No-Fap, Have You Guys Tried It?

[keepingitbig]

I know I've been out of the P.E game for more than 6 years at best, but still maintaining my size despite being busy with life & stuff. Have you guys ever did this No-Fap thing? I mean obstaining from sex for long periods of time. Everytime I'm on the streak, my focus on other things increase. Like having the interest to work on my car, goal-setting and getting shit done in life. My longest was two weeks though. Sexually, when I'm on a streak and I meet up with a woman, I'm more passionate with her vs just the ole-In and out method that's popular these days. Plus, just naturally being vocal. Talking comes easy. Conversation just flows like butter and you care way more for your appearance.


If any of you been on it, let me know and what benefits you got from no-fap. One of my big problems is huge erections out of nowhere, that's my only problem with it lol.

 

[stillwantmore]

I think just learning to focus on more important things in general is healthy. For example, does this or that action or distraction have a healthy outcome, or move you toward or away from a goal? Masturbation does not have to be a negative thing. Mindset toward it is a big part of it and how you perceive it.

Learning to change a behavior and/or your attitude about it vs seeing it as something completely negative, or destructive. You don't always need to completely abstain from something.

 

[hamrocker54]

I know I've been out of the P.E game for more than 6 years at best, but still maintaining my size despite being busy with life & stuff. Have you guys ever did this No-Fap thing? I mean obstaining from sex for long periods of time. Everytime I'm on the streak, my focus on other things increase. Like having the interest to work on my car, goal-setting and getting shit done in life. My longest was two weeks though. Sexually, when I'm on a streak and I meet up with a woman, I'm more passionate with her vs just the ole-In and out method that's popular these days. Plus, just naturally being vocal. Talking comes easy. Conversation just flows like butter and you care way more for your appearance.


If any of you been on it, let me know and what benefits you got from no-fap. One of my big problems is huge erections out of nowhere, that's my only problem with it LOL.

I've actually done it for a good 1-2 month period. It helps me stayed focus. Better sleep. Sleep earlier. Better workouts and more muscle mass. Also as far as PE it gives me rock hard EQ. I talk to women more , the list goes on.

 

[keepingitbig]

I think just learning to focus on more important things in general is healthy. For example, does this or that action or distraction have a healthy outcome, or move you toward or away from a goal? Masturbation does not have to be a negative thing. Mindset toward it is a big part of it and how you perceive it.

Learning to change a behavior and/or your attitude about it vs seeing it as something completely negative, or destructive. You don't always need to completely abstain from something.

At a young age I've been diagnosed with ADHD. Even as an adult, It's hard to focus on one particular task and getting it done. I've done no-fap and books I've put off for months I can do now within' days and retain the knowledge of them! I forgot to mentioned I take herbs for focus too. It's better than buying pharmaceutical medication that really doesn't do anything at all.

 

[stillwantmore]

Well if it works....

 

[Avglen61]

I have only done this for a week (i did edging on the last two days?). My focus was increased but that wasn't the thing i was rooting for....
My main aim was a huge load but that didn't happen.....

 

[REDZULU2003]

Haven't had sex for nearly 10 years, but I masturbate a couple times a week, perfectly healthy to do, so long as you don't rely on adult entertainment.

It's personal choice, most won't want to abstain from sex, but certainly excessive masturbating, and adult entertainment is wise to control.

For me, it's down to spiritual, and health reasons.

Strike a balance, don't simply stop if you seek a relationship, control of excessive pornography consumption is more important.

I have Asperger's syndrome, relationship's have been disasterous in the past, and I find it more fulfilling these days to be free and single.

 

[DLD]

We have an entire forum dedicated to this.

https://mattersofsize.com/forums/pornography-masturbation-addiction-forum.54/

 

[49-er]

No Fap yes for years, no sex err not so much

 

[DLD]

No Fap yes for years, no sex err not so much

I truly look up to you! I have been celibate for 12 years now but no matter what at least once a month I feel as though I have to get one out. Reading about your success is showing me that I really don’t need to get one out. How did you deal with the frustrations in the beginning of your journey?

 

[49-er]

I truly look up to you! I have been celibate for 12 years now but no matter what at least once a month I feel as though I have to get one out. Reading about your success is showing me that I really don’t need to get one out. How did you deal with the frustrations in the beginning of your journey?

In my head I was thinking just about the positives that will come out of not doing it anymore, this gave me the strength to see it through

 

[DLD]

In my head I was thinking just about the positives that will come out of not doing it anymore, this gave me the strength to see it through

strength is what I need! Thanks for your reply.