Asked women to pick the perfect size: They chose 6.6X5.3

[Manx]

I made a poll to try and ascertain an actual ideal size as selected by women themselves.

Women: Specify your ideal penis - Mister Poll

If you average out the results then the mean average ideal penis comes out at 6.6X5.3. It's also worth pointing out that:
A: an 8X6 penis apparently occurs in about 1% of men so; many of the 15% of women who chose this option probably have never even encountered one this size.
B: A penis that is slightly smaller than the ideal size will equate to a slight decrease in pleasure whereas a penis that is slightly too big will equate to a big increase in discomfort. When asked (forums, polls) what is "too big" women will often venture a size like 7 inches (6 inches was the ideal length for roughly half the respondents on my poll). When asked what is too small women will suggest something like less than 4 inches. In other words, the average size is already a lot closer to "too big" than it is to "too small".
C: Similarly a medium sized penis will be perfectly satisfactory to a more "capacious" woman but potentially painful for a "petite" woman. Again, slightly too big is more likely to lead to decreased sexual satisfaction than slightly too small.

All in all you have more to lose by aiming for "too big" than "too small", so we can probably set the ideal size slightly lower.
If you remove the 8 inch length and 6 inch girth votes then the mean average becomes 6.4x5.1 and this seems like a pretty reasonable ideal. In fact if I'd thought to include a 5" length option the average length would almost certainly have been a little lower.

Basically what I'm saying is that the average size and the ideal size are pretty much the same: Round about 6X5. It makes sense right? If the female orgasm is a natural part of sex then why would men evolve to be slightly too small to supply those orgasms? Surely they would evolve to be (on average) exactly the right size? It seems obvious that the average size and the ideal size really ought to be about the same.

If anyone is thinking of getting into PE I would advise 6X5 as a good goal size. I guess you can do what you want with your body, but would point out that out of the women who specified an ideal size only 14% chose 8X6. So if you're already average sized and aiming for a huge penis, you're probably less likely to satisfy the average woman with your goal size than you are with your current size. Food for thought.

Here's a summary of the results. I'll give the results in order of importance (i.e. the questions where the fewest respondents chose "no preference") and the share that the most popular option received from the respondents who did have a preference.

The Perfect Penis:
Foreskin: Circumcised (94% share of 99% of respondents)
Pubic Hair: Shaved or Trimmed (97% share of 99% of respondents)
Glans to shaft size ratio: Mushroom-shaped (96% share of 96% of respondents)
Length: Mean: 6.6, Median: 7, Mode: 6 (50% share of 73% of respondents)
Girth: Mean: 5.3, Median: 5, Mode: 5 (45% share of 72% of respondents)
Ball Hang: Higher than the tip of the penis (88% share of 62% of respondents)
Testicle size: Big (91% of 46% of respondents)

So the most important factors for women are foreskin and pubic hair (where their preference is overwhelmingly for circumcised and shaved/trimmed) and the least important factors are the size and position of the testicles.

 

[tkto]

Lol acro I told u it cut both ways

 

[CobraStang]

You just "asked" them? I think that most women have no clue what 6 inches is unless you show them a dildo. I think that would be the best way to ask a women what their perfect size is, by showing them different size dildos. Nice poll though, its probably pretty close.

 

[Lightning]

Basically the most popular size dildo sold is 6" x 5" so it all seems to make sense.

 

[Lightning]

Manx where did you host this poll and what ages are the women that voted on it and how did you get so many women to respond?

 

[Lightning]

The Perfect Penis:
Foreskin: Circumcised (94% share of 99% of respondents)
Pubic Hair: Shaved or Trimmed (97% share of 99% of respondents)
Glans to shaft size ratio: Mushroom-shaped (96% share of 96% of respondents)
Length: Mean: 6.6, Median: 7, Mode: 6 (50% share of 73% of respondents)
Girth: Mean: 5.3, Median: 5, Mode: 5 (45% share of 72% of respondents)
Ball Hang: Higher than the tip of the penis (88% share of 62% of respondents)
Testicle size: Big (91% of 46% of respondents)

So the most important factors for women are foreskin and pubic hair (where their preference is overwhelmingly for circumcised and shaved/trimmed) and the least important factors are the size and position of the testicles.

I've heard, read and posted this many times. Women prefer a normal size, good looking, clean and healthy penis over a large, sloppy, dirty one.

 

[smerc]

I've heard, read and posted this many times. Women prefer a normal size, good looking, clean and healthy penis over a large, sloppy, dirty one.

