frind to girldfriend

[ArrowHead]

ok so theres this girl that i met first day of school this quarter and we been talking for awhile now. we go out to lunch about 3-4 times a week meet up on weekends go out to dinner and such. but she keeps saying things like we friends and all and i cant tell if shes interested or what. she always brings up her damn ex-boyfriends which does get annoying as i don't care. i do like her and i wanna be more than friends but dont know how to bring it up.

What do u guys think i should do any tips would be awesome.

 

[longstretch]

Move on to someone else. Your into deep and it takes massive game and skill to turn into your favor. Also do you usually talk to her about her ex. If your her little coach in a box she won't think of you as anything more than a platonic friend, almost like the guy version of her girlfriends that she tells all her relationship problems too. Also keep in mind why she keeps reitterating ( I know I just butchered the spelling but I have a final tomorrow) that you two are friends.

Also what kind of relationship do you have. Do you two flirt, how far do you escalate things? Does she show interest in you at all? Do you talk about or flirt with other girls and does she know about them (be subtle, flirting with other cute girls should be a part of who you are, don't try to make her jealous as some ploy b/c she'll probably be able to pick up on it)? If your answer to the last question is no then you need too. Women are attracted to men who have options. Why? Because women are attracted to men who other women are attracted to. It shows value.

I would say move on. Maybe even use her to introduce you to some of her hot friends. If you really dig this girl, which even though you've waited for a long time, it sounds like you do there are a few things you can do. Flirt, when she brings up her ex listen but don't try to respond too much or ask a lot of questions, then tell her how you feel. If she denies your pass which is a very good possibility be very cool and calm about it. Again a man with an abundance of women wouldn't care about one girl turning him down b/c he would have 5 other beauties waiting for him.

If she tells you she just wants to be friends take her up on that offer. Real friends introduce members of the opposite sex to their hot friends and girls love to play matcHydromaxaker.

 

[ArrowHead]

well all my friends say that she likes me, and that they can tell. but we do flirt kinda, i make her laugh allot and she always mentions it. i do listen to her when she brings up her ex's but its so annoying. she always calls me asking were i am and always wants to meet up. Yes, she has seen me talk to other girls all the time. Shes asian and about 2 of the other 5 shes seen me talk to are asian. (dunno if that means anything). i dont think i can move on until i get a certain answer, shes just too cute.

but nice answer non the less. but i wont give up on this one.

 

[ArrowHead]

any more inputs...

 

[samzman]

tell her your true feelings, be flat out. i did it and now i'm marrying her. soooo give it a shot you never know

 

[Wang Chung]

ye, i agree with samzman. From the looks of it, you are pursuing her because you are interested to be something more than friends. I would let her know that.

 

[longstretch]

well all my friends say that she likes me, and that they can tell. but we do flirt kinda, i make her laugh allot and she always mentions it. i do listen to her when she brings up her ex's but its so annoying. she always calls me asking were i am and always wants to meet up. Yes, she has seen me talk to other girls all the time. Shes asian and about 2 of the other 5 shes seen me talk to are asian. (dunno if that means anything). i dont think i can move on until i get a certain answer, shes just too cute.

but nice answer non the less. but i wont give up on this one.

Well with that said I would say go for it. You make her laugh, you two flirt, and she always likes hanging out with you. She might even be bringing up her ex to make you jealous instead of using you for advice. Just be straight with her, tease her a little and go from there. Just remember if she turns you down to remain cool and salvedge the friendship...and if she accepts plant the juicest motherfucka on her lips you can.

 

[ArrowHead]

and if she accepts plant the juicest motherfucka on her lips you can.

haha i will ill do it for you!! and yeah i think imma just tell her. i invited her over the weekend to watch a movie at my place. (parents will be gone) Who knows maybe she is just teasin me and waiting for me to make the move. ill keep u all posted thanks for replies.

 

[ArrowHead]

damn, well longstretch you were right. she said she wants to be friends and i told her im cool with that. (we still kissed tho)

 

[longstretch]

Well at least you told and she knows now. At least you had the balls to do something that countless other guys don't who want a little more with their friends. You did good you truly deserved that kiss!

 

[ArrowHead]

thanks for reply, makes me feel better hehe