Until very recently I thought this seduction stuff was bogus and unnecessary. Recently it was shown to me to be a useful and perhaps even necessary body of knowledge. But I have also spent a great deal of time myself observing and interviewing women the last few years. And I found it does not have to be nearly so hard, not so much to memorize and practice. You don’t need tricks and games, you don’t need to learn magic or palm reading. If you have a real life, and do interesting things without thinking of or trying to impress women, I mean a real life like hobbies, travel, bungee jumping, parachuting fun kind of stuff - then women will be attracted to you and you will need none of this "seduction" stuff. Most guys are movies, dinner and TV sports. What the Hell kind of girl would be excited by that? Do stuff, real stuff, and women will find you fascinating.
Tip 2: Forget "seduction" and "how to pick up girls". Learn how to dance (Gardenier got this one right on the mark!) Pay for lessons or find a bar that gives group ones for free or cheap, and go. Master dancing. Make it part of your life, part of your recreation. Then, dance with every woman you can get your arms on. They see you can dance, and few will ever turn you down. Forget trying to pick them up. Just dance. They will pick you up after they see you are 1) fun, 2) not just after sex, and 3) in demand by beautiful women.
It's a Hell of a lot easier (and quicker) to learn how to dance than it is to get a longer dick! I didn't know how to dance at all until I took private lessons five years ago. If I can learn, brain damaged and over 40, anybody can learn. I have one friend who is the most uncoordinated, clunky guy in the world. I remember chicks laughing at him at the HS dances. After a year of dance lessons and another few of dancing, dancing, dancing - he wins ballroom competitions regularly. He met his wife at a ballroom dance, and she is drop dead gorgeous (he is the son of Frankenstein in looks and coordination). He is still uncoordinated and clunky. But man can he dance. And man do the chicks love him now.
If I had to live under a bridge, eat out of Wendy's dumpster and collect bottles to save enough money to pay for dance lessons, I would. It is that big a thing. It is more important than a big dick, more important than fancy clothes or good looks or a pocket full of money or a good pickup line or perfect macking skills. If I had a son, he would have been in lessons as soon as they would take him. Even if you only want one girl for life, she will be SO much happier staying years with you if you take her dancing on special occasions. If you are already married and can't dance, well, that would pretty much explain the infrequent sex. To women, all women, dancing is romance. And women live for romance like we live for sex. Take the damn lessons. Start today.
Tip 3: Forget lines, cold pickups is a NUMBERS GAME. Hit on enough women, and one will go home with you no matter what you say or do. I take young men who have trouble getting laid to bars in groups, and make them all put money in a pot (by the way this idea, like dancing, is in no way original - I met a guy once a few years back doing this with a group and I have been doing it ever since). Each guy has to have a pen and some paper for phone numbers. Then, each has to get turned down by 10 women of the groups choosing. To win the pot, you must get 10 rejections (to score one must just get a phone number, a rejection is not getting one). By the end of the evening, the guys see that rejection is not personal, and that if they hit on a few women, they will score. They also have a great deal of peer pressure to make the hits, which helps with courage. Plus, since they are trying to get turned down, their egos are not at stake nearly so much. Sometimes, I take them out again, put money in the pot, and the guy who wins gets the MOST numbers. That's fun too.
Tip 4: Last Call. When I feel especially lazy and evil, I will take an evening nap, take a shower, dress nicely and go to a bar 10 minutes before closing time. I look around like a radar and rate the unattached women in seconds. I start with the prettiest girl first, and see if she wants to share some wine on my boat. If she says no, I go to number 2, then 3, and so on. I am stone sober, at the top of my game, and I look and smell as good as I ever will. I have yet to go past number 4, and usually hit on number 1 or 2. I have also picked up a number of pairs of girls this way, as girls tend to sit with their friends and I invite them both back. Evil, yes. Skill involved - 0. Girls screwed - countless. Three ways - quite a few. Many a girl wakes up in shock at who she is with in the morning, and in Norfolk the dockhands even call the walk up the dock from my boat to the showers the "walk of shame", but it is so easy anyone can do it. No expensive classes needed, no lies either. But I admit it is a bit evil.
