her barstool, he's standing up between her stool and mine, and I just sit back down on my seat .. bumping him a little to speed the encounter along .. and start watching them with one eyebrow raised and sortof a "Hydromaxmm?".. but mocking ..smirk on my lips - for her benefit. She's now looking at all of this and starting to laugh. The moron, rather than apologizing and moving along, said something to me that he was pretty proud of but I couldn't make it out over the music (trying to 'amog' me .. not a bright move), so I grinned and said back loud enough that he'd be sure that she could also hear "Hey, don't mind me .. keep going, you're totally doing Great. ---- No, really. --- Laughing in your face is always the tipoff on how bad they want your body. Totally, buddy. Only half-drunk and (ignoring his space to pinch and rub his shirt lapel) apparently a rodeo clown ... who could resist?"

him, trying to act aggressive: "Asshole" ..

(nice one, right? I always wondered if he thought that up himself)

me: "No dude, you're hot! ----- I'd fuck you. ------- It's not like you could stop me.."

My girl is guffawing at the whole thing, and probably over that last line, .. blowing off the bad nervous energy he'd set up, a bit ahead of time cos now I've essentially communicated to the guy 'hey, either I'm full of shit .. or this is how you die' (it was the 2nd one) but he makes his first good decision of the evening and turns so he'll have a route out of the frame rather than squared to me. He's had enough .. so he's skulking off, still trying to front, and he comes up with one last staggering zinger..

"fucker"

..which I thought was an amazingly astute analysis of the situation he was now fleeing from, seriously .. like a paraconscious give-up tell, .. so in deference and mutual respect I nodded an agreement to his assertion, then motioned in his direction .. and in neighborly regard addressed him..

"..non fucker"..

Game over.

Still funny. Better sense and some common courtesy could have saved the dude all of that.
 
LIGHTNING;587133 said:
Absolutely dead on brother. As I mentioned in another post, if you can master a ladies mind, you will have the best dick she has ever had at any given size. Some of us have that gift of mastery and others need to learn this. I did endless amounts of research myself over the past few years for myself. Just about every women says the same thing.

The 6 Most Important Things Evey Woman Needs

Attention Spending time with her, by way of Kisses, Hugs, I love You's, Random Texts, Phone Calls, Petty Presents like Flowers, Stuffed Animals etc., dinners.

Appreciation/Understanding Women feel unappreciated either at home or at work. You can make a women feel appreciated by truly listening to them and helping them achieve their goal(s) or duties. Complimenting her often is important and makes her feel the best around you. If you don't do this and the next man does its next man for her.

Security A women wants to feel protected and secured that you have her back in any crisis. Security is not just about money its about her knowing you wont run away every-time an issue occurs that you both don't know how to handle. They want someone that has his shit together in life.

Loyalty Women want to know they are with a loyal man that they can trust.

Sense of Humor Women want to laugh and have fun. They don't want to be with a stiff boring dude.

Confidence A women wants to be able to dress up and look sexy in public around her man with the confidence of knowing you ain't going to be jealous and getting into fights with other men looking at her and hitting on her. A true confident man wants his woman to dress up and look her best in public as a prize girl and have other men admire her. This is the biggest lack of confidence in public men display. For instance in my relationship when my gets dressed up real sexy and we go out together and lets say we are in a bar and I go to bathroom and I come back and some random man is hitting on her, I just come up to her and kiss her and introduce myself and say nice to meet you dude and make that man feel awkward and walk away. In some cases if a man hits on her while I'm away, she might say ok, but first let me ask my man once he gets out the restroom and he feels stupid.


Master this and you will be good!
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Teach on Master, many need your help:)

Excellent points:

Attention Spending time with her, by way of Kisses, Hugs, I love You's, Random Texts, Phone Calls, Petty Presents like Flowers, Stuffed Animals etc., dinners.

Appreciation/Understanding Women feel unappreciated either at home or at work. You can make a women feel appreciated by truly listening to them and helping them achieve their goal(s) or duties. Complimenting her often is important and makes her feel the best around you. If you don't do this and the next man does its next man for her.

Security A women wants to feel protected and secured that you have her back in any crisis. Security is not just about money its about her knowing you wont run away every-time an issue occurs that you both don't know how to handle. They want someone that has his shit together in life.

Loyalty Women want to know they are with a loyal man that they can trust.

Sense of Humor Women want to laugh and have fun. They don't want to be with a stiff boring dude.

