Well it looks like truely there isn't any short cuts to last longer without practice
Most natural approach is working on it. You can ask my wife. When I first enjoy her, I blew my load every 5 minutes. After 5 loads in an hour, she just wanted me to last longer rather lathering her entire body and thighs from messes.
I have tried edging and mind control just that that doesn't work much for me, for edding, whenever I try to pause and resume after some seconds, it kind of makes partner loose interest, even if they can't tell me, I feel it.. if I pause for some seconds and resume, it won't add more time let's say +20 seconds more and then the max i can do edging is 3.
This is where you have to learn to enjoy multiple positions and mid point foreplays. At the start of my prolong ejaculation training, I told my lady that I need to ease up, and allow me to suck on her, either be all over the body, nipples, or clit. That 60 to 200 second break allows the body to reset the sensitivity.
Another trick is to perform an air cowgirl mount, where she's either on you while you stand or have her on the wall for support. That pushes the body to stress on the arms and legs and that takes away the sensitivity immediately.
Other positions placing stresses on the pelvic floor and lumbar regions are lover's coil, twists, spooning, or even 4-1 while fully on the bed as it places pressure points on the knees. The kama sutra positions, including the octopus and lovey doves, causes the abdoment to engage harder, decreasing the dorsal nerve stimuli that responsible for the fast release of the loads.
Also test the positions that cause the penis to point downward, constricting the urethra, dorsal nerve, and blood vessels from free forming, or lack of constriction.
For mind control I try to distract myself by touching my nipple and think about alien invading earth or reciting chemical symbols but still before you know it my mind will be cut off and back to focus because of the sensation
No, no, no. That's too much
:ROFLMAO: just breath deeply and allow the sensitivity to drop. Turn TV or music on for distraction as well. No need for aliens and self nipple stimulation. That is for your lady to do.
Another method is using a penis extension, where a small penis sleeve that covers the glans, with stimulating designs to make her scream, allowing your glans to fell only 30% of the stimulation rather than 100%.
The exercise I'm currently doing for girth is kegel but hoping to to get pump device and penile extenders
The spray actually works though but the problem is i only get to use it when no shawty is around to prep up before she comes around cause I don't want no shawty know I'm using spray to last longer
Numb scream used for the tattoo numbing is even better. You can put it on along as 4 hours before your run.
The ssri is good too as well but the other problem is it's expensive. The one I'm used to is priligy which is not easy to get and comes with only 3 tabs if I can find an alternative to priligy or dapoxetine. That will help
P.s. I feel like numbing agents are better than taking drugs in the long run
Yep. I tried all the numbing agents. The one that works the best is the tattoo version, closest to the prescription version is the professional 3-in-1 formula used by tattoo artists for huge projects. My wife had that when her entire back was under the pens.