Learn How to Dance!

Seriously, I wish I knew how. On those relatively rare occasions when I venture out to the high-class dance club, where the pussy abounds, it would make for a more enjoyable evening.

Thus far, I have resorted to having about a baker's dozen drinks, then saying "fuck it" and making my my way to the dance floor. I guess I sort of sway, lean, move my arms and head and tell myself I'm really fucked-up and enjoying myself, so who gives a shit what anyone thinks.
 
You see you should have that attitude without even having to drink. I suggest you enroll in salsa classes if you have time. I would, but I have no time plus I'm broke :( It's a good way to meet new people aswell!
 
Originally posted by penguinsfan
Thus far, I have resorted to having about a baker's dozen drinks, then saying "fuck it" and making my my way to the dance floor. I guess I sort of sway, lean, move my arms and head and tell myself I'm really fucked-up and enjoying myself, so who gives a shit what anyone thinks.

This sounds exactly like me. lol
 
Dancing is definitely one of the best ways to impress women. They love to dance and are usually out on the floor dancing with their lady friends. If you are a good dancer they will love it.

I like dancing with the ladies, unfortunately I need the lessons. I'm planning on taking the lessons as soon as college gets out for Christmas.
 
OK, check this. I go to those places occasionally but I usually just get a beer and hold up the wall. For about 2 years since I have been going to some clubs, I have had many girls (OK maybe not many, but enough) ask me or basically beg me to dance and I have turned them down and just said "Sorry I dont dance."

Well this chick this summer, I had something kinda going on with. We worked together and all these people from work went. It was a weird situation. We had madeout at a party and shit, but she ignored me at work. She wanted me to dance and I resisted for awhile, but all these other chicks from work were like trying to get me to go dance with her, so finally I did.

24 years old, and that was the first time I danced-EVER. Plus I have severe social anxiety disorderand fear of embarassment. I didnt know what the fuck i was doing whatsoever, but it was fun. Her skirt almost cameoff a couple times. then 2 other chicks were dancing with me when she was in the bathroom (pretty sure they wanted to fuck, they were two other chicks I worked with that were like best friends).

I didnt pretend to know how to dance, I just did. And the thing is sometimes if you want something, you have to do things when you arent a master at it. you just have to gofor it.

Being a BAD dancer will probably help you out more than being a NON-dancer.

Yeah, I would like to learn how to dance- Anyone know a good way to learn how to dance?. I mean like club dancing.
 
I seriously am the luckiest guy ever. My gf HATES to dance, well she likes to, but just isn't all that good, so won't do it in front of people. She wants to take dance lessons, but I of course, make excuses not to! I'd much rather sit at a table and talk then go dance.

But I have to say, before I met my gf, a lot of girls would ask me to dance, and I would say the age old "I don't dance" and feel like an ass. They would beg and I would refuse, and they would go do it anyway. I seriously suggest those who don't dance at least give it a try. I mean who cares what people think, and you are more likely to get with a lady if you at least give it a try.
 
Dancing is a great way to meet women and also to socialize. I've been ballroom dancing for 8 years now. Salsa, Mombo, Cha Cha, American Tango, Argentine Tango, Rhumba, Waltz, Foxtrot, East Coast Swing, West Coast Swing, Hustle, Night Club Two Step and just plain huggy huggy dancing are what I do.
I also improvise, mix and match dances to entertain the ladies. They just love it and have the best time when we play on the dance floor like that.

I get so many dates I have to schedule weeks in advance and the calbre of women I meet is very high. Hell, they all have a ton more money than I do.
The thing is, I'm in high demand by these women because I'm a great dancer, they know it and they want it.

It's really cool because when I take a woman out and she doesn't measure up to my expectations in the trash she goes and I'm off with another one ASAP.
I don't take any (I repeat any) bullshit or mind games.

The problem with all the attention I get is I really can't handle all of them so I try to focus on the top three while always looking around for recruits to fill in when one of the top ladies drops out.

Yea, I know it sounds like a lot of brag, no fact stuff here but I've put in a lot of effort, dedication, sweat, money and have always strived for excellence to get where I am. I still take classes (great place to meet new women) both group and private to keep my edge on the dance floor.

I figure dancing is the next best place to meet women other than owning a whore house. :cool:
 
falcon said:
Yea, I know it sounds like a lot of brag, no fact stuff here but I've put in a lot of effort, dedication, sweat, money and have always strived for excellence to get where I am. I still take classes (great place to meet new women) both group and private to keep my edge on the dance floor.

I figure dancing is the next best place to meet women other than owning a whore house. :cool:


Gold.
 
