To be honest, I don't consider my BP my true length. Neither do I consider my NBP my true length. I usually just average the two out and say around 7 inches, a hair under, a hair over. I think that that's about what I can supply my wife, which is all I am really worried about in the end. Considering there is some deal of fluctuation with size as well, due to erection hardness, health and etc., I think this whole argument is somewhat pointless. Not that it doesn't matter. Only that it will never be completely settled.
I agree with swank that alot of this comes down to NBP versus BP.
Men are too highly competitive and too much self-esteem is wrapped up in their penis size. The more fit men are going to say NBP is all that counts cause it gives them a step up, and the heavier guys are going to say BP is all the counts because it gives them a step up. I said in a previous thread that I'm biased and going to say BP is what really matters, but that was basically just a joke. I truly feel it is a little bit inbetween.
So what's the cut off on acceptable BP? From what I have experienced here, it's basically seeing the #1 mark on a ruler. If everyone can see the #1 mark, no one really complains. I have only caught flak myself when I was heavier and the #2 mark (if that) was visible. When I lost enough
weight so that the #1 mark was visible on the ruler, the criticisms pretty much ceased. If that's the general consensus, then so be it. If you don't like it, you have four choices: don't post pictures, put up with the shit, lose
weight, or BP only deep enough to leave the #1 visible.
I have to admit that you guys have made some really convincing points and I am coming around to your way of thinking. I still think that a little more tact and a little less negativity could be applied to your approach to this matter, but then again, why should you guys have to be nice when someone is basically lying to you?
I have seen a few photos here and there where I thought the measuring was a little shady, and I held my tongue out of politeness. Perhaps that was more of a disservice than helping that person out. Perhaps the first, best lesson we can teach here is to be honest with yourself.
I know I am going to try to be more honest with myself, and I thank you for the lesson you taught me. I appreciate those few of you who tried to teach me that lesson when I first joined up, and apologize for the frustration you must have felt when my own self-esteem said, "Uh-Uh! No way!" But hey, you know me! At least, it only took a year and a half for it to sink in!