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Hey guys,
I have this problem and i don't know how to deal with it. If you guys could give your advice, I would appreciate it tons! Alright well I met this girl in highscool through friends (my buddy's girlfriend's best friend) and we hit it off great and became great friends since then. About 8 months ago I became really attracted to this girl. We have always acted like we were dating. She would sit on my lap, hold hands, cuddle, etc.. So I thought she liked me. I liked this alot since I had feelings for her but I never said anything to her about it. Then on my buddy's 21st B-day I walked her out to her car and finally kissed her. She was in complete shock and said she didn't know what to do. About 2 weeks passed and she came over and we talked about what happened. She then proceeded to tell me that "she just wanted to be friends" and didn't want to screw up our great friendship by dating. She said she finds me very attractive and loves me alot but never thought of me in that way. About 2 more weeks pass and she still hangs all over me like she use to. Then one night she came back over after all our friends left from a night of partying. Then she sits on my lap and kisses me and we almost have sex but we didn't. After that i thought great now she likes me. After about a week she decides to tell me that she didn't know what she was doing that night and that her answer hasn't changed. I am in a huge state of confusion because I really care for this girl! We have kissed 2 more times since then but the next day she always says sorry and she doesn't want to lead me on. So she is attracted to me, thinks I'm awesome , everyone thinks we should be together and we look cute together but she wont date me!! Help me out guys, I'm going crazy! I tell her that dating wouldn't screw up anything. I'm still friends with all my ex's and we hang out regularly. So i don't know if she is making excuses or what. ?
Any advice would help me out guys.
Thanks
I have this problem and i don't know how to deal with it. If you guys could give your advice, I would appreciate it tons! Alright well I met this girl in highscool through friends (my buddy's girlfriend's best friend) and we hit it off great and became great friends since then. About 8 months ago I became really attracted to this girl. We have always acted like we were dating. She would sit on my lap, hold hands, cuddle, etc.. So I thought she liked me. I liked this alot since I had feelings for her but I never said anything to her about it. Then on my buddy's 21st B-day I walked her out to her car and finally kissed her. She was in complete shock and said she didn't know what to do. About 2 weeks passed and she came over and we talked about what happened. She then proceeded to tell me that "she just wanted to be friends" and didn't want to screw up our great friendship by dating. She said she finds me very attractive and loves me alot but never thought of me in that way. About 2 more weeks pass and she still hangs all over me like she use to. Then one night she came back over after all our friends left from a night of partying. Then she sits on my lap and kisses me and we almost have sex but we didn't. After that i thought great now she likes me. After about a week she decides to tell me that she didn't know what she was doing that night and that her answer hasn't changed. I am in a huge state of confusion because I really care for this girl! We have kissed 2 more times since then but the next day she always says sorry and she doesn't want to lead me on. So she is attracted to me, thinks I'm awesome , everyone thinks we should be together and we look cute together but she wont date me!! Help me out guys, I'm going crazy! I tell her that dating wouldn't screw up anything. I'm still friends with all my ex's and we hang out regularly. So i don't know if she is making excuses or what. ?
Any advice would help me out guys.
Thanks
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