My PE Journey

[DLD]

What the actual fuck!!

I haven’t really used the Mityvac as I got a better pump with the Bathmate but I didn’t do the MV justice. I used it dry. Today I thought why not use it wet….

Long story short, I will keep using it as it only has benefits in comparison to the BM:
- no edema
- no red spots
- better pressure control
- same pump

I am really impressed!

I'm glad it's working out for you. We put so much work and investment in this product that it should be better than anything on the market

 

[Hiaslayer]

Today was a pretty productive day.
Woke up at 4:45, did some pumping up to -8inHg for about 15min with SSJs and Ulis in between sets. At work during a break I did 5min of DBS and BTC-BS and did this again about 3h later.
At home I did some lengthmastering for about 30min. DBS and BTC-BS. The DBS definitely feel more comfortable and I get some really good traction. Afterwards I used the BM. It takes me a while to get hard and without the pump it would be almost impossible after such an intense length session. I did about 15min at maximum pressure.
Despite me really liking the Mityvac I feel that the intensity of the BM at max pressure is more intense than the MV. Should I go up to -10? The MV hardcore stretches don’t feel intense at all but with the BM it feels as if I’m ripping inner penis out of my pelvis.

What do you guys recommend?

Edit: I pumped up to -10inHg and that’s more like it but still not the same as the equivalent feeling when I pump with the BM at max pressure. Hink is even recommending to go up to -12inHg

 

[oldandlively]

Despite me really liking the Mityvac I feel that the intensity of the BM at max pressure is more intense than the MV. Should I go up to -10? The MV hardcore stretches don’t feel intense at all but with the BM it feels as if I’m ripping inner penis out of my pelvis.

What do you guys recommend?

BM and MV max pressure is slightly different. BM max pressure maxed out -12inHg, maybe -15inHg using a hand pump. But only using the gaiter, it maxes out around -8inHg.

MV goes as high as the cylinder can handle, which is around -40inHg. Higher than that, not sure what will give up first: the connectors or the pump. Cylinder will start cracking around -80inHg.

If you can go up to -10inHg, stay there only for 30 seconds, and drop down to -7inHg. And then swing back up for 30 seconds, and swing back down. Don't stay static. If you see edema, don't go up to -10inHg. Only to -8.5 or -9inHg until your fascias (skin layers) can handle the progressive pressures.

Edit: I pumped up to -10inHg and that’s more like it but still not the same as the equivalent feeling when I pump with the BM at max pressure. Hink is even recommending to go up to -12inHg

Are you using a hand bulb pump? Or just the normal gaiter pump where the cylinder gets compressed downwards as you get the water out? Again, the hand bulb pump can go as high as -15inHg. My modded hand bulb pump can go as high as -21inHg before the seals start to break.

Hink recommends to go up to -12inHg in his videos, but he also mentioned in the later videos to remain below -10inHg. Yes, we do recommend to go past -10inHg ONLY for a short period of time, just to influence the volume of pressurized blood to force the breakdown of the corpus spongiosa. But DO NOT remain static at the higher pressures for too long. You will develop bad blisters, or worst, toughen the tissues too much that it requires even higher pressure to break down the tissues. Tougher tissues means harder chance for easier gains.

 

[DLD]

Mityvac

 

[Hiaslayer]

ERRECTION QUALITY

I’m starting to struggle with this. I’m on cialis and still it’s difficult for me to get errect. I read those stories of people saying “if the wind blows through my shorts I get errect”. I can’t identify with this. Even if I watch a adult entertainment I don’t get arroused anymore. I am 38 and I would say healthy. I had my testosterone checked and it’s very high. I got a full bloods done a few weeks ago and that came back fine too.

The other day I wanted to have sex with a chick and despite her being on her period she wanted to blow me. Nothing, I couldn’t get hard. When we were just cuddling and I was pushing my whole body against hers things started to happen but as soon as she moved away, wanted to do other things or me standing up, swooooosh it was gone.

Ok, it was my first time with her so also some anxiety but even during PE (girth - after length) it’s super hard to get an erection. People in here say “just go in errect” as if they use a magic wand. It’s just very difficult for me.

When I only used the bathmate this wasn’t the case. Only since I started air pumping and extreme stretching (I really figured out the wrapping and can properly pull with the lengthmaster) did I experience these issues.

They say pumping improves EQ but all it does is worsen it. I know this somehow contradicts what I’ve written in previous posts and I can’t explain it myself.

