i have experienced depression, now i see its a waste of time.
All depression apart from very serious cases is a choice, i choose not to get depressed.[/QUOT
In my experience all depressed people understand that it is a waste of time. I certainly did when I was bad but if you really are clinically depressed then it only goes to confound the problem. Shithead I believe that you may be confusing sadness with depression. Depression is a long term affliction whereas sadness is simply a short term thing, a part of life. I think people have an overall state of mind that fluctuates a bit from either being comparatively happy to being comparatively sad but depressed people are overall morose and can by no means simply decide one day to be OK, it's a lot stronger than that. I agree that over time as long as you don't allow yourself to fall into bad habits of thought then an improvement can be found but it is certainly not as easy as just saying 'Right, today I will be happy.'. It is a common misconception, usually held by those that have not experienced real depression, that you can choose not to be depressed. I have read many books on the subject and the general consensus is that the best treatment for depression is a combination of SS RI antidepressants and CBT (cognitive behavioral therapy). CBT actually consits of identifying negative patterns of thought and eradicating them but it is not a choice of any depressed person to be so.
For me the most helpful treatment has been my alkalanarian diet. I have enough energy to be happy at times and also enough to lead a normal life. I think that the main cause of depression is diet so in a sense it is people's choice whether they are depressed or not but indirectly, through diet. I have tryed all kinds of therapy and meds but this is the only thing that has helped. And it's helped a lot. For reference a really good and helpful book is 'The pH miracle' by Dr Young.