OMFG, I need some good advice, this could change my life.

Well, as some of you guys know I recently got a new part-time job working at Walgreen's Photo department, developing pictures; as I feel this will help me in my graphic design and look good on my resume for when I do graduate in graphic design. Well, there's this woman who works there as an assistant manager and is absolutely the most beautiful woman I've ever talked to...I'm single, 24 years old, still at home, working on my degree (wish I was further along but I'm only a sophomore), no kids, no diseases, no drugs. She is 24, just broke up with her boyfriend, still at home, no kids...has her degree and is my boss; which is very intimidating for me, because she banks way more money than me...although I sell artwork and am currently working on 2 paintings thats gonna net me 700 dollars which is awesome but it's not a steady source of money like a legit job. I heard through the grape vine that she had just broken up with her boyfriend who she was planning to marry in March but the only details I got was something like "he needed to grow-up" kinda shit. I know that women who just break-up kinda need some space before they start dating again and need to know what to fucking do. Raven Riley ain't got shit on this girl as far as looks and body AND THATS SAYING ALOT, but guys, I'm telling you, this girl has it all and then some. She seems really nice but like any hot woman.... VERY intimidating. I mean shit...she's my fucking boss but we're the same age and pretty much the same except she started college before me...I'm workin on it though and it's very important to me (my career and future) which this girl seems to be all about, not to mention I can draw like a mother fucker and play guitar badass as well. Everyone tells me I'm talented as fuck; which I feel is a plus for me. I'm sooo fucking scared that she might laugh at me, but am trying to get past that "kid games" shit..I got nothin to lose and SO FUCKING MUCH TO GAIN. This girl is everything that I want in a women and if we hooked up...I'd marry this one after I got my degree. I need some advice badly as to how I could offer myself as a friend but I can't wait too long or she'll end up with someone else you know...and that would be like a fucking kick in the nuts from behind. I'm a firm believer in "everything happens for a reason" and this is like a fucking dream to me...help me please.

The last time I was in this boat was when I was 17.....thought this girl was way outta my league..in everyway....turns out, she thought the same about me and we hooked up...my current situation is both the same and so different it hurts...I can't let this one go. I need to atleast become her friend and I know it'll all work out from there. Please help, ask your wives and GFs what I should do and how I could go about breaking the ice..please do'nt say "Just show her your MOS cock" ...this is the most serious I've ever needed advice. Thank you for your time.

www.sosuave.com =)that's where i go for this type of stuff

TizZle said:

www.sosuave.com =)that's where i go for this type of stuff

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That site is pretty cool but I'd still like some advice from my fellow MOS brothers, at least I know some of yall and I know yall have GFs and some of yall are married; I'd kinda like to hear a women's point of view as to how I could break the ice. Thanks though, that site rocks and I'll definately take advantage of the tips there. Artist :cool:

Youre infatuated for sure first off. "shes perfect, shes soooooo hot, I think I could marry her, etc etc," all signs of infatuation. Take a breather first dude jeez. Bottom line is she's just a human being....just like you....just of the opposite sex. Be yourself around her, respect the employee/boss lines of course if you value your job, but there's no reason why you cant feel things out. Be friendly for the most part. Then you can drop suggestive hints after a little while of getting to know her on a friendly level. Friendly level meaning you've made small talk with her, gotten to know where she's from originally, what she likes to do, what kind of family life she had growing up...that sort of stuff....what's she like to do for fun.

Never place another person on some imaginary pedestal just because they have a vagina. That's a huge mistake a lot of men make....I see it happen all the time. And it gets them NOWHERE. In the end, the usually stay frustrated, or they end up settling for less in the dating pool.

When youre ready..actually when youre not ready and the least comfortable is usually the best time...bring up some of the stuff she said she liked to do for fun....and ask if you guys could get together sometime and do whatever it was. If she's mentioned what she likes to eat, theres another example.

Just some ideas that have worked for me. I never use that "so suave" b.s. or try to be "playa'" with "game". Some girls go for that sili shit, but the women I'm usually interested in never do.

you barely know her and u want to marry her? your trippin out man. if you dont chill out real quick ur situation with her is gonna get bad real quick. just chiill and be normal with her, or do wuteva u need to do.

