How to lose a girl

[fallen_one23]

I'm having some trouble right, now,
first I went out with this one girl, who introduced me to a couple of her friends, we went out and i talked to one of her friends a lot. went on for about a week, and we broke up, and her friend continued calling me, and I didn't think anything of it and continued talking to her on the phone. now it ends up that she likes me, she said she wanted to go out with me. now this girl has a lot of childhood trauma, some disorders and otherwise a girl you'd want to avoid. but when I told her I didn't likeher, she told me to give a reason, and I'm not going to say she's messed up because that'll totally ruin her, (btw she's suicidal) we talked good before, as friends, but her phone calls to me have been increased ridicuously, and I just want to break it all off, any ideas?

wow it ws hard to type all of that, tried to get thewhole story in there,and hopefully you guys understand what I'm saying.

 

[stillwantmore]

Hey, dont let the suicidal act keep you from losing a girl you have no interest in being with. Be a man dude. If she "offs" herself, that's her fault not yours!

No doubt she's using a tactic that people of either sex can be guilty of using. She's using your emotions to try and influence your actions. She's using the threat....or the insinuations that she may not be able to live without you...or whatever if she cant talk to you or be with you. Dont fall for it. Dont put up with any of her shit man. If you are done talking to her and being with her.....thats IT. CUT IT OFF!!

 

[fallen_one23]

thanks man, that type of reply is really what i needed, I'm going to do my best to get rid of her cya

 

[Xulf]

you could just say that you don't like dating within a circle of friends or something b/c it will be awkward if you have to hang out w/ the other girl that you broke it off with.

But I agree that a lot of people use 'scare tactics' to get people to do what they want and influence them. Get out of this before it goes any further, but don't just tell her shes a psycho bitch:O

 

[fallen_one23]

yes, she is close to my circle of friends, but I'm just thinking the best way to tell her I want to break up, without getting bs from her about why and how much she likes me blah blah blah. well its my problem and not your guys so thx.

 

[Super]

I got married to a a girl that had child hood trama, I have experieced this first hand!!! Get RID OF HER ASAP!!! You dont need that shit in your life.

Supra

 

[TheExecutioner]

Dude if she is good looking, why not screw her, then say the sex was bad as a reason to not go out with her
If she Tops herself, thats her problem not your's
Tricks of the trade my friend

 

[Super]

Originally posted by TheExecutioner
Dude if she is good looking, why not screw her, then say the sex was bad as a reason to not go out with her
If she Tops herself, thats her problem not your's
Tricks of the trade my friend

Hell ya!!

 

[slayman]

Originally posted by TheExecutioner
Dude if she is good looking, why not screw her, then say the sex was bad as a reason to not go out with her
If she Tops herself, thats her problem not your's
Tricks of the trade my friend

thats oh so wrong.

 

[stillwantmore]

Originally posted by Supra
I got married to a a girl that had child hood trama, I have experieced this first hand!!! Get RID OF HER ASAP!!! You dont need that shit in your life.

Supra

Or, you could do the "Raising Cain" type of thing...take on the role of her abusive father figure, keep her in a cage feeding her rice and dirty toilet water. She'll love you to death, literally.

 

[TheExecutioner]

Originally posted by slayman
thats oh so wrong.

Who cares