Confidence A women wants to be able to dress up and look sexy in public around her man with the confidence of knowing you ain't going to be jealous and getting into fights with other men looking at her and hitting on her. A true confident man wants his woman to dress up and look her best in public as a prize girl and have other men admire her. This is the biggest lack of confidence in public men display. For instance in my relationship when my gets dressed up real sexy and we go out together and lets say we are in a bar and I go to bathroom and I come back and some random man is hitting on her, I just come up to her and kiss her and introduce myself and say nice to meet you dude and make that man feel awkward and walk away. In some cases if a man hits on her while I'm away, she might say ok, but first let me ask my man once he gets out the restroom and he feels stupid.
 
doublelongdaddy;587130 said:
Most likely one of the most posted topics in the Brotherhood is our partners and their past lovers. Some men worry so much that they start asking obsessive questions of their mate and start a syndrome that is very difficult to get past. First, it should be highly noted that a woman can sense this lack of confidence in us and if we feed this with obsessiveness we are headed down a very slippery slope. If we show weakness in our manliness a woman will attach to this and the things we think eventually become the truth, or worse.

It is normal to be curious of past lovers but it should be left as curiosity and not expressed. If a woman is with you and loves you let that fuel your confidence. Even if you know she was with other men who may have been larger know with certainty that she is not thinking about them, she is thinking about you. I have been with many women and in most cases I can not tell you their breast size, the type of pussy they have, almost everything that was physical in the past escapes me. I do remember a woman I had sex with that had enormous breasts but even that never became a comparison to who I was with presently.

Present Love and Appreciation erases the past memories and gives room for the new. Do not allow yourself to destroy what you have based on size, you are in the Brotherhood and you hold the secrets to becoming the man you always wanted to be. If you feel emotional distress over your partners past post it here in the Brotherhood and we will get you through it without getting the women involved.

The Brotherhood is about becoming a better man and using the newness of your presence to fuel all parts of your life. Don't go digging holes in places where the answer will be damaging...forget about it!
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Now this is what I call a great thought ;-)
 
Compressive;587236 said:
Now this is what I call a great thought ;-)
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I hope it inspires men to become more confident even in the face of distress. Confidence is the root of attraction!
 
LIGHTNING;587133 said:
Confidence A women wants to be able to dress up and look sexy in public around her man with the confidence of knowing you ain't going to be jealous and getting into fights with other men looking at her and hitting on her. A true confident man wants his woman to dress up and look her best in public as a prize girl and have other men admire her. This is the biggest lack of confidence in public men display. For instance in my relationship when my gets dressed up real sexy and we go out together and lets say we are in a bar and I go to bathroom and I come back and some random man is hitting on her, I just come up to her and kiss her and introduce myself and say nice to meet you dude and make that man feel awkward and walk away. In some cases if a man hits on her while I'm away, she might say ok, but first let me ask my man once he gets out the restroom and he feels stupid.
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Case and point. I am out playing free [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/showthread.php?83810-MoS-Online-Texas-Holdem-Poker-League-and-Tournament-to-win-P-E-Prizes!!!]poker[/words] the other night, a couple of the guys I was playing with got knocked out of the game and went next store to have some drinks. One of the guys met his girlfriend there and they all started drinking. The guys girl started dancing and his [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/showthread.php?83810-MoS-Online-Texas-Holdem-Poker-League-and-Tournament-to-win-P-E-Prizes!!!]poker[/words] buddy started dancing with her. He got really jealous and ran up to him and started fist fighting him over dancing with his girl. His buddy ended up beating his ass and broke his hand. The girl got real upset and broke up with him.
 
LIGHTNING;587470 said:
Case and point. I am out playing free [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/showthread.php?83810-MoS-Online-Texas-Holdem-Poker-League-and-Tournament-to-win-P-E-Prizes!!!]poker[/words] the other night, a couple of the guys I was playing with got knocked out of the game and went next store to have some drinks. One of the guys met his girlfriend there and they all started drinking. The guys girl started dancing and his [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/showthread.php?83810-MoS-Online-Texas-Holdem-Poker-League-and-Tournament-to-win-P-E-Prizes!!!]poker[/words] buddy started dancing with her. He got really jealous and ran up to him and started fist fighting him over dancing with his girl. His buddy ended up beating his ass and broke his hand. The girl got real upset and broke up with him.
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Possessiveness is as damaging as poor confidence. There is a fine line between confidence and possessiveness. Everyone wants to be free and when a woman feels as though her freedom is at risk most will find an escape route.
 
Everything is true in this thread.
If you become possessive of your woman, she will think you are weak. I recommend the book:
📖 The Way of the Superior Man by David Deida.
All related to this thread are explained in that book.
 
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