Good advice stillwantmore =). Most of your tips i've read from sosuave. My advice to theartist is just do what you want, first and foremost. Do not place her on a pedestal. Do not become infactuated(if you are don't let it show through). Just act cool and calm and try to progress things naturally. SoSuave does have some good advice but the best advice there is just to go out and get experience and use some of the tips along the way.

Oh, well I thought they (so suave) were along the lines of these other sites that encourage a "playa" mentallity....like youre king of the jungle and women are the food...or should treat you like some kinda king or higher being stuff I've seen out there.

If you like your job... don't date your boss.

I'm not like....ready to marry this woman, but from the few times we chatted about work crap etc..I just feel there's a lot of potential...meaning I've NEVER felt like this before. What I meant to say earlier was that when I do graduate in a couple years if we're together; I'd probably consider marriage. She is unbelievable and it's not an act. I've been doing a lot of thinking about it believe me and I agree about just being myself (that;s how I've always been with women), keeping a professional attitude, and just basically get through the new guy phase, because I befriend everyone I work with and eventually (couple weeks) we'll be friends. She hopefully won't have a problem dating someone from work because I sure don't, as long as you work at work and play at night you know. I know that there are a lot of fine women out there too that need a good guy, and it never fucking fails that when I'm interested in one girl, 10 others are like totally into me. I'm just contimplating how I could befriend this girl on a professional level and just be her friend but at the same time kinda let her know that I want to be more than friends...eventually...because I can take it soo fucking slow and like it. Thanks peeps. Artist :cool:

I would approach her, by asking her can you play a musical instrument? If she say's no, ask her if she would like to learn to play a mouth organ, then explain that while she is blowing the best of the beetles you would serenade her on your guitar. and pull her G string. She can only say OK or your fired. At least then you will know where you stand, or maybe lye.

Good to see youre level headed about it all Artist. I can relate to some of what you said. I've been with girls and it seems like several other girls, and their friends (of the girl i'm seeing) want to talk to me more...its weird how that works.

ElGeorgio said:

I would approach her, by asking her can you play a musical instrument? If she say's no, ask her if she would like to learn to play a mouth organ, then explain that while she is blowing the best of the beetles you would serenade her on your guitar. and pull her G string. She can only say OK or your fired. At least then you will know where you stand, or maybe lye.

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WTF dude, I specifically said no bullshit and you say something like this. Did you even read my post?

stillwantmore said:

Good to see youre level headed about it all Artist. I can relate to some of what you said. I've been with girls and it seems like several other girls, and their friends (of the girl i'm seeing) want to talk to me more...its weird how that works.

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Thanks man, tomorrow is the day, if she's even going to be there. If not whenever I see her, I'm just going to tell her what's up...I'll get those digits you watch. Artist :cool:

The Artist said:

WTF dude, I specifically said no bullshit and you say something like this. Did you even read my post?

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Hes a comic. No worries with him. I actually like reading his posts because normally they are way off the wall and I just have to laugh. Check his other posts. You may also.

jakb said:

Hes a comic. No worries with him. I actually like reading his posts because normally they are way off the wall and I just have to laugh. Check his other posts. You may also.

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It's cool, I thought it was funny as shit, but this is serious business to me.

sikdogg said:

If you like your job... don't date your boss.

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Sikdogg is rite. Dont shit were you eat

steve53 said:

Sikdogg is rite. Dont shit were you eat

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Word, I'm just goning to be her friend at first to kinda feel it out, she's really cool but there's a few chicks that work there that have already approached me to say "hi" but I can read between the lines hahaha, they want my balls bad. there's this Indian girl that's pretty hot for an indian, she wants it bad...gonna have to bust out the ol' Kama Sutra . I'm kinda just looking at my boss as a hot ass girl but who knows....I'm starting class again this summer and first day Ima wear an MOS shirt hahaha if they're still any for sale see if I can't catch me some fish. Artist :cool: