bro. i broke up with my ex and i have feelings for her left in me. but life is beautiful and vast. meet new ppl. get a new gf, learn what other girls are like mentally, emotionally and physically. if ur meant to be with ur ex, ull end up with her again. otherwise, move on, get a new girl and find happiness elsewhere. bc once u go back to her, things wont be the same. things always change after a break up and ur both never the same. 
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I reckon it depends on the situation. Is there any advice that will make anyone come back under any circumstance? Nope.
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I think the biggest part of this whole thing is proximity: How long have you two been apart? I mean, if you broke up fifteen minutes before you made this post then I'd say stay broken up for two or three months and if you still have feelings for her, then persue her. If it's been, like, three to six months then give her a call and hangout as friends. I say as friends because we always remember the good times, never the bad, so you're probably not remember her as she really was. Additionally there's no garuntee that the 'spark' is still there, and you'll need to find that out. Finally, if it's been three or more years, go to a councelor, 'cause yeah... soO0oOky~ Kidding, sorry. Just move slow and THINK things out, don't FEEL things out, y' know?
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You might be better off without her. I know alot of people that wanted to get back together and when they did they were miserable. Alot of it has to do with the reasons you broke up, and why you think things will be differant if you get back together.
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Dude I wasted years trying to get my ex back. Its not worth it. What you have to ask yourself is "what am I trying to get back?" She's gonna be different...do you want that back? Its like trying to get back into High School after you've graduated...its just not the same. Unless its her trying to come back to you, girls usually make their decision and that's it. In my case, we have a kid involved, but that didn't make any difference to her. We got married when she was 21 (which she insisted on BTW;I wanted to wait) and spent a total of 13 years together before she left. She would rather be a part time Mom and just have her friends than be full time wife and mother. She felt confined by the whole wife/mother/family thing. I can't change that, but I know there's someone else out there that DOES want the full time mom thing, and I'm looking for her.
Figure out what you want in a girl and go find it.
Figure out what you want in a girl and go find it.
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sikdogg said:
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You know he's 100% right.
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dont waste ur time theres plenty of other girls out there!
thanx for all the replies. Lately ive talked to her and she said that she wanted to "hang out" with me. I still have feelings for her cuz she was my first true love, but i just dono anymore. I just gota live on. Anyway, ill see how things go, Im planning on fucking the hell out of her though. Last time we had had sex i was 6" x 5"" and she loved it. Now im 7.25" x 6" and im gona destroy her and if she wants to get bak ill just play mind games with her lol. It might not be huge, but shes only 5' 1" !! My turn to have fun LOL
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brittney_sue said:
This attitude really is the one to have ALL THE TIME. It's so counter intuitive to some peoples as it may seem anti-long term relationship, but in fact, it strenghten them.
Women want what they can't ( or think thereof ) have.
Be carefull not to fall into this Jerk oriented attitude.
