Stop setting goals, set objectives without limitations.

bemorethanbig

bemorethanbig

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You will see this in my signature. It's an issue I have with many here that talk about Goals. I get worried because there is usually a time frame that follows that Goal, don't think of time or Goal but an objective.

I hit my first goal of 6 NBPEL and guess what I didn't feel happy, why? because Goals are endpoints. What if you want more? What if I had stopped? I would not be feeling what I am feeling now with Wifey, I only thought about length, without EG I would not be as happy as I am today.

Set objectives! You may not get to your goal but you will be so happy with what you did get and the journey. To be honest, you don't know yet what you want, god knows what you want, stop setting an end. God knows no end, God knows you may not be happy with 1 million as your goal and he will give you 2 million. You shouldn't live saying that you have a goal of 8 but settled for 7, that's not life, you must be happy throughout the process of growth not just with PE but with everything you do; body goals, relationships, careers, and money!
 
Reaching your goal can feel bitter sweet because you will always want more.
 
True. Setting goals are the end points. Setting objectives are defined milestones. But a short term goal can also be set as "To Be Continued" once it's set. We're programmed by society to create "goals" for ourselves. We should set objectives and defined ambitions as our progressive milestones. My objectives, "Make my woman screams until she passes out." (cwl) That may be a loaded objective, in a literal sense.
 
DLD said:
I have not received that yet, but I will put in another request.But as I said it's very hard to track into your country
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Ok tracking can help out, otherwise is going to be harder would be like guessing.Did you guys sent it through USPS, FEDEX etc..any idea.thanks
 
Objective knows no limits and is not worried about the time it takes. Goals have ending points and time can be stressful. We need no stress in PE!

Pros and Cons of each, but depending on how your mind works, choose wisely.

If you do goals and you do not meet your goals do you get depressed/sad/feel beaten? If so, set objectives.

If you can set a goal and if you do or don't make it you will be OK with that, then set Goals.

Now I will speak from experience, my goal was 6" NBPEL, once I reached that I was not happy, and I also felt like a college graduate... is this it..but I want to do more? I had not grown a good amount of girth at that time, had I just reached my goal, I would not be on the cloud 9 I'm at now.

As you see in my signature, I have an objective, I know that is what I want to reach but I will not be sad or depressed if I don't make it, I also won't be limited to that number, I might get to it and find I want some more girth or length. I'm mentally good with going the distance.

This to me is especially relevant for PE. This is a roller coaster, I don't think anyone can disagree with that, but during the slow progress are you mentally prepared to trust the process or are you the type that gives up? Know yourself, that is why I recommend in PE setting objective, because you could grow 1" in a year or 1/2" in a year but had I set to get to 1" and then come in at 1/2" I would feel sad. Instead, I'm on cloud 9 with my 1/2 length in one year. Combined with Girth and Length I did get 1" growth, I'm on Cloud 9.

Time is a big issue with PE! You could be right around the corner of a huge gain but if you set a goal with a time limit and did not meet that goal, you most likely will give up. Time is not relevant, your objective is the most important thing. Would you risk doing something faster but have a risk of getting injured? or trust the process and know you will reach your objective no matter if it takes 1, 2 or 3 years.
 
The problem I have is to finalize a goal. A goal can become an objective without limitations (I believe, according to the definition in this thread), if you keep pushing the parameters/goal specifications forward.
 
squirt_inducer_man said:
The problem I have is to finalize a goal. A goal can become an objective without limitations (I believe, according to the definition in this thread), if you keep pushing the parameters/goal specifications forward.
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Objectives seem to work automatically, having discipline, and consistency are key.Having due dates in P.E.can be counterproductive,due to the fact that this is for our own enjoyment, growth and self fulfillment.Better enjoy and keep it steady.. Getting bigger and enjoying it.
 
LONGERDICK7+ said:
Objectives seem to work automatically, having discipline, and consistency are key.Having due dates in P.E.can be counterproductive,due to the fact that this is for our own enjoyment, growth and self fulfillment.Better enjoy and keep it steady.. Getting bigger and enjoying it.
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For me goals did work, but I keep pushing forth the deadline (the size I want) so I will never be finished.
 
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squirt_inducer_man said:
Inches are hard to me.
Measuring inches with a ruler is impossible for me.

I need to measure in centimeters, and then convert to inches.
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Small measurements turn into big. Always keep the big measurements in the beck of your mind but really concentrate on the smaller. It like climbing a tall later, you can't reach the top without taking in step by step. Eventually you get to the top.
 
DLD said:
Small measurements turn into big. Always keep the big measurements in the beck of your mind but really concentrate on the smaller. It like climbing a tall later, you can't reach the top without taking in step by step. Eventually you get to the top.
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Not thinking about measurements can also be a good method. Especially when doing girth work. Just focusing on maxing out the cylinders help me better, then to focus on measuring my penis.

Measuring your erected girth, are used to stop yourself from becoming to thick. 😁
 
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This is a great post, and was very important that I read this. See, I had no goal. I was content with my penis size. I purchased a penis pump out of pure curiousity. I wanted to feel the suction, and see if it would even just temporarily enlarge my penis, which I had doubts it would. Even though I'm only on day 1, seeing an extra 1/2" in length, and well as seeing the girth in the cylinder blew my mind. Obviously it was just temporary, and while pumped, but to be honest, I would have been content with a millimeter or two. I had no idea that substantial gains could be permanently obtained. This is great, because I enjoy each session I have, and usually end up ejaculating hands free, so in a way, if I just focus on the session, and the experience, and not even think about gains, it will be a surprise, that will pay off over time.
 
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