So I'm in a bad spot

[cladre60]

I don't really want to go into the specifics so I'll paint some broad strokes.

There's something major I feel like I need to do. I've asked for a [words=https://shop.mattersofsize.com/products/sizegenetics-penis-extender]sign[/words] on which way to go in life and I was basically slapped in the face with the answer. This isn't something small, it's huge but it'll change some very big problems.

It's going to piss off some people to the point it will probably end some relationships. That could be a good thing though. It will be life changing. There may be failure, it's always possible, but even if some things fail other doors will be opened so I'm not very worried about that.

Why am I so afraid to take the first step and put it all in motion? Once I start there's no stopping. It will be like dropping an atomic bomb on my life and I'll be left to rebuild. I'm prepared for the rebuilding, I know what I'm getting into and there will be times I'll be lonely and feel like maybe I made a mistake but in the end it will all be better.

So how do I get the balls to start? I feel like I'm holding a knife to my stomach and that first step is plunging the knife in. It'll all heal eventually but I'm just afraid to do it.

 

[megamike]

I don't really want to go into the specifics so I'll paint some broad strokes.

There's something major I feel like I need to do. I've asked for a [words=https://shop.mattersofsize.com/products/sizegenetics-penis-extender]sign[/words] on which way to go in life and I was basically slapped in the face with the answer. This isn't something small, it's huge but it'll change some very big problems.

It's going to piss off some people to the point it will probably end some relationships. That could be a good thing though. It will be life changing. There may be failure, it's always possible, but even if some things fail other doors will be opened so I'm not very worried about that.

Why am I so afraid to take the first step and put it all in motion? Once I start there's no stopping. It will be like dropping an atomic bomb on my life and I'll be left to rebuild. I'm prepared for the rebuilding, I know what I'm getting into and there will be times I'll be lonely and feel like maybe I made a mistake but in the end it will all be better.

So how do I get the balls to start? I feel like I'm holding a knife to my stomach and that first step is plunging the knife in. It'll all heal eventually but I'm just afraid to do it.

look brother,whatever change you are thinking about doing,just go ahead and do so. if your heart and mind tell you this is the right thing to do then do it. don't let doubt and fear get in the way of your future and prospects. do as I do,just say fuck it and dive in brother!

 

[Sinthious]

I don't really want to go into the specifics so I'll paint some broad strokes.

There's something major I feel like I need to do. I've asked for a [words=https://shop.mattersofsize.com/products/sizegenetics-penis-extender]sign[/words] on which way to go in life and I was basically slapped in the face with the answer. This isn't something small, it's huge but it'll change some very big problems.

It's going to piss off some people to the point it will probably end some relationships. That could be a good thing though. It will be life changing. There may be failure, it's always possible, but even if some things fail other doors will be opened so I'm not very worried about that.

Why am I so afraid to take the first step and put it all in motion? Once I start there's no stopping. It will be like dropping an atomic bomb on my life and I'll be left to rebuild. I'm prepared for the rebuilding, I know what I'm getting into and there will be times I'll be lonely and feel like maybe I made a mistake but in the end it will all be better.

So how do I get the balls to start? I feel like I'm holding a knife to my stomach and that first step is plunging the knife in. It'll all heal eventually but I'm just afraid to do it.

Major life changes are never easy nor should they be taken as so, never the less if it is going to make you happy and doesn't actually involve a knife (scalpels aside) do it. Take your time nothing good in life is fast.

“When one door of happiness closes, another opens; but often we look so long as the closed door that we do not see the one that has been opened for us.” -Helen Keller

 

[DLD]

My advice and what I will do for you is to get on your knees and pray with all you have for God's help. This world is filled with disappointments and sadness. Depending on the word of man can be a let down, especially when the advice is incorrect. You have a Father sin Heaven who loves you and has given you a friend to help you here on earth. Allow Jesus to take this from you and show you the way.


I will pray for you in general but if you want to PM me with specifics I can ask for even more.

I love you my Brother and I hope you get through this with grace!

 

[Big Schwanz Acht]

This is where your conviction and strength of mind/character will pilot you through. Loneliness? This is a very temporary state which is often the disguise (or byproduct) for other emotions...plus, in getting to know you here, you're far too engaging and likable to ever be lonely for long.

My best advice, (in whichever path you choose) is do it with purpose...you're a strong-willed man and can figure the 'stuff' part along the way.

We're all here if you need anything

 

[stillwantmore]

I don't really want to go into the specifics so I'll paint some broad strokes.

There's something major I feel like I need to do. I've asked for a [words=https://shop.mattersofsize.com/products/sizegenetics-penis-extender]sign[/words] on which way to go in life and I was basically slapped in the face with the answer. This isn't something small, it's huge but it'll change some very big problems.

It's going to piss off some people to the point it will probably end some relationships. That could be a good thing though. It will be life changing. There may be failure, it's always possible, but even if some things fail other doors will be opened so I'm not very worried about that.

Why am I so afraid to take the first step and put it all in motion? Once I start there's no stopping. It will be like dropping an atomic bomb on my life and I'll be left to rebuild. I'm prepared for the rebuilding, I know what I'm getting into and there will be times I'll be lonely and feel like maybe I made a mistake but in the end it will all be better.

So how do I get the balls to start? I feel like I'm holding a knife to my stomach and that first step is plunging the knife in. It'll all heal eventually but I'm just afraid to do it.

Ironic that you post this. I'm in a similar situation in my life currently as well. We both know the answer though, don't we?

