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@Darklordz
Answering this post, because the tread where it where located, was getting out of the thread topic.
First step will be to not masturbate and watch �naked people movies�. If you want to masturbate it should be due to your sexual drive, and it should not be stimulated by watching �naked people movies�.
Second step do something else instead of watching �naked people movies�. Put it out of your mind.
Think of your behavior like drug addiction. You need to replace your behavior with something else, in order for your behaviors to change. This is the key with behavioral change, you need to replace it with something else. If you think of trying to force it away it will be hard. Because if you think about something the more it creeps into your mind.
I did masturbate and ejaclate today, even when I didn't want to...my discipline was very low (due to tiredness after work and bad habits). Tomorrow I need to get back to stretching. My rationalization was that I needed to help the fluid retention go away (wearing pel.wrap outside). This was a bad what what decision.
Like you see I'm not perfect either.
I didn't find the correct forum for this, I will change the location when I find the correct forum.
Doing kegels are really important to deal with premature ejaculation. You want strong PC muscles.
Kind regards
Answering this post, because the tread where it where located, was getting out of the thread topic.
Stop watching �naked people movies�, and reduce masturbation. Often when we masturbate to much, it can be a sign to dampen anxiety. Do you masturbate when you are bored, and you start to watch �naked people movies� in order to get a Dopamine boost/stimulation? This is probably the case.
First step will be to not masturbate and watch �naked people movies�. If you want to masturbate it should be due to your sexual drive, and it should not be stimulated by watching �naked people movies�.
Second step do something else instead of watching �naked people movies�. Put it out of your mind.
Think of your behavior like drug addiction. You need to replace your behavior with something else, in order for your behaviors to change. This is the key with behavioral change, you need to replace it with something else. If you think of trying to force it away it will be hard. Because if you think about something the more it creeps into your mind.
I did masturbate and ejaclate today, even when I didn't want to...my discipline was very low (due to tiredness after work and bad habits). Tomorrow I need to get back to stretching. My rationalization was that I needed to help the fluid retention go away (wearing pel.wrap outside). This was a bad what what decision.
Like you see I'm not perfect either.
I didn't find the correct forum for this, I will change the location when I find the correct forum.
Doing kegels are really important to deal with premature ejaculation. You want strong PC muscles.
Kind regards
