what to say

[Kal-el]

girls like confidence.

That is it my friend. Think of girls like sharks that can smell blood in the water, they can spot a guy with confidence yards away, by the way he carries himself, his gait, his selection of clothes, and of course the clincher- his personality. Now if you look like you just jumped out of a mosh pit with a Metallica tshirt and ripped bluejeans that should throw up a red flag. I have had much success with the magical liquid courage. I bet I'd be too afraid to even approach some of the girls I did if I had'nt been buttered. Even if they turn you down, you'll be drunk so you won't care! But somehow I don't think that's a viable option for your circumstance. Dude, throw out some cheezy pick up lines. "Your legs must be tired, cause you've been walking through my mind all day" and out loud pretend you're on a phone "we can call off the search party, and cancel the milk carton images, we have found that angel that is missing from heaven." Cheezy, you bet, but don't knock it till you try it, and they do work.

 

[sikdogg]

gah am a bit pissed as it didnt work out the way i thought it would. she has a friend in the class who is a guy and he was walking with her after class so that kinda ruined it. any suggestions on what to do or just wait till shes alone?

Bro you need to quit this crap about being scared of chicks and then regretting about not doing anything... People have given you good advice and you still haven't done shit. You either man up and go talk to her or move on and continue to be a f'ing chickenshit. Jeez... it's not like you're risking life and limb here... it's really not that bid a deal.

 

[ArrowHead]

Bro you need to quit this crap about being scared of chicks and then regretting about not doing anything... People have given you good advice and you still haven't done shit. You either man up and go talk to her or move on and continue to be a f'ing chickenshit. Jeez... it's not like you're risking life and limb here... it's really not that bid a deal.

damn ok man right away

 

[sikdogg]

I prolly sound like a jerk but that's not my intention... i'm saying that you just gotta go do it.

 

[MAXAMEYES]

damn ok man right away

Here's a quote from Mark Twain, y'gotta love the guy:

"Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things that you didn't do than by the ones you did do. So throw off the bowlines. Sail away from the safe harbor. Catch the trade winds in your sails. Explore. Dream. Discover.”

Words to live by.

 

[Kal-el]

Here's a quote from Mark Twain, y'gotta love the guy:

"Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things that you didn't do than by the ones you did do. So throw off the bowlines. Sail away from the safe harbor. Catch the trade winds in your sails. Explore. Dream. Discover.”

Words to live by.

Great quote, that Mark Twain- he sure had a sharp mind. How true is that though, you'll be middle-aged and alone wishing you had grew a pair and stepped out of the batter's box. That's the great thing about free will- your destiny isn't carved out for you- there's many roads you can take; your milage that you can accrue differs.

 

[ArrowHead]

damn lol nice quote i gues. well all i can say is i am not good with women and this is difficult for me. sry if it pisses you guys off but im really actually tryin.

 

[sikdogg]

To quote Yoda (in Return of a Jedi):

"no try... dooo..."

 

[Kal-el]

damn lol nice quote i gues. well all i can say is i am not good with women and this is difficult for me. sry if it pisses you guys off but im really actually tryin.

Dude that's a defeatist attitude. It's the battle cry of the guy who lights candles and beats his meat like it owes him money. Stick with pe a while, I don't think it's all about enlarging your penis, it is a confidence booster as well. You must get off your keister and make changes in your life; approach women, don't worry about being rejected, it's like a rite of passage getting rejected. If you flip a quarter 10 times it might land on heads once, but if you increase it to 1000 times, it might land on heads 900 times. Being rejected is inevitable, it happens to the best of us; but how we let it effect us all makes us different.

 

[ArrowHead]

just to say skidogg the thing u said earlier is something i needed. i can be a little pussy at times and it does piss me off cuz i cant overcome it sometimes, ive read that over like 100x and pretty much almost memorized it. im not sure if its all about being rejected but its more about not knowing what to say. i tend to freeze sometimes and lose my train of thought or something like that not to sure. but i have been more talkative is all i can say

 

[sikdogg]

I think most guys had a problem talking to chicks in the beginning... but as you do it over time, you become more familiar and don't get as scared. I remember being scared shitless when i first tried talking to chicks back in grade school and junior high, but i did it and got more comfortable over time. I think that the older you are before you start talking to women, the harder it gets. You just have to put yourself out there and risk making a fool of yourself (because you will at first). It's nerve racking but if you don't do it... you'll always be alone.

 

[ArrowHead]

very very true ^^ well i do talk to girls but i dont usually make the move as to be more than just friends. and i defanetly do not want to be alone forever.