 

[DLD]

We're all here if you need anything

Ironic that you post this. I'm in a similar situation in my life currently as well. We both know the answer though, don't we?

Both Brothers care deeply for you!

 

[Big Schwanz Acht]

Still, Clad...or anyone else for that matter, feel free to PM me if you ever want to chat.

 

[huge-girth]

Will-power is all that is needed here. Achieving your heart desire comes with sacrifices and some includes ending some relationship during the process. You should be happy for this is a big change heading your way.

 

[stillwantmore]

This has turned into a positive thread, good job guys!

 

[DLD]

I hope you got my PM and I really hope you take it to heart.

 

[cladre60]

I did. Read it this morning, thought about it all day, and about to reply to it.

Thanks to the rest of you. I'd reply individually but I'm so drained right now emotionally and mentally (and a bit physically thanks to fighting with a transmission in a friend's truck yesterday) that I just can't right now.

 

[Big Schwanz Acht]

I did. Read it this morning, thought about it all day, and about to reply to it.

Thanks to the rest of you. I'd reply individually but I'm so drained right now emotionally and mentally (and a bit physically thanks to fighting with a transmission in a friend's truck yesterday) that I just can't right now.

These situations have a pace all to their own, once we try speeding it up or slowing it down, just makes it worse. Take whatever time that feels right...we'll always be here

 

[DLD]

I did. Read it this morning, thought about it all day, and about to reply to it.

Thanks to the rest of you. I'd reply individually but I'm so drained right now emotionally and mentally (and a bit physically thanks to fighting with a transmission in a friend's truck yesterday) that I just can't right now.

Good

 

[cladre60]

These situations have a pace all to their own, once we try speeding it up or slowing it down, just makes it worse. Take whatever time that feels right...we'll always be here

Right now it's all about me growing a set of balls.

And then using them.

The longer this goes on they're either dropping or falling off, I'm not sure which.

 

[Big Schwanz Acht]

Right now it's all about me growing a set of balls.

And then using them.

The longer this goes on they're either dropping or falling off, I'm not sure which.

I'm a 'make it work' type person...I tried to make something work for 8 years that should have only lasted 6 months. Read the signs and most of all trust/listen to your instincts...ripping-off the Band-Aid is usually what it takes. There's really no easy/clean way to do it. Been there (half a dozen times) and done that (wrong each time, but there's really no right way).

My best advice is to use as few words as possible to get whatever you need accomplished...in the end, you'll garner the respect for yourself that you've been putting aside just to 'make it work'

 

[cladre60]

I'm a 'make it work' type person...I tried to make something work for 8 years that should have only lasted 6 months. Read the signs and most of all trust/listen to your instincts...ripping-off the Band-Aid is usually what it takes. There's really no easy/clean way to do it. Been there (half a dozen times) and done that (wrong each time, but there's really no right way).

My best advice is to use as few words as possible to get whatever you need accomplished...in the end, you'll garner the respect for yourself that you've been putting aside just to 'make it work'

Well it'll take a few more words than "Fuck you, I quit!" but I know what you're saying.

I don't like to quit or give up on things but there's a point in time to cut your losses and move on. It's a battle of being stupidly hard headed vs using the brain inside thar hard skull.

 

[Big Schwanz Acht]

Well it'll take a few more words than "Fuck you, I quit!" but I know what you're saying.

I don't like to quit or give up on things but there's a point in time to cut your losses and move on. It's a battle of being stupidly hard headed vs using the brain inside thar hard skull.

You're smart, confident, funny and probably very good at whatever you do...so you'll know when it's time. I'm 100% sure of that

 

[cladre60]

You're smart, confident, funny and probably very good at whatever you do...so you'll know when it's time. I'm 100% sure of that

Thanks, but I'm not very confident. I wish I was but it's something I've lost a lot of over the years

 

[DLD]

Thanks, but I'm not very confident. I wish I was but it's something I've lost a lot of over the years

You will get it back, I promise you!

 

[Big Schwanz Acht]

You will get it back, I promise you!

Listen to Mike...this is the place where magic becomes reality and confidence soars!

 

[DLD]

I also saw your PM, I will respond soon.

 

[cladre60]

You will get it back, I promise you!

I'm confident that I'm not as confident as I used to be and... wait, maybe I still have some of that confidence lol.

I've been accused of being arrogant. However when I looked at the source of that accusation I realized it was actually jealousy that spurred it. I happened to generally be much smarter than this particular person and he hated it. What pissed him off even more was that I can handle talking to just about anyone. I try to be humble and sincere which when added to everything else made him want to explode.

So because of all that I was supposedly arrogant. Go figure.

 

[LONGERDICK7+]

PEers are full of confidence we all full of confidence Bro

 

[cladre60]

PEers are full of confidence we all full of confidence Bro

I'm confident about some things but not all.

If I was discussing confidence in my penis that's a totally different conversation.


Anyway, I'm stuck in this pit in life. I've just been tossed a rope but I don't know if the rope is tied off to a tree stump or not. At the moment I'm still pulling out all the slack. I'll find out soon if this rope will get me out or if I need someone else to toss me a new rope.

 

[GottaGetAGrip]

Whenever times are tough, I resort to weights and deep breathing exercises while praying/meditating.

After reading Stillwantmore's definition of prayer, I tried and it can actually feel quite cathartic.

Good luck man

 

[DLD]

I know things are already getting better! You have set a new trajectory and it is an attractive one! I have doubled my prayers for you and I have said 2 masses for you. I truly hope for the best Christian outcome!