Tip 5: Hotel Bars are a bonanza. Girls leave home for seminars and stay in hotels. They are bored silly all day, and are dying for some excitement, romance, and a story to go home with. A bonus is there is a new batch each week, and none of them have heard anything about you yet (which for me is usually a good thing). At a club, girls play hard to get. At a hotel bar, they do not. If you want sex instead of a phone number, go to a hotel bar. Another bonus is that because the girls don't live in the area, they are willing to do things they would never do at home. Use your imagination. I find hotel girls will almost always do a three way with no hesitation, many will kiss other girls right in the bar if prompted. I always try to stay in marinas that are attached to hotels for just this reason.
Which brings me to Tip #6: Never, NEVER drink alcohol when hitting on chicks. You get stupid. I always tip the bartender well, the waitress well, and arrange for them to bring me non-alcohol drinks no matter what I order in front of a girl. I end up winning every time for no other reason than that they get drunk while I do not. Added bonus; If some guy starts hitting on a chick you are working, it is really easy to drink him under the table and out of the game in short order. Again, pure evil.
Tip #7: Country Western Bars. If you are a guy with two left feet, but want to get in on the dancing bonanza, CW is your way in the door. Most places have free line dancing lessons early in the evenings on weekends, call around and you will likely find one close enough to try out. Get some cheap cowboy boots at Walmart, put on your jeans, and boy howdy you are ready to go. CW doesn’t use the arms much, and you don’t need to master hip movements - mostly just easy, fun steps that even Frankenstein can master. You will meet plenty of girls at the group lesson, and since they are inexperienced too they will want to dance with you all night as opposed to with the better dancers. Even you Fred Astair’s will find CW bars an easier pickup than other clubs. I don’t know what it is about CW chicks, but they are all more friendly and much more easily hit on than in any other dance club venue. Even if you hate the music, you will love the girls.
Tip #8: Just for you college guys. If you are in college, this tip is the one that will change everything about your entire college experience: Take ballet class as an elective. I don’t exactly remember how I came to find myself in Ballet 101 back in my Sophomore year, but I thank God I did. Girls that take ballet are, for the most part, trim, good looking, exciting, fun women. The kind I would never had ever had a shot with at the time. In my class, there was one other guy besides me, and he was gay. Yes, I had to wear some awful leotard thing and this other thing that rode up my ass and squished my balls. And yes, I had to take some awful ribbing from my mates - for a while (of course they ALL took Ballet 101 the next semester). But I was the only eligible guy in a class of twenty gorgeous women. Now to be clear, I was hopeless at it. The teacher told me I would never be a dancer and I pretty much spent two semesters doing nothing more than lifting beautiful girls in the air so they could practice their leaps with the Neanderthal as base. Since I was careful NOT to hit on the girls (I was there to dance!), they all fell in love with the poor klutz that loved ballet but would never be able to dance (poor pirate!)
These girls would go to lunch with me after class, hang out with me at school functions, invite me up to their dorms and sororities for dance lessons. Any classes we shared they would sit next to me, and they even took me out regularly in groups to teach me how to dance at the clubs, and would call me individually to take them out when they wanted to go or were lonely. I think every one of them set me up with at least one other girl. Me, joe nobody on campus all the sudden was seen everywhere with beautiful women. And not just one, but in packs. I was the only guy I knew in college that could make a few calls and get 6 dates to go dancing, sailing, biking, pretty much anything. And if the ballet girls weren’t enough, other girls saw me with them all the time and they started approaching me too. As I said, I was very careful never to actually hit on the ballet girls. After a time, several threw themselves at me. The rest just accepted me as their mascot and fixed me up with all their friends. I was rolling in chicks the rest of college - even the two years I didn’t take ballet. I have since talked a number of young men into taking ballet. All of them tell me they owe me their lives. Some of them didn’t make out quite as well as I did, some made out way better, but they all made out.
