Can’t cum during sex!!!

Although I am a virgin, I think I can help.

Missionary is the ultimate position to make a man cum.
Make sure you know which position gives you most stimulation and discuss it with your partner.

Other than missionary you can try Butterfly, Doggy style with her leg open and your leg in between, Spooning with her upper leg across your body.

Happy sex life:)
 
Different strokes for different folk. I honestly feel it could be psychological, please speak with your partner. There could be emotional locks that keep you from ejaculating during sex.

Nofap / refraining from adult entertainment is one thing. But I would talk with your partner first and foremost.
All the best to you!
 
It was a blessing when I was single running the clubs and doing my thing....????? but now with a wife who after 45 mins of sex gets sore plus with no nut from me makes her feel some kinda of way about her goodies... I start no fap yesterday but with my bathmate routine really heavy on adult entertainment its going to be tough??‍♂️??‍♂️??‍♂️??‍♂️
 
It was a blessing when I was single running the clubs and doing my thing....????? but now with a wife who after 45 mins of sex gets sore plus with no nut from me makes her feel some kinda of way about her goodies... I start no fap yesterday but with my bathmate routine really heavy on adult entertainment its going to be tough??‍♂️??‍♂️??‍♂️??‍♂️

There’s a much better solutions! Let me brainstorm this.
 
Well you can talk to your partner about yourself.

You can also have a sex session with your wife which will only be about yourself.
Do not pleasure your wife. Instead tell your wife to pleasure you so that you could know what is it that arouses you.
 
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Well you can talk to your partner about yourself.

You can also have a sex session with your wife which will only be about yourself.
Do not pleasure your wife. Instead tell your wife to pleasure you so that you could know what is it that arouses you.

Makes sense, turn the tables for awhile and see if the works. Maybe finish her off first and have her take care of you after?
 
Makes sense, turn the tables for awhile and see if the works. Maybe finish her off first and have her take care of you after?
Or....
Ask your wife for a sex session just for yourself to see what will make you cum....
 
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I had this problem before. Realized I was addicted to adult entertainment. I was so used to my hand and seeing more and more hardcore stuff regular sex didn't do it for me. Quitting was hard but was worth it imo.
 
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So, I guess from the username you love black pussy :) I'm celibate by choice at the moment due to more spiritual ways, however sex will be back on one day, and a black lady has been running through my mind.

I find these darker ladies really sexy now, when in the past like 10 years more or so I didn't.

A site called roundandbrown I started looking at now then, the clips, that real phat ass!
 
I hope we have been helpful to you my brother!
 
I have the same problem man ?, especially when I drink, no fucking pornstar on this earth could make me cum lol
 
I’m trying no fap which hasn’t been bad been to busy to jack it??? I was heavy into jacking off when I was a preteen and when I lost my virginity I couldn’t cum and thought what the **** but girls loved it so I rolled with it but now that I’ve married it’s started becoming a problem. But with the brotherhood I’m going to overcome it!!! Cum when I want!!!?????
 
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Well good luck (No PMO is also its other name), haven't looked into that community in a while let us know if you look into it.
 
Well good luck (No PMO is also its other name), haven't looked into that community in a while let us know if you look into it.

God bless every single one of you who are being involved with this awesome trend! For myself it is made me a much better person with a lot more respect for relationships and women. I know I’ve changed because when I do occasionally do those things if feels like shit! For me, listening to the Holy Spirit is my red light button! I have a choice either to listen to God or to be selfish and go with the worst choice. Relationships are meant to be beautiful and sacred. The Internet has pretty much destroyed that.
 
DLD you are speaking the real!!! I’m 32 and I look at the younger guys at my job and it sick how much adult entertainment has fucked there way of thinking what sex is.....
 
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DLD you are speaking the real!!! I’m 32 and I look at the younger guys at my job and it sick how much adult entertainment has fucked there way of thinking what sex is.....

When I took a stand and demanded that no adult entertainment be allowed in the brotherhood I lost a lot of traffic. I lost a lot of people who I thought were my friends but I guess they were only here for that part of it.

Today we are a definite guiding light to those who want to conquer these habits and help us keep our minds clear with a realistic expectations. Becoming desensitized is like becoming a heroin addict, even the strongest dope eventually doesn’t get you high It just makes you feel normal.

How sad when we become addicted to these things. You can start out so innocent and the next thing you know your life is falling apart. I’m proud that so many have gotten involved and now are on the NoFap train ?
 
It's adult entertainment man. I was the same way, trust and believe it. But after a few days of nofap, I could best inside of a woman especially when I'm using the bareskin condom. Get rid of the adult entertainment! It takes will power, but your body will thank you for it. Your focus will be on other things and you won't look at women as beings with the only purpose of getting your rocks off. One mentor taught me this ( he's a dating coach I use to talk to alot before he passed away in 2017 ), watching adult entertainment and wacking off to it gives you a sort of creepy type of energy. Removing it from your life creates more positivity despite being a negative world as we have today. Plus your drive and dream-state changes. Dreams are more vivid and when talking to people I don't look elsewhere, I stare them in the face like a real man.
 
It's adult entertainment man. I was the same way, trust and believe it. But after a few days of nofap, I could best inside of a woman especially when I'm using the bareskin condom. Get rid of the adult entertainment! It takes will power, but your body will thank you for it. Your focus will be on other things and you won't look at women as beings with the only purpose of getting your rocks off. One mentor taught me this ( he's a dating coach I use to talk to alot before he passed away in 2017 ), watching adult entertainment and wacking off to it gives you a sort of creepy type of energy. Removing it from your life creates more positivity despite being a negative world as we have today. Plus your drive and dream-state changes. Dreams are more vivid and when talking to people I don't look elsewhere, I stare them in the face like a real man.

A sick disease that will destroy all that is good!
 
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