I seem to be one of those guys who can make a lot of "friends" with girls, but never to have any kind of relationship.
The way it seems to go with me is that I'll meet a girl at a party or something, or through a friend, and we'd get chatting. They always seem to enjoy it, and I can get numbers and everything. But then when I come to ask them to take things further, they tend to tell me "I like you as a friend, but nothing more," or one of my mates will ask her what she thinks of me, and she'll tell them "He's a great guy, but I like him only as a mate"
Any ideas about how to act so that they will like me as more than "a mate"?
It has struck me sometimes that its just something to do with the girls I go for. They always seem to be quiet and shy, and they seem to have something in their past that makes them wary of a relationship. So does anyone have any input on convincing her I'm different?
I hope this is the right forum for this thread, but might I recommend to DLD that there be a "women" forum or something? Itd make sense, after all, once you've got it, you'll want to use it.
Thanks for any advice here, I seem to have asked a lot of questions, which Im sure will help others though
The way it seems to go with me is that I'll meet a girl at a party or something, or through a friend, and we'd get chatting. They always seem to enjoy it, and I can get numbers and everything. But then when I come to ask them to take things further, they tend to tell me "I like you as a friend, but nothing more," or one of my mates will ask her what she thinks of me, and she'll tell them "He's a great guy, but I like him only as a mate"
Any ideas about how to act so that they will like me as more than "a mate"?
It has struck me sometimes that its just something to do with the girls I go for. They always seem to be quiet and shy, and they seem to have something in their past that makes them wary of a relationship. So does anyone have any input on convincing her I'm different?
I hope this is the right forum for this thread, but might I recommend to DLD that there be a "women" forum or something? Itd make sense, after all, once you've got it, you'll want to use it.
Thanks for any advice here, I seem to have asked a lot of questions, which Im sure will help others though