Wow guys this seems to me really depressing for anyone planning on marriage in the near future. The biggest problem was that when I thought about it from my own experience, alot of what was said seemed very plausible to me. Anyways check it out www.nomarriage.com, it kinda freaked me out, any thoughts from you guys?
Anyone seen this marriage website?
I think its a very biased webpage. It only has people commenting who have chosen the wrong woman and/or are just not suited to be married. I am sure there is just as many positive reasons to get married. I think the people on that page is a very small minority while the majority of married people would be happy/satisfied with their marriage.
I think common sense places a big issue. If your current girl friend makes you act like someone your not then it probably wouldnt work out in marriage. On the other hand, if you are with someone who is perfect for you and visa versa and everything is right then marriage is real option.
I think at the end of the day if you are with someone perfect and marriage is a good option i think it is bad to read a page with that sort of junk as it pollutes the mind. If people are to read stuff on that page and anything else for that matter they should read it with an open mind not just get brainwashed.
I think common sense places a big issue. If your current girl friend makes you act like someone your not then it probably wouldnt work out in marriage. On the other hand, if you are with someone who is perfect for you and visa versa and everything is right then marriage is real option.
I think at the end of the day if you are with someone perfect and marriage is a good option i think it is bad to read a page with that sort of junk as it pollutes the mind. If people are to read stuff on that page and anything else for that matter they should read it with an open mind not just get brainwashed.
Personally, there is probably a great deal of truth on that site, sad as it may be.
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KiTTie8695
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It's either a fake thing or it's just a bunch of guys, or gay, straight or bi women that are miserable and they need somewhere to complain?
I think the site is a bit biased, but those stories and feelings are somewhat expressed everyday by the men I work with and my male friends. There is alot of truth in the website when it comes to attitudes between american(or canadian) women and foreign women.
Marriage will make a slight comeback once divorce is not so biased towards women. If you think about it a woman has nothing to loose, and a man has everything to loose (Especially if kids are involved).
An with feminism women seem to have forgotten that a marriage is a two way street. I am all for empowerment of women, but 50/50 not 75/25.
Something has to be said about the divorce rate in our countries, and the amount of men now refusing to marry.
Dont get me wrong, not all women fall in the "Bad" category but a vast majority (75%+) sure do.
Marriage will make a slight comeback once divorce is not so biased towards women. If you think about it a woman has nothing to loose, and a man has everything to loose (Especially if kids are involved).
An with feminism women seem to have forgotten that a marriage is a two way street. I am all for empowerment of women, but 50/50 not 75/25.
Something has to be said about the divorce rate in our countries, and the amount of men now refusing to marry.
Dont get me wrong, not all women fall in the "Bad" category but a vast majority (75%+) sure do.
bIgjOe said:
Amen to that, I have never heard one good thing from any guy about marriage. And I have dealt with alot of older people 5-45 years older than me, all married (some divorced and some still married).
Summary: "Women are a pain in the ass, do yourself a favor, instead of getting married heat up a bagel in the microwave and go have sex with it"
Sometimes I think if I had the cash, I'd do the mail-order bride thing.
I heard one time that American women have sex 40ish times per year, on average. Offhand, I remember that Russian women have sex around 110-120 times per year, on average. It was somewhere around there. Anyhow, the amazing thing I also heard was that Russian women in the same survey ranked their own personal sexual satisfaction as being lower than their American counterparts. What does that tell us? With their cultural upbringing, they are better at recognizing their men have needs and doing what they need to to fulfill them. Their native Russian men have no great reputation for being renoun lovers either. Hell, three-quarters of them are probably too drunk to care when they fuck about anything but getting themselves off. Imagine an American man that really shows affection and takes the time to connect and harmonize the activity. And then there's the way I LOVE to eat pussy, which I don't think Russian men are well known for. I'm thinking if I snagged me a hot little Natasha, I could be looking at a marriage with sex 200+ times per year. Well, nice thought, but probably will never happen, much like a milliion other things in life.
