I think you get to much notifications, I think that is the reason you miss some. I have also missed some notifications due to this.
I have set it up so I get all my notifications into my phones main notification area. My phone is secured, only I have access to it. You can edit how you want the notifications to show up in your phone as well. So you don't get all the likes to your notification area in the phone, but only get them to your

bell tab when you are at MOS.
I made a guide for that here at MOS:
Get notifications from MOS in your Android phone (From: Brave Browser).