Sounds like the new girl is just hot. Your girl sounds like she has a bit more to her.
You've already made up your mind. Don't get stupid and get caught.
That always works.Personally I would say fuck them both (at the same damn time)
But then again I have no morals.
But then again I have no morals.
peruano99;511953 said:
Sounds like you only care about yourself. This isn't a hard question. "Am I a loyal person or am I a selfish person?"
You've already made up your mind, otherwise you'd be bragging that a girl is flirting with you but you turned her down because you love your (soon to be ex) girlfriend.
This is how your girl will see the situation:
"I totally trust my boyfriend, he wouldn't do anything behind my back. I feel safe with him. Although lately he's been acting weird... hey, boyfriend, why are you acting so strange?"
Paranoia will set in. You're going to make her feel like she's crazy and a jerk for not trusting you, when your intentions are not in her best interests. Then when she's had enough, she'll break down. You'll blame her for everything, making her feel even worse.
Meanwhile blonde girl ends up being a short fling and ends up with some other guy. You've lost both blonde girl and the girlfriend that you claim is the best girl to happen to you, who cares about you. You're on your own because you wanted to talk about it with strangers on the internet instead of the girl who trusts you. Although she's probably not gonna be happy that you have your eyes set on someone else.
Next thing you know you two break up, you mope about it while longing for both her and the blonde girl, she punches you in the face when you try to win her back, you end up winning her back and getting her pregnant. But then she decides she doesn't know you anymore and dumps you on your birthday while telling you she's getting an abortion.
Happened to a friend of mine! Told him not to stick his dick near the other girl but he just wouldn't listen. "She's the best thing to ever happen to me, we're so strong we'll get through this!"
peruano99;512033 said:
Now destroy all evidence linking you back to this thread.
Situations like that are quite simple. You need to make a decision like that BEFORE you even go into a relationship. You want to fuck every girl you meet, make sure to get it straight that you are not looking for relationship, but sex only. Simple for you, simple for your girl. You can choose to be friends with benefits, you can choose to start a relationship, but make it open. There are different options. If you look for a love relationship though or an exclusive girl without love, it can be done too, but make it straight right from the beginning, so when situation like that happen you will know what to do and you won't need to lie about anything and feel guilty about anything.
If you are serious about this girl, you won't be considering messing with some other chick that might or might not like you.
If you are in a relationship with a girl just for the sake of it and just to get sex from her, than you are simply an asshole, wasting your own time and her time. A lot of men are in this kind of relationship, they become girlfriend/boyfriend just to get sex, telling girls they love them, but they don't feel anything and they cheat on them like it was nothing.
Cheating is pretty much for people who don't respect what they want. If you know what you want and you make a decision you don't need to cheat. Your decision can change in some time, sure. But, be honest to you and to people around you and you won't be doubting what is going around you as you just did. Being honest is making things simple and life is complicated enough already.
If you are serious about this girl, you won't be considering messing with some other chick that might or might not like you.
If you are in a relationship with a girl just for the sake of it and just to get sex from her, than you are simply an asshole, wasting your own time and her time. A lot of men are in this kind of relationship, they become girlfriend/boyfriend just to get sex, telling girls they love them, but they don't feel anything and they cheat on them like it was nothing.
Cheating is pretty much for people who don't respect what they want. If you know what you want and you make a decision you don't need to cheat. Your decision can change in some time, sure. But, be honest to you and to people around you and you won't be doubting what is going around you as you just did. Being honest is making things simple and life is complicated enough already.
Sacrifice one for the other. It's a tough choice. If you try to play the cheating game and they both finds out, you stand to lose on both sides.
squirt_inducer_man
(SIM)
You should never be cheating.
Jiko Kaizen
Banned for life
Why not ???
It destroys in it journey. You will end up alone. It is impossible to serve 2 masters