And if you are the kind of guy that wants only one special girl, not endless sex with dozens, this is still a great way to go. Ballet girls are class acts, beautiful and smart. Several of my “pupils” have had wonderful relationships with girls they met in Ballet class. I even have one friend who has been married to a girl he met in Ballet class for years. Seems she has this crazy notion he is sensitive and loves the arts. If she only knew...
Tip 2: Forget "seduction" and "how to pick up girls". Learn how to dance (Gardenier got this one right on the mark!) Pay for lessons or find a bar that gives group ones for free or cheap, and go. Master dancing. Make it part of your life, part of your recreation. Then, dance with every woman you can get your arms on. They see you can dance, and few will ever turn you down. Forget trying to pick them up. Just dance. They will pick you up after they see you are 1) fun, 2) not just after sex, and 3) in demand by beautiful women.
It's a Hell of a lot easier (and quicker) to learn how to dance than it is to get a longer dick! I didn't know how to dance at all until I took private lessons five years ago. If I can learn, brain damaged and over 40, anybody can learn. I have one friend who is the most uncoordinated, clunky guy in the world. I remember chicks laughing at him at the HS dances. After a year of dance lessons and another few of dancing, dancing, dancing - he wins ballroom competitions regularly. He met his wife at a ballroom dance, and she is drop dead gorgeous (he is the son of Frankenstein in looks and coordination). He is still uncoordinated and clunky. But man can he dance. And man do the chicks love him now.
If I had to live under a bridge, eat out of Wendy's dumpster and collect bottles to save enough money to pay for dance lessons, I would. It is that big a thing. It is more important than a big dick, more important than fancy clothes or good looks or a pocket full of money or a good pickup line or perfect macking skills. If I had a son, he would have been in lessons as soon as they would take him. Even if you only want one girl for life, she will be SO much happier staying years with you if you take her dancing on special occasions. If you are already married and can't dance, well, that would pretty much explain the infrequent sex. To women, all women, dancing is romance. And women live for romance like we live for sex. Take the damn lessons. Start today.
Tip 3: Forget lines, cold pickups is a NUMBERS GAME. Hit on enough women, and one will go home with you no matter what you say or do. I take young men who have trouble getting laid to bars in groups, and make them all put money in a pot (by the way this idea, like dancing, is in no way original - I met a guy once a few years back doing this with a group and I have been doing it ever since). Each guy has to have a pen and some paper for phone numbers. Then, each has to get turned down by 10 women of the groups choosing. To win the pot, you must get 10 rejections (to score one must just get a phone number, a rejection is not getting one). By the end of the evening, the guys see that rejection is not personal, and that if they hit on a few women, they will score. They also have a great deal of peer pressure to make the hits, which helps with courage. Plus, since they are trying to get turned down, their egos are not at stake nearly so much. Sometimes, I take them out again, put money in the pot, and the guy who wins gets the MOST numbers. That's fun too.
Tip 4: Last Call. When I feel especially lazy and evil, I will take an evening nap, take a shower, dress nicely and go to a bar 10 minutes before closing time. I look around like a radar and rate the unattached women in seconds. I start with the prettiest girl first, and see if she wants to share some wine on my boat. If she says no, I go to number 2, then 3, and so on. I am stone sober, at the top of my game, and I look and smell as good as I ever will. I have yet to go past number 4, and usually hit on number 1 or 2. I have also picked up a number of pairs of girls this way, as girls tend to sit with their friends and I invite them both back. Evil, yes. Skill involved - 0. Girls screwed - countless. Three ways - quite a few. Many a girl wakes up in shock at who she is with in the morning, and in Norfolk the dockhands even call the walk up the dock from my boat to the showers the "walk of shame", but it is so easy anyone can do it. No expensive classes needed, no lies either. But I admit it is a bit evil.