Hey wants9, this is going to sound too easy but find a studio with the biggest dance floor and the most students. Just get on the phone and start calling the different studios. Ask the questions, how many students do you have total? How big is your dance floor? Ask them if they have public dances on Fridays, Saturdays or Sundays. Once you narrow it down to 3 studios go take a look see at them.
A good sized studio will have public dances once or more times a week and will draw not only its own students but dancers from other studios. The idea is to meet women so a studio with the most students that puts on dances gives you the best odds.

Independent Studios (American Style), Chain Studios (American Style) and Studios that specialize in International styles of dancing.

Independent studios are less expense than chain studios but are not standardized in their method of instruction. That means if you learn a dance like West Coast Swing or Hustle, etc and go out dancing you may have some difficulties with a dancer coming from a different independent studio.

Chain studios like Arthur Murray Studios (Fred Astaire) have been around over 80 years and have a style that is standard and is geared toward making you a natural leader on the dance floor that allows you to lead any woman with the least amount of difficulty regardless of where she learned to dance. The drawback is higher cost and smaller number of students.

International style of dancing has the least participation, the least amount of students and is geared toward competition but looks and feels the best once you finally understand how to do it. Here you will find the best women dancers with the most money.

Either way, when you start dancing, the key is finding a studio has the most students. That's where the pussy is my man! Once you get your herd together and have mastered a number of dances then go to Arthur Murray to get the tried and true techniques. Then go on to learn the International style of doing the dances which will transform you into a god.
 
I have a friend that has a pot belly, no ass, rotting teeth, rancid breath, and a face that would turn most people to stone, BUT!!!! he is a great dancer!!!! I have never seen him set a song out, and he is always in demand by numerous woman to dance!! And on top of that, more times then not he leaves the club with a different girl!!! So dancing is a great way to have woman coming after you, and it also offers an easy way to break the ice when your out on the dance floor!

Girthius
 
This sounds really appealling in a lot of ways, but I'm not sure it's the right time in my life to take up such a new responsibility. Falcon, thanks for the info. I'll file it away for future reference.
 
hey u guys i have alot of time on my hands I would love to learn how to dance. The "I dont dance" has come up many times for me. Im good lookin, just dont know how to dance, like at clubs. What should I do to learn how to get good at it? where do i find a class?
 
BeBobBox said:
hey u guys i have alot of time on my hands I would love to learn how to dance. The "I dont dance" has come up many times for me. Im good lookin, just dont know how to dance, like at clubs. What should I do to learn how to get good at it? where do i find a class?


Me too.
 
Hey guys, I posted how to do this a few posts back on this thread. Just when you call the dance studios let them know you are only interested in doing "Club Dancing".
Club dances can be catagorized into the following - East Coast Swing, Hustle, Night Club Two Step and Salsa. There might be a specific huggy huggy dance they teach you but I just ad lib that one. The ladies never seem to mind. I guess it just because women love to be hugged.
Hell, I've just stood still on the dance floor hugging a woman. She was in heaven.
 
Hi, Ive been involved in the club scene for a few years and I will reiterate what falcon already said...women LOVE dancing, both partner(swing, salsa, tango) and more dance club type dancing(house, hip hop).
I have a lot of experience in dance club oriented styles and am just starting to learn stuff like swing and salsa. IMO the best way to learn stuff like hip hop dancing or house dancing is to first find music that moves you then just start copying people you like. Watch music videos and check out the good dancers at whatever clubs youre going to. Copy then try to make it your own. From my experience, if you can go out on a floor and dance by yourself and look good, the women will swarm you.
Also, to reiterate what falcon said earlier...dancing is not easy. It takes a while to get good and you do have to put a lot of effort into it but totally worth it.
 
Ya dancin has helped me git laid many of times :D

At da clubs when you grinde up on the hunnies and you let them have a peek at what you can do to them if u was naked seems to drive em wild. When your grinding on a chick frum behind and she rubs her ass on ya cock then turns around and hugs you while pressing into you, you know you did a good job an dat she wants you for later ahha.

Even if you are dancin alone, and you are good at it chicks seem to dig that aswell. They usually come up and ask if I wanna dance. So I guess thats a factor in it as well.
 
When I used to go to parties and shit I could do it pretty well and the women would be lovin it, and like Kausion, it really helped me get laid, because compared to most of the other guys at a party I could dance good.....But then I start going to clubs, and thats where the real DANCERS are at.....

I was at a bar last on friday night and this asian guy was doin the Crip walk better than the OG's on tha TV do it.....and how the pussy swarmed....
 
BeBobBox said:
lil asian guy doin the crip walk - hahahaha

I see it all the time where I'm frum. Well they are more like Phillipino.