I have not injured myself. I still get morning wood and when I deeply relax and think about specific things I can get hard but it’s impossible to stay hard. I lose my erection in the pump within 10-20seconds

Of course I Kegel but that doesn’t seem to help. I get a feeling during the day as if nothing is hanging down there. I’m at a loss

 

[oldandlively]

ERRECTION QUALITY

I’m starting to struggle with this. I’m on cialis and still it’s difficult for me to get errect. I read those stories of people saying “if the wind blows through my shorts I get errect”. I can’t identify with this. Even if I watch a adult entertainment I don’t get arroused anymore. I am 38 and I would say healthy. I had my testosterone checked and it’s very high. I got a full bloods done a few weeks ago and that came back fine too.

Blood work is merely a part of the entire picture. There are so many more layers to peel back we simply emphasized on what's going within our biomechanical functions alone. You just identified two critical points. First, blood work results are fine. Second, watching adult entertainment didn't even trigger you. With high testosterone, especially the free testosterone, watching any steamy adult entertainment would have triggered both the desires and normal male biological responses for ejection. Further more, if you have any build up swimmers in the tank, which I'm suspecting you got a bucket load of, the stimuli would have send them all into a frenzy to soak the digital screen.

So, where does the lack of stimuli lies? Emotionally? Psychologically? Overstressing through PE routines? If you want to share, do tell the brothers so we can all pitch in to find you the solutions, or at least steps forward to the right direction.

The other day I wanted to have sex with a chick and despite her being on her period she wanted to blow me. Nothing, I couldn’t get hard. When we were just cuddling and I was pushing my whole body against hers things started to happen but as soon as she moved away, wanted to do other things or me standing up, swooooosh it was gone.

It's no longer libido. Libido is a small little descriptor for a symptom resulted from a lack of sexual excitement. What you're having now goes quite deep. Cuddling, hopefully it was a little skin-to-skin (naked), triggered a suppressed excitement. But what you have may be further supppress what you desire. The funny thing is, even with a massive desire to screw every women out there and fill them all with the sticky loads, something else psychologically, and possibly emotionally, suppress the sexual beast from coming out. Give it a bit of thinking on this.

It could be a near past event? A further past trauma? When did this downward spiral issue occurred? Think carefully.

Ok, it was my first time with her so also some anxiety but even during PE (girth - after length) it’s super hard to get an erection. People in here say “just go in errect” as if they use a magic wand. It’s just very difficult for me.

You're not the only one, brother. There are many of us having a hard time. It's not longer anxiety. It's not performance issue. What's in your head, and heart, is effecting the total biological function domino, so to speak.

When I only used the bathmate this wasn’t the case. Only since I started air pumping and extreme stretching (I really figured out the wrapping and can properly pull with the lengthmaster) did I experience these issues.

If length routines with high pressure pumping are the culprits, it's time to cut back until your tissues are adopting to the stress loads. If what you said about BM is true, without any issue with erections in the previous period, let us know. We'll work with you on this. We'll figure things out by peeling back the real issues. Chime in, and give us the info.

They say pumping improves EQ but all it does is worsen it. I know this somehow contradicts what I’ve written in previous posts and I can’t explain it myself.

They, as in who? If it's this community, we did say pumping over time promotes EQ. But we also point out that it's not the high pressures that help with the EQ. It's the opposite. Its the low and moderate EQ. Normally EQ is between -3.5 to -5inHg. The moderate starts around -5inHg, and ends just before -8inHg. Anything past this range, you're not doing your EQ a favor, but you are stressing the spongiosa even further to weaken and build girth through extreme expansion.

I have not injured myself. I still get morning wood and when I deeply relax and think about specific things I can get hard but it’s impossible to stay hard. I lose my erection in the pump within 10-20seconds

Of course I Kegel but that doesn’t seem to help. I get a feeling during the day as if nothing is hanging down there. I’m at a loss

Morning wood is going in the positive direction. That means your stressed soft issues have at least 6 hours of break time. Now, go back to the cuddling period, or intimate period. Was it within the 6 hour period after your routines? How long was the morning wood on average?

As for relaxation, there's another trigger word. On top of that, think of something specific. Psychologist would flag this as performance anxiety, which is too big of a spectrum of discussion. It can be nervousness, but it's more of emotional and psychological triggers based on something much greater.

Let's peel of the layers one at a time. Let us know how we can diagnose this, and what measures we can assist you in finding solutions.