Tip 5: Hotel Bars are a bonanza. Girls leave home for seminars and stay in hotels. They are bored silly all day, and are dying for some excitement, romance, and a story to go home with. A bonus is there is a new batch each week, and none of them have heard anything about you yet (which for me is usually a good thing). At a club, girls play hard to get. At a hotel bar, they do not. If you want sex instead of a phone number, go to a hotel bar. Another bonus is that because the girls don't live in the area, they are willing to do things they would never do at home. Use your imagination. I find hotel girls will almost always do a three way with no hesitation, many will kiss other girls right in the bar if prompted. I always try to stay in marinas that are attached to hotels for just this reason.
Which brings me to Tip #6: Never, NEVER drink alcohol when hitting on chicks. You get stupid. I always tip the bartender well, the waitress well, and arrange for them to bring me non-alcohol drinks no matter what I order in front of a girl. I end up winning every time for no other reason than that they get drunk while I do not. Added bonus; If some guy starts hitting on a chick you are working, it is really easy to drink him under the table and out of the game in short order. Again, pure evil.
Tip #7: Country Western Bars. If you are a guy with two left feet, but want to get in on the dancing bonanza, CW is your way in the door. Most places have free line dancing lessons early in the evenings on weekends, call around and you will likely find one close enough to try out. Get some cheap cowboy boots at Walmart, put on your jeans, and boy howdy you are ready to go. CW doesn’t use the arms much, and you don’t need to master hip movements - mostly just easy, fun steps that even Frankenstein can master. You will meet plenty of girls at the group lesson, and since they are inexperienced too they will want to dance with you all night as opposed to with the better dancers. Even you Fred Astair’s will find CW bars an easier pickup than other clubs. I don’t know what it is about CW chicks, but they are all more friendly and much more easily hit on than in any other dance club venue. Even if you hate the music, you will love the girls.
Tip #8: Just for you college guys. If you are in college, this tip is the one that will change everything about your entire college experience: Take ballet class as an elective. I don’t exactly remember how I came to find myself in Ballet 101 back in my Sophomore year, but I thank God I did. Girls that take ballet are, for the most part, trim, good looking, exciting, fun women. The kind I would never had ever had a shot with at the time. In my class, there was one other guy besides me, and he was gay. Yes, I had to wear some awful leotard thing and this other thing that rode up my ass and squished my balls. And yes, I had to take some awful ribbing from my mates - for a while (of course they ALL took Ballet 101 the next semester). But I was the only eligible guy in a class of twenty gorgeous women. Now to be clear, I was hopeless at it. The teacher told me I would never be a dancer and I pretty much spent two semesters doing nothing more than lifting beautiful girls in the air so they could practice their leaps with the Neanderthal as base. Since I was careful NOT to hit on the girls (I was there to dance!), they all fell in love with the poor klutz that loved ballet but would never be able to dance (poor pirate!)
These girls would go to lunch with me after class, hang out with me at school functions, invite me up to their dorms and sororities for dance lessons. Any classes we shared they would sit next to me, and they even took me out regularly in groups to teach me how to dance at the clubs, and would call me individually to take them out when they wanted to go or were lonely. I think every one of them set me up with at least one other girl. Me, joe nobody on campus all the sudden was seen everywhere with beautiful women. And not just one, but in packs. I was the only guy I knew in college that could make a few calls and get 6 dates to go dancing, sailing, biking, pretty much anything. And if the ballet girls weren’t enough, other girls saw me with them all the time and they started approaching me too. As I said, I was very careful never to actually hit on the ballet girls. After a time, several threw themselves at me. The rest just accepted me as their mascot and fixed me up with all their friends. I was rolling in chicks the rest of college - even the two years I didn’t take ballet. I have since talked a number of young men into taking ballet. All of them tell me they owe me their lives. Some of them didn’t make out quite as well as I did, some made out way better, but they all made out.
And if you are the kind of guy that wants only one special girl, not endless sex with dozens, this is still a great way to go. Ballet girls are class acts, beautiful and smart. Several of my “pupils” have had wonderful relationships with girls they met in Ballet class. I even have one friend who has been married to a girl he met in Ballet class for years. Seems she has this crazy notion he is sensitive and loves the arts. If she only knew...
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), and go home a winner - so the tips really aren't necessary for you fairer sex so much...