I really need a sack tuck. I searched before if women found it attractive or appalling and most said they either didn't care or that it was sexy the way a man's sack hit their ass/ETC body part when having sex.
I'm not an older guy, but @ the rate my sack is going, I'm going to have to come to a conclusion someday about getting this taken care of.

Out of all the polls that are coming out. I'm thinking of revising my actual goal, which would be more of a midterm goal for me. Would also put more optimism in me as well.


The poll looks good. May I ask where the women were surveyed from? I take it you posted it on a womens forum or something of that nature?

 

[User182811]

That's all well and good but I personally would rather be more than they expect rather than less. I think most women would love it if their guy dropped trou and had a 7 or 7.5er when they were only expecting 6. Vaginas are so goddamn resilient and elastic that that size should be no problem for most women.

 

[smerc]

That's all well and good but I personally would rather be more than they expect rather than less. I think most women would love it if their guy dropped trou and had a 7 or 7.5er when they were only expecting 6. Vaginas are so goddamn resilient and elastic that that size should be no problem for most women.

That's really what I'm going for. That awe effect. Also knowing that there is no challenge too tough (in regards to other women that may get off on a bigger dick).

 

[emceemonkey]

Damn, I was the perfect size before I started PE... and I had enough trouble with teethy blowjobs then!

 

[jordey]

i also think its worth noting that there isnt 1% of guys with 8x6, theres way less than that! in a room of 1000 guys, the likely stats would be that only 3 guys have an 8 inch+ bp measurement, and 8 guys would have a 6+ girth. this is 99.67% and 99.2% respectively. each measurement is less than 1% of the population in isolation. however, long doesnt guarantee thick and thick doesnt guarantee long, and it usually isnt the case. so when we consider both length and girth together, this makes the coveted 8x6 even rarer than 1%, and the true number wont be known unless a new study is done. its probably in the region of 0.001%!. bit off track i know, but its worth noting in a thread about perfect size and how most guys goals relate to it.

 

[smerc]

Damn, I was the perfect size before I started PE... and I had enough trouble with teethy blowjobs then!

You were exactly @ 5.3" girth? I stopped my goal @ 5.5" which is a 1" increase from my starting. Trying to make things reasonable.

 

[Satyr]

i also think its worth noting that there isnt 1% of guys with 8x6, theres way less than that! in a room of 1000 guys, the likely stats would be that only 3 guys have an 8 inch+ bp measurement, and 8 guys would have a 6+ girth. this is 99.67% and 99.2% respectively. each measurement is less than 1% of the population in isolation. however, long doesnt guarantee thick and thick doesnt guarantee long, and it usually isnt the case. so when we consider both length and girth together, this makes the coveted 8x6 even rarer than 1%, and the true number wont be known unless a new study is done. its probably in the region of 0.001%!. bit off track i know, but its worth noting in a thread about perfect size and how most guys goals relate to it.

though I'm familiar with these stats and strongly endorse reasonable thinking, I always just can't get my head around the image that I should be in this tiny percentile (8,4 BP/6,1). I know at least one friend who has a way longer flaccid than me with prolly similar girth. He may be a shower but I doubt his BPEL will clock in under 8, So statistically this would be a very unlikely case, but nonetheless it's the case. Also I've met one in the gym who has a impressively long and thick flaccid. So despite all stats and the fact that these are only insignificant tokens I still have my problems to believe.

 

[jordey]

though I'm familiar with these stats and strongly endorse reasonable thinking, I always just can't get my head around the image that I should be in this tiny percentile (8,4 BP/6,1). I know at least one friend who has a way longer flaccid than me with prolly similar girth. He may be a shower but I doubt his BPEL will clock in under 8, So statistically this would be a very unlikely case, but nonetheless it's the case. Also I've met one in the gym who has a impressively long and thick flaccid. So despite all stats and the fact that these are only insignificant tokens I still have my problems to believe.

you also have to take into account that you will look smaller than others due to the view youre looking at others guys. a guy you deem as the same size as you may be an inch smaller in length and girth. the top angle we see ours from is deceptive. also the guy may be a shower. he may have a 6 inch flaccid and 7 inches erect. even then, if the guy who was similar size to you was 7.5x5.5, thats a pretty significant difference when you get to the bigger sizes. the percentages i noted are from 3 clinical studies of thousands of men, so accuracy is high: http://i.imgur.com/bsNrs1u.png

 

[Satyr]

Thanks for the link, Jordey. Regarding the perspective distortion: I can compare it to my own mirror image, so I think I have a pretty good idea what his flaccid size is in comp. to mine. But, yeah, maybe he's an extreme shower, Idk. But with 6" flaccid length you're pretty much on point.

 

[jordey]

Thanks for the link, Jordey. Regarding the perspective distortion: I can compare it to my own mirror image, so I think I have a pretty good idea what his flaccid size is in comp. to mine. But, yeah, maybe he's an extreme shower, Idk. But with 6" flaccid length you're pretty much on point.

even so, your mind can distort your view a little as its your own body, just how when an anorexic person looks in the mirror they dont see the real thing, they see a fat person. even then, its statistically unlikely that your friend is a similar size to you in both length and girth, however it is not impossible, just unlikely

 

[Manx]

Manx where did you host this poll?

The link to the poll is in the second line of the post.

 

[Manx]

I really need a sack tuck. I searched before if women found it attractive or appalling and most said they either didn't care or that it was sexy the way a man's sack hit their ass/ETC body part when having sex.
I'm not an older guy, but @ the rate my sack is going, I'm going to have to come to a conclusion someday about getting this taken care of.

The poll looks good. May I ask where the women were surveyed from? I take it you posted it on a womens forum or something of that nature?

38% of respondents had no opinion regarding the ball hang question. Most women think lower hanging balls look gross/weird, but only if you press them for an answer. For the most part I think they don't notice or don't care. I have pretty low hangers and will probably continue to do ball-stretching just because it turns me on. In theory women find it generally unattractive but in practice I'd find that I like having low hangers and my lady-friend would be basically indifferent to them. So it's not worth me worrying about.

If your low hangers don't bother you then I wouldn't alter them. One of the main conclusions of this poll is that women are largely indifferent to a man's balls.

Also the link to the poll is in the second line of the post.

 

[Lightning]

38% of respondents had no opinion regarding the ball hang question. Most women think lower hanging balls look gross/weird, but only if you press them for an answer. For the most part I think they don't notice or don't care. I have pretty low hangers and will probably continue to do ball-stretching just because it turns me on. In theory women find it generally unattractive but in practice I'd find that I like having low hangers and my lady-friend would be basically indifferent to them. So it's not worth me worrying about.

If your low hangers don't bother you then I wouldn't alter them. One of the main conclusions of this poll is that women are largely indifferent to a man's balls.

Also the link to the poll is in the second line of the post.

Great polls Manx. I also went to the Mister poll site and saw your other poll. As we can see, everything relates between the two different polls.
As far as ball size, I lean towards thinking that women see balls like how men see hips for breeding. Women probably see bigger balls as being more probable to reproduce than small balls.

 

[jordey]

Great polls Manx. I also went to the Mister poll site and saw your other poll. As we can see, everything relates between the two different polls.
As far as ball size, I lean towards thinking that women see balls like how men see hips for breeding. Women probably see bigger balls as being more probable to reproduce than small balls.

i think it goes both ways - small would be of putting as would very large and low hanging.

as for the size in the title, is it based just off of womens visual perception? if so it may actually be slightly lower than these numbers, no?

 

[DLD]

Great polls Manx. I also went to the Mister poll site and saw your other poll. As we can see, everything relates between the two different polls.
As far as ball size, I lean towards thinking that women see balls like how men see hips for breeding. Women probably see bigger balls as being more probable to reproduce than small balls.

I must be the reproductive giant! My balls are too freaking big and hang way too low...I am glad women like this.

 

[Longth]

I've lived the contrary.

So meh

 

[jordey]

I've lived the contrary.

So meh

what dyou mean?

 

[Longth]

women have had a clear preference to substantially larger than that.

my current gf has clearly stated that extra girth is preferable as well.

so meh

 

[jordey]

women have had a clear preference to substantially larger than that.

my current gf has clearly stated that extra girth is preferable as well.

so meh

but this is in your opinion and experience, and not that of the wider female population.

i personally think this size is ore applicable to one night stand types of situations. in my opinion, something around the 7.5nbp x 6 would be closer to ideal when in a relationship, as the partner has a chance to get used to the size and use it better.

 

[Longth]

Not saying my experience says it all. Just makes this moot for me.

 

[emceemonkey]

You were exactly @ 5.3" girth? I stopped my goal @ 5.5" which is a 1" increase from my starting. Trying to make things reasonable.

Yep. I measured at 6.5 x 5.3... but I would say I was easily 6.6 as I didn't really know how to measure properly at the start.

So yes, dead on the perfect size according to this survey

 

[smerc]

If your low hangers don't bother you then I wouldn't alter them. One of the main conclusions of this poll is that women are largely indifferent to a man's balls.

Not really. Sometimes I will clasp my legs together and they will smash against each other for a split second. All it takes it a split second though for me to cringe (or any man for that matter).
Would hate to do any type of surgery in that area unless absolutely needed. Other then that, it doesn't seem like an epidemic that men are getting shot down by women after sex due to low hanging nuts. So I guess I will push this all aside until the nut shaming comes along. Then I'm going to have to start my low titty shaming campaign.

 

[ma25ger]

lol, super low hanging balls here in a big bag. never had any women really say anything about it, as long as the penis is hanging lower or just as low it's all good i think. as for the perfect size when i was 7 it got painful for the girls in my local red light district sometimes or most of the time and looking back i maybe should have stopped PE there but instead i pulled even harder to get even bigger, stupid logic the bigger the better lol

 

[User182811]

38% of respondents had no opinion regarding the ball hang question. Most women think lower hanging balls look gross/weird, but only if you press them for an answer. For the most part I think they don't notice or don't care. I have pretty low hangers and will probably continue to do ball-stretching just because it turns me on. In theory women find it generally unattractive but in practice I'd find that I like having low hangers and my lady-friend would be basically indifferent to them. So it's not worth me worrying about.

If your low hangers don't bother you then I wouldn't alter them. One of the main conclusions of this poll is that women are largely indifferent to a man's balls.

Also the link to the poll is in the second line of the post.

Like others have said, as long as the tip of the penis hangs as low or lower than the balls then it doesn't look bad. But lower balls than dick is never a good look. Luckily though, most guys' balls get tighter as they get more aroused.

 

[User182811]

I must be the reproductive giant! My balls are too freaking big and hang way too low...I am glad women like this.

I have some pretty meaty clackers myself and I'm damn proud of 'em.

 

[smerc]

Like others have said, as long as the tip of the penis hangs as low or lower than the balls then it doesn't look bad. But lower balls than dick is never a good look. Luckily though, most guys' balls get tighter as they get more aroused.

< My flaccid length and my ball length are neck and neck. Mainly why I was concerned.
I need to invent some miniature taser keychain that you can place on your sack and they tighten up after you press a button. I wonder if there's a market for that.

 

[jordey]

< My flaccid length and my ball length are neck and neck. Mainly why I was concerned.
I need to invent some miniature taser keychain that you can place on your sack and they tighten up after you press a button. I wonder if there's a market for that.

haha, or just make your flaccid bigger!

 

[Satyr]

My balls are big and hang very low, a bit lower than my dick even. I never had a woman complaining about that and it just feels good if your sack hits her parts with every thrust. So don't worry.
Also I believe that the very significant preference for circumcised penisses is primarily a culturally specific one: in Europe there are a lot more guys uncut than in the States and also a lot more women who prefer uncut dicks.

 

[Manx]

When i was 7 it got painful for the girls in my local red light district sometimes or most of the time.

When you were 7?!?!?!

Just kidding. Yes, this was something I found on a lot of forums. When guys get to around 7 inches they find that they will bottom out with most women, something that women generally don't enjoy.

Also their women will start to feel sore when the guy gets to around 5.5 girth. I came across these figures frequently when searching for discussions about penises being too big. Such testimony backs up my assertion that the ideal size is probably somewhere just below 7X5.5.

 

[smerc]

My balls are big and hang very low, a bit lower than my dick even. I never had a woman complaining about that and it just feels good if your sack hits her parts with every thrust. So don't worry.

Thanks. As mentioned I heard the same thing about women and the smacking of your nuts as being a turn on. I just didn't want to develop some OCD about it. In the end, it's one of the things that makes us men

 

[mavekovis]

When you were 7?!?!?!

Just kidding. Yes, this was something I found on a lot of forums. When guys get to around 7 inches they find that they will bottom out with most women, something that women generally don't enjoy.

Also their women will start to feel sore when the guy gets to around 5.5 girth. I came across these figures frequently when searching for discussions about penises being too big. Such testimony backs up my assertion that the ideal size is probably somewhere just below 7X5.5.

I hope there is something you can wear around the base of your dick (to block the base from entering ) to make it ideal length for sex. Basically a fat cock ring with adjustable width would be great. I really want to get 9 inch cock but I also really want to have the perfect size for sex so you can make your dick "safe for vaginas" and pound HARD. Disappointing that I will still have to settle for 5.5 girth. I guess it doesn't matter if they get sore for few days after as long as they enjoy it during the sex.. if they're sore they wont be having sex with other guys in the meantime

 

[Longth]

i'd have to be over 7 flaccid for that. so the research contradicts itself for me.

really gotta ponder the effective knowledge base here

 

[DLD]

I think it brings relief from obsessiveness over size reading threads like this, it goes to show us that women have a very different idea of what big really is. But, even with this in mind, we will still try to get to a much bigger size and I think most men will continue on PE until they have satisfied their own size obsession.