I heard one time that American women have sex 40ish times per year, on average. Offhand, I remember that Russian women have sex around 110-120 times per year, on average. It was somewhere around there. Anyhow, the amazing thing I also heard was that Russian women in the same survey ranked their own personal sexual satisfaction as being lower than their American counterparts. What does that tell us? With their cultural upbringing, they are better at recognizing their men have needs and doing what they need to to fulfill them. Their native Russian men have no great reputation for being renoun lovers either. Hell, three-quarters of them are probably too drunk to care when they fuck about anything but getting themselves off. Imagine an American man that really shows affection and takes the time to connect and harmonize the activity. And then there's the way I LOVE to eat pussy, which I don't think Russian men are well known for. I'm thinking if I snagged me a hot little Natasha, I could be looking at a marriage with sex 200+ times per year. Well, nice thought, but probably will never happen, much like a milliion other things in life.
Sikdogg...now he's the champ. I haven't seen him around lately. From what I remember from a couple of his posts, him and his wife have been together many years and still fuck and fuck and fuck and fuck and fuck and fuck and fuck and fuck and fuck and fuck some more. :clap:
He is probably been too busy fucking to waste time posting here. 
Me, I've been married about 2 1/2 years. The wife and I still go at hot and heavy all the time. It's actuallly gotten more spicy with the passage of time. A little secret from a married man. Wives love to do what many a girlfriend won't. A good woman loves to remind a good man she is and always will be thet best he ever had.
Me, I've been married about 2 1/2 years. The wife and I still go at hot and heavy all the time. It's actuallly gotten more spicy with the passage of time. A little secret from a married man. Wives love to do what many a girlfriend won't. A good woman loves to remind a good man she is and always will be thet best he ever had.nobody said:He is probably been too busy fucking to waste time posting here.
2.5 years is a marriage still relatively in its infancy. Don't get me wrong---I wish you all the best and I hope you go nonstop for the next 50 years. There ARE marriages like that, but they're clearly the exception, not the norm. Some of the accounts on that web site are probably the exception too. Most men are probably not as miserable as those horrific accounts, but it seems par for the course for sex and affection to level off after a year or two and damn-near vanish shortly thereafter.
I agree that there are many marriages out there that are in dire straights, but think about this for a minute. If it's so damn bad and beyond repair, be a fuckin' man and file for a divorce. Yeah she may go ape shit and try to bleed you dry but for me personally, happiness and peace in my life have no price tag. I think the reason so many of these marriges go sour is the same thing you hear over and over again. Lack of communication. The wife or the husband has a need that is not being fulfilled or is bothered by some behavior that their spouse practices on him or her. This starts early even pre-marriage. Many peole do things that are destructive to themselves or others and don't even realize it until somebody points it out. Sometimes it has to be pointed out over and over again until they finally get it. My wife was treated like shit all her life by family, so called friends, and her ex-husband. This really fucked her up and she had alot of mental and emotional baggage when we were first married. I felt I was getting fucked over left and right. But I've had feeligs for this woman since I was 17 (now I'm 32) and I love her today. Love is not easy, lust is a snap. I loved my wife and myself enough to want to make this marriage work. I've put in a hell of alot of time and effort into our marriage to make it work, as has she. We have such an open dialogue that if there is ever a problem on either side, it immediately gets addressed and remedied. This is fucking essential. I have very high standards in my relationships but I never ask anything of another I am not more than willing to give myself. Nobody should ever "settle" for anything or anyone in any relationship. Once they are guilty of that behavior they have no room to complain, they made their fucked up bed so they should just lay the fuck down.
Nobody, you sound like you got a good thing going. I hope to be able to have the same success, should I ever walk dow the marriage road.
Thanks penguinsfan. I hope you have the same luck as well someday. I used to be guilty of letting things slide in my past relationships and both sides paid the price in the end. I wasted alot of time back then and time is something you can't get back. I kind of think you have to go through those bad relationships though. Otherwise how would you know what you are looking for. The physical side of "practice makes perfect" is always a most enjoyable thing as well. rofl
I really take offense to their claim that kids are a pointless endeavor. They say the great majority of parents do not get along with their kids... Personally I get along fine with mine. So do the great majority of my friends. Everyone fights with their parents to some extent, but the saying is true: it's because they love you. I can't decide if that site is a joke or just the work of some really depressed people/person.
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KiTTie8695
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I think it's both of those, bigsack.
People are just fuckin retarded.
People are just fuckin retarded.
Well, most actions are probably a response to some emotional need. But people do need to make sure they're ready for kids before having them, as it's major event that is really not reversible.