Word of advice, if you go to the club with ur gal and she asks you to dance.. DANCE!. I dunno how many times my friends say no to their girls and would rather watch their girls dance. What ends up happening is if the girl finds a guy who she likes dancing with she will give da guy her number secretly while her man is watching. This ends up in cheating and everything else. I also know this from dancing with girls who told me their man was watching and ended up giving me their number.
 
kausion_420 said:
Word of advice, if you go to the club with ur gal and she asks you to dance.. DANCE!. I dunno how many times my friends say no to their girls and would rather watch their girls dance. What ends up happening is if the girl finds a guy who she likes dancing with she will give da guy her number secretly while her man is watching. This ends up in cheating and everything else. I also know this from dancing with girls who told me their man was watching and ended up giving me their number.


So True.
 
I am having dance classes for 4 months now and all i can say is the most beatiful and gorgeus instructor, a marvelous brunette, a girl i am flirting with
danced with me in a very very provocative way, including rubbing her tit´s in my chest, and we trade provocative and flertuous words while dancing.:O :O :O I am having these classes with a friend,that takes away most part of the fear and turns everything funny. We both have phone number´s , e-mails, and dates coming from the dancing world.

And keep in mind that dancing with a girl is a thing that most seems sex.
Everything in dancing eludes sex.rofl
 
More Meat said:
Think you might mean exudes :D

That was pretty funny. I just came by this thread. Good stuff, been meaninig to try this for about ten years now. You still around falcon? Chime in some more on this if you can. Has anybody out there seen that fatboy slim video from a few years back with Christopher Walken of all people (awesome actor imho)? Who would have thought he could cut a rug with such expertise? That's what I'd like to be capable of someday. If any body out there has an interest in this thread you have to see that video. Also anybody else that has input please chime in with some more info about all this. I think this will be my next official area of self improvement.
 
Here in the capital of Brazil, yesterday saturday night i was at my dancing gym party, i saw a perfect brunette with blue eyes, and was watching her dancing salsa and zouk, she was like 5`8 " tall without high wheels, and was thin and had a very smiling personality and look likes so good than most hollywood celebrity. When she was dancing sometimes her skirt came up and i could see her marvelous legs, i was nuts.
To keep things short i was enjoing myself dancing the dances that i know, i don´t know salsa or zouk very good so no chance of asking her to a dance but later on i did a small talk with her and got her e-mail.:O ;)

Now i am doing zouk classes, that is a very very seductive dance, loads of fun guaranteed.
 
Royce said:
Here in the capital of Brazil, yesterday saturday night i was at my dancing gym party, i saw a perfect brunette with blue eyes, and was watching her dancing salsa and zouk, she was like 5`8 " tall without high wheels, and was thin and had a very smiling personality and look likes so good than most hollywood celebrity. When she was dancing sometimes her skirt came up and i could see her marvelous legs, i was nuts.
To keep things short i was enjoing myself dancing the dances that i know, i don´t know salsa or zouk very good so no chance of asking her to a dance but later on i did a small talk with her and got her e-mail.:O ;)

Now i am doing zouk classes, that is a very very seductive dance, loads of fun guaranteed.

I couldn´t fuck the girl i mentioned. Now i am on Salsa, loads of fun and girls!!!
 
I would kill to learn how to dance............ I tried a couple times and I actually had people laugh at me..... So fuck that :cool:
 
My05Cavy said:
I would kill to learn how to dance............ I tried a couple times and I actually had people laugh at me..... So fuck that :cool:

It's tough. That is why I say just opt for finding really drunk chicks. ;)
 
penguinsfan said:
It's tough. That is why I say just opt for finding really drunk chicks. ;)

lol Thats always an option. But I always aim for the really drunk chicks that want to dance......... on your cock.
 
Hey there just joined up on the forum reading and stuff.
Had to pitch in, cause i could be considered athlete and my sport is "dancing".

Yes it gets all the attention somehow, even as a tall broad, white boy like me.

Lady`s love it, somehow they think dancing could be compared to sex.
Good dancer, good sex.
My advice is to learn how to dance A.S.A.P. !
 
Watch some MTV Base, some more Base, lil bit more base... dance along to vids with cool lookin but EASY moves, dance along with a full length mirror next to you... half a hour a day.
Get tipsy, Go clubbin' watch n' learn from good dancers... it helps if one of your mates can dance... SMILE and laugh, if girls think your having a good time then you don't have to pull moves like a pro.

If you do look stupid blame it on the drink. 'wha? Really?.. i was drunk... can't remember!'

I'm by no means a great dancer, but i've gone from avoiding clubs to enjoying them.
 
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