 

[youknowme123321]

That's all well and good but I personally would rather be more than they expect rather than less. I think most women would love it if their guy dropped trou and had a 7 or 7.5er when they were only expecting 6. Vaginas are so goddamn resilient and elastic that that size should be no problem for most women.

That's really what I'm going for. That awe effect. Also knowing that there is no challenge too tough (in regards to other women that may get off on a bigger dick).

awesome poll!! i to am going for the awe effect. i say screw being comfortable with average though I am happy that average is more them enough to satisfy pretty much all women

 

[jordey]

I hope there is something you can wear around the base of your dick (to block the base from entering ) to make it ideal length for sex. Basically a fat cock ring with adjustable width would be great. I really want to get 9 inch cock but I also really want to have the perfect size for sex so you can make your dick "safe for vaginas" and pound HARD. Disappointing that I will still have to settle for 5.5 girth. I guess it doesn't matter if they get sore for few days after as long as they enjoy it during the sex.. if they're sore they wont be having sex with other guys in the meantime

there is no perfect size, so just go for whatever size you want

 

[mavekovis]

there is no perfect size, so just go for whatever size you want

Well for me the perfect size is when you can pound like an animal without having to worry about hitting the cervix so I'm wondering if some kind of modded cock ring would work as a cock "shortener" for sex. With 9 inch dick you have to be too careful with what you do otherwise and that kind of ruins it for me.

 

[Longth]

Well for me the perfect size is when you can pound like an animal without having to worry about hitting the cervix so I'm wondering if some kind of modded cock ring would work as a cock "shortener" for sex. With 9 inch dick you have to be too careful with what you do otherwise and that kind of ruins it for me.

If you take your time that shouldn't be a problem .

You can also angle yourself so you hit cheek rather than going all in.

Then there's the matter of different positions altogether where bottoming out would be a major challenge, and even if you could, angles could save that easily.

Being long is not for the lazy or reckless.

 

[tkto]

there is no perfect size, so just go for whatever size you want

Right? I know that alot of chiks aren't wife material for me cuz I'm sort of picky, but be sure that the genitals aren't all that important over personality

 

[DLD]

I think a safe size for men to aspire for and that would be fine for most women is 8 x 6, this is a bit bigger than what women really want and it would be a perfect size for bragging rights. Going beyond this size may be an issue for women. I know for myself, it the one episode I have had sexually since my girl left me I was not able to have sex with the girl due to being too big. She was just blown away by my size and said that she has never seen anything even close to this size.

 

[jordey]

Well for me the perfect size is when you can pound like an animal without having to worry about hitting the cervix so I'm wondering if some kind of modded cock ring would work as a cock "shortener" for sex. With 9 inch dick you have to be too careful with what you do otherwise and that kind of ruins it for me.

if your only goal is to pound like an animal with any girl safely, then dont get any bigger

 

[Jdcsd]

I think a safe size for men to aspire for and that would be fine for most women is 8 x 6, this is a bit bigger than what women really want and it would be a perfect size for bragging rights. Going beyond this size may be an issue for women. I know for myself, it the one episode I have had sexually since my girl left me I was not able to have sex with the girl due to being too big. She was just blown away by my size and said that she has never seen anything even close to this size.

Yah this is good for most women 8x6. There will always be some random small amount of women with tiny jiny and a small amount with large ones who want more. But the vag size is a lot like penis size in my experience. I've had a couple real tight ones ,a couple bigger ones and all the rest were pretty much the same. 8x6 will work nice for most women

 

[mavekovis]

if your only goal is to pound like an animal with any girl safely, then dont get any bigger

Naah man I definitely want a huge cock too. No one has given input on that cock ring thing yet... could it work well or would it be too clunky ? Let's say 2 inches worth of cock ring that's wide enough to comfortably stop the base from entering the vagina. Would be awesome to get 8.5 or 9 inches length and still fit every girl.

 

[smerc]

Naah man I definitely want a huge cock too. No one has given input on that cock ring thing yet... could it work well or would it be too clunky ? Let's say 2 inches worth of cock ring that's wide enough to comfortably stop the base from entering the vagina. Would be awesome to get 8.5 or 9 inches length and still fit every girl.

I know what you're saying, but I'm not sure what you could use. I never seen a cockring like that.
That's also the first time I heard of the idea mentioned. Sounds like a governor on a car, keeping you just around .5" from bottoming out so you can thrust away.

I think a lot of girls would look @ you funny if you was to pull something like that out.

 

[mavekovis]

I think a lot of girls would look @ you funny if you was to pull something like that out.

Yeah I thought about that but it's good to balance out the look they give you after you whip out a 9 incher.