well as i attend college i have started noticing many girls smiling at me as i walk by... im generally an ok looking guy but am kinda quite, but not really shy. what do you guys think this means, i can count to around 3 a day and 7 at most. what do u think i should do? (some are actually pretty good looking.) oh and i had a guy smile at me once, freaked me out.
If they are smiling then i would say that this is a good opportunity to introduce youself, shoot the shit, watever, and see what kind of vibe you get from there. Its not garanteed that they want you, but it is sure as hell of a lot beter opening than if, for instance, they scoff at you.
REDZULU2003
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Its good they smile like that, woman/girls dont freely smile like this .. well in the UK anyways maybe different in the USA? You may have a very easygoing receptive look to yourself which makes them feel at ease? I would look at them ... smile back and DO NOT take your eyes away from their eyes .. dont do it hard stare but a nice easy seductive look if you will ... only move those eyes when she does first ... shows your confident, a man that wont be fucked about with and she will actually like it ... dont look away first. I think you could pull many woman. Go over sometime to them and say ''wow you have such a lovely smile, I noticed it lit up the entire room .. my names ###### [PAUSE] and wait for her ... if she delays than smile and say whats yours'' this works well and it isnt cheesy. Do it confidently and look at her the wholetime. Think James Bond.
REDZULU2003;298857 said:
good dude..u read david deangleo or the mystery method...or just natural
and yea looking away when they look at u shows ur not confident and possibly insecure
REDZULU2003
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Yo Big Boi, that method is natural .. always done it but got better as I have matured with more confidence but yes I like David D's material and have learned allot from him and he digs with what I said in this thread.
Great advice here from Red.
A smile may mean they are just friendly. And then a smile may mean they are open for something beyond just being friendly. I like the part about not looking away.
Just keep smiling, Dude!!
A smile may mean they are just friendly. And then a smile may mean they are open for something beyond just being friendly. I like the part about not looking away.
Just keep smiling, Dude!!
Women, typically, can read our minds. Which, believe it or not, gives us something of an advantage. If it's a woman you might be interested in, imagine yourself having sex with her when you make eye contact. You have to be smooth about it, don't pop a hard on or anything, but imagine yourself on top of her, staring deeply into her eyes. Women know what we are thinking at any given time. The great thing about it is women are trained, subconsciously by culture and society, to be suBathmateissive to men. If she's open to something more than being friendly and she continues to hold eye contact, you'll notice sparks flying. You're already giving off sexual vibes and the odds are that she's already thinking about you sexually. If she's just being friendly, you'll notice that, too, and you found out what her intentions might be before you even made a single investment with her.
Lust is a tool that you have to use sparingly. In any seduction, you should stay at 90% calm and 10% lust. Don't let your lust go unchecked, at any point, until she's ready to cum.
If you can control the state that you are in it will make it 250% easier to control the state that she's in.
If she's a slut the extended eye contact should pretty much close the deal for you.
Enjoy!
Lust is a tool that you have to use sparingly. In any seduction, you should stay at 90% calm and 10% lust. Don't let your lust go unchecked, at any point, until she's ready to cum.
If you can control the state that you are in it will make it 250% easier to control the state that she's in.
If she's a slut the extended eye contact should pretty much close the deal for you